I'm in a sexless marriage, should I take the pliunge and start seeing escorts?
Hi everybody - I love my wife but after two kids, she has zero interest in sex. I've tried to get her to realize that sex is important for me with no success. Is this a decision I will regret?
In all honesty usually when a woman is not interested in sex with their hubby's usually three causes, "firstly, she feeling depressed, or unsatisfied about something in regards to a relationship, or its a legitimate medical issue."
The reason I say this is because I was in a relationship that ended like this, and this was told to me by some medical and mental professionals. Depression can be seen in many ways, and does come out in many forms. Sexual can be one of them.
As a result I stay out of them...would take a very special kind of woman for me to even consider another one, have I found fuck no......so this is why I say look at everything in your relationship before you step the wrong way.
Also in the area of the medical, age, illness, stress, diabetes, many causes," I do not think a board is a good place to get advice in matter such as this, since no one can see your relationship, and how it works, we have only hear say.
The matrix of every individuals relationship differs from one another, but when ones sexuality is in question men unlike women, begin to doubt, grow angry, frustrated, resentful, and move towards outside entities where they feel they can resolve there problems. As well as regain some emotional self gradification.
Honestly my friend there is no point in hobbying for you, if you honestly love your wife and desire to stand firm in your relationship with. Since you have issue on the plate that need to be resolved such as the question," Why?" She is in this state of low desire for sexual interest.
Ask yourself is your wife on medication, regular use, not varied, if she depressed, feeling stressed, honestly counselling may help, but this is up to you and her....getting advice on a escort board, well not a good first step LOL
As for how your marriage will end is again in both you ball courts....but resolving it through paying for the attention of ladies for sexual gratification. I think you better work on you relationship first, and see if the foundation is solid or going to crumble.
Dimly we look face to face in the mirror - this how we find resolution....who knows the real problem....until the communication and deep feeling talk begins....but chasing muff and releasing a load is not going to fix the problem still at home.