Marriage arrangements and how marriage works is based on the people involved, so don't feel you have to adhere to a set formula.
Further in the same way that love can be defined in hundreds of different ways. The love you have for your child is not the same type of love you have for your wife.
I feel guilt should not play any part in your decision, sex and love are different things.
I am sure you love your wife and children.
To me sex can be separated as a purely physical act and that is what is missing in your life. So if you have sex with somebody other than your wife its not the end of the world, and only the nature of your love has changed with your wife, but you can continue with your marriage and raising your kids which are the important things in life.
I would give this advice to anybody not just to people on TERB.
Further in the same way that love can be defined in hundreds of different ways. The love you have for your child is not the same type of love you have for your wife.
I feel guilt should not play any part in your decision, sex and love are different things.
I am sure you love your wife and children.
To me sex can be separated as a purely physical act and that is what is missing in your life. So if you have sex with somebody other than your wife its not the end of the world, and only the nature of your love has changed with your wife, but you can continue with your marriage and raising your kids which are the important things in life.
I would give this advice to anybody not just to people on TERB.