Rule Number 1 of Fight Club..

GDLLover

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Maybe this is the problem. This is a fantasy to too many here. Pop your nut when you get horny and be done with it. This sint a fantasy...If it is you need to STOP POSTING AS MUCH HERE AND GET OUTSIDE.
You may be on to something here, I usually like to bust a nut and be on my way, write a review if it's warranted, and life goes on, not make it a large part of my life. Good observation.

I could never understand the fascination with these escorts, they provide a brief pleasurable experience, and we both go our separate ways.
Maybe you guys are in the wrong place, if your looking to just bust a nut then there's more economic solutions for you. Hang out on CL or the SW scene and you can get your wham bams, at bagain pricess.

If I were looking just to just quickly bust a nut, i'll stay at home and take matters into my own hands as most ladies here are not in that category.

Fantasy is part of seeing an escort, they go to great lengths to make your session a fantasy of sorts, believe it or not some of us want to hear how effective their fantasy technique is which is somewhat more important than straight sex.

Agreed you must see comparison reviews to determine if the sessions are always the same (vanilla) or one of a kinds to different parties. Only the reader can determine what ladies will fit their style.

I recommend you just ignore the reviewers where you don't like their style.
 

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You are too polite- but excellent comments

Maybe you guys are in the wrong place, if your looking to just bust a nut then there's more economic solutions for you. Hang out on CL or the SW scene and you can get your wham bams, at bagain pricess.

If I were looking just to just quickly bust a nut, i'll stay at home and take matters into my own hands as most ladies here are not in that category.

Fantasy is part of seeing an escort, they go to great lengths to make your session a fantasy of sorts, believe it or not some of us want to hear how effective their fantasy technique is which is somewhat more important than straight sex.

Agreed you must see comparison reviews to determine if the sessions are always the same (vanilla) or one of a kinds to different parties. Only the reader can determine what ladies will fit their style.

I recommend you just ignore the reviewers where you don't like their style.

Obviously the scum like 7.5 and Ballzdeep have deep contempt for women
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Boys, boys, boys, only one way to solve this.
And given the title of the thread, it's not too hard to figure it out. :D
Rule #7: The fights go on as long as they have to.
We just need to find a place big enough to accommodate TerbNation.

BTW I thought Ed Norton had a better "acting" performance in American History X than Fight Club.
 
The real issue is that a TERB member who keeps a low profile and his membership secret should be treated and serviced equally to a TERB member who announces he's a member to the whole world and to every SP and agency owner he meets....
Explain this one to me please because I completely understand why a person would book via PM here on TERB, or let themselves be known as a reviewer. Why not? He gets better bang for his buck. Being upset with the provider or agency for this is like a wife getting mad at the mistress and not the husband. You need to take this up with your fellow hobbyists, or better yet, learn how to read a review properly to know if the reviewer was known or not. Of course I am not talking about those who use TERB as a form of blackmail either.

However this is something done all the time in every other business out there. If you are known, you get great service. If you are not, you get the standard. It is your job as the hobbyist AND the TERB member to do your homework and find out which providers give CONSISTENT service regardless of knowing a person's TERB handle. You need to find out if the providers standard service is about the same as her GREAT service provided to those she knows.

In the case of Funny-Face, yes he is known by providers, but all the providers he has reviewed have other reviews stating the same things. This shows you that the service is consistent.

You guys are never going to agree on a reviewing system, but you can learn how to write your reviews a little better and how to keep in mind that your reviews are mainly for your fellow hobbyist, so give them what they need. Be honest. If the provider knows you, then say so for fuck sakes. Who cares, just be honest.

For the rest, learn how to read a review properly. The reader has more responsibility then the reviewer or the provider and I think that is something that has gotten lost here. It is your money, so do your research. Never take one reviewers account as gospel, I dont' care who he is. Do your homework. If you have done that, then it doesn't matter what one reviewer says. It matters what ALL the reviewers have said.

There will be a blog article about that next week for those wanting to know how to properly read a review.
 

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Explain this one to me please because I completely understand why a person would book via PM here on TERB, or let themselves be known as a reviewer. Why not? He gets better bang for his buck. Being upset with the provider or agency for this is like a wife getting mad at the mistress and not the husband. You need to take this up with your fellow hobbyists, or better yet, learn how to read a review properly to know if the reviewer was known or not. Of course I am not talking about those who use TERB as a form of blackmail either.

However this is something done all the time in every other business out there. If you are known, you get great service. If you are not, you get the standard. It is your job as the hobbyist AND the TERB member to do your homework and find out which providers give CONSISTENT service regardless of knowing a person's TERB handle. You need to find out if the providers standard service is about the same as her GREAT service provided to those she knows.

In the case of Funny-Face, yes he is known by providers, but all the providers he has reviewed have other reviews stating the same things. This shows you that the service is consistent.

You guys are never going to agree on a reviewing system, but you can learn how to write your reviews a little better and how to keep in mind that your reviews are mainly for your fellow hobbyist, so give them what they need. Be honest. If the provider knows you, then say so for fuck sakes. Who cares, just be honest.

For the rest, learn how to read a review properly. The reader has more responsibility then the reviewer or the provider and I think that is something that has gotten lost here. It is your money, so do your research. Never take one reviewers account as gospel, I dont' care who he is. Do your homework. If you have done that, then it doesn't matter what one reviewer says. It matters what ALL the reviewers have said.

There will be a blog article about that next week for those wanting to know how to properly read a review.
Wow, that says it all. Too bad you couldn't be around before to make this comment, would've saved lots of time and drama. Also too bad you retired before I had the chance to see you. I love doing it with smart women.

OK Thread closed.
 

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Wow, you are so wonderful, Kya_Jean, the bestest and the most smartest of them all! I want to lick your pussy over and over and over again when I read your posts. :p

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Anyone else find it a bit hypocritical when veterans here say "don't mention terb", yet they meet SPs at terb functions?

:rolleyes:
Never been to a Terb party. Can someone go there, mix and mingle with SP's and not reveal your handle? If so then i don't find it hypocritical.
 

Brill

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Never been to a Terb party. Can someone go there, mix and mingle with SP's and not reveal your handle? If so then i don't find it hypocritical.
They would see you belong to terb, that's enough to get you better service.
The hypocritical part is the veteran terb members who say "don't mention terb", yet go to these functions and get recognized by all the girls.

I don't feel strongly about this, the cat's been out of the bag for a few years. The part I don't like is when every single girl get's 10's in looks and service, some don't differentiate between the great, the pretty good and the so-so girls.
 
Wow, that says it all. Too bad you couldn't be around before to make this comment, would've saved lots of time and drama. Also too bad you retired before I had the chance to see you. I love doing it with smart women.

OK Thread closed.
Sorry hon, Busy week or I would have saved you all the trouble.

As for doing it with a smart chick - it is too bad, I would have left my glasses on for you too. LOL


Wow, you are so wonderful, Kya_Jean, the bestest and the most smartest of them all! I want to lick your pussy over and over and over again when I read your posts.

OK Thread closed.
I may have to take you up on that. Mr.D has been away and therefore laking in his duties. :(

They would see you belong to terb, that's enough to get you better service.
The hypocritical part is the veteran terb members who say "don't mention terb", yet go to these functions and get recognized by all the girls.

I don't feel strongly about this, the cat's been out of the bag for a few years. The part I don't like is when every single girl get's 10's in looks and service, some don't differentiate between the great, the pretty good and the so-so girls.
See this is why I said to get rid of the number ratings all together. I have written my "write a review" article on my blog. It was a bit rushed, but it gives people a basic starting point if they really want to review for the right reasons.

There are a few other reasons for review writing, but that is a whole other topic all together.
 

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Obviously the scum like 7.5 and Ballzdeep have deep contempt for women.:mad:
In a thread filled with many questionable opinions, this has to be the absolute stupidest.
 

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Rockslinger

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completely understand why a person would book via PM here on TERB, or let themselves be known as a reviewer. Why not? He gets better bang for his buck.
Damn! Why didn't someone tell me this 10 years ago when I joined TERB:mad:? I could have gotten a better bang for the buck. Damn again!

Actually, I have a theory that NOT telling your TERB handle also gets you a better bang for the buck. This is because the SP will say to herself: "This man might be a TERBIE. I better bring my "A" game to-night. Otherwise, he'll blab to the "Five Horsemen" that my service is crap (bad for business)."
 

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Careful Shack

In a thread filled with many questionable opinions, this has to be the absolute stupidest.
Do you really want to side with the trash?:confused:

Keep in mind, my comment is not just based on this thread, but their 'body of work'.
 

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If the provider knows you, then say so for fuck sakes. Who cares, just be honest.
I'm sorry, but this really pisses me off.

It pisses me off because I was planning to post pretty much the same idea, and hadn't considered the possibility someone would have already beat me to it.

I do think this is a reasonable compromise that may help address this issue. Reviewers who have revealed their true identity could include a disclaimer, if you like, that the SP (and I would add the agency, where appropriate) knows your identity.

For those who don't care, it won't matter. And for those who do think it's an issue, at least the information has been provided in a transparent manner and you can decide for yourself whether it affects your assessment of the review.

Way to go, Kya_Jean. Score one point for the union.
 

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Actually, I have a theory that NOT telling your TERB handle also gets you a better bang for the buck. This is because the SP will say to herself: "This man might be a TERBIE. I better bring my "A" game to-night. Otherwise, he'll blab to the "Five Horsemen" that my service is crap (bad for business)."
Given your rationale, are you saying: If you tell her you are on TERB, she will bring her "B" game? Your logic does not make sense.
 

shack

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Do you really want to side with the trash?:confused:

Keep in mind, my comment is not just based on this thread, but their 'body of work'.
Actually, I'm a fence sitter on the topic, as I see both sides.

I don't think they're claiming outright shill, as in "for hire reviews", but if so many reviews are over the top, after a while they lose their value. As well, I don't think anyone disputes the fact that if a lady knows that someone is a reviewer, there is at least a possibility that she may provide preferential service, which again dilutes the value of a review to the general population of TERB. On the other hand, if someone had a great session they are entitled to pass on the info. But now, instead of at face value, it has to be taken with a grain of salt, which should not have to be necessary.

No, where my objection lies is A)calling people who dare to have a different point of view scum and trash and B) twisting around a harmless, if slightly misworded comment, to say that they have contempt of women, i.e. they are sexist. Very similar to some cases where people are wrongly accused of being racist because of some innocent comment taken the wrong way.

Go ahead and disagree, but don't be a jerk about it when it is uncalled for. Play nice.
 

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Given your rationale, are you saying: If you tell her you are on TERB, she will bring her "B" game? Your logic does not make sense.
Telling her you are on TERB means she will bring her "A" game because of the 1,000 reasons already espoused on this thread.

Not telling her you are on TERB might make her think you are actually on TERB and she will also bring her "A" game because she doen't want to take the chance that you are not on TERB. Sort like the "mystery shopper" game that Wal-Mart plays with their staff.

Guys, stop making things complicated. Just tell the lady that your are a card carrying member of TERB if you think that it will guarantee you will get her "A" game. If you believe in conspiracy theories maybe the guys who invented the "fight club" rule did it to...............................
 

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racing to the bottom . . .

. . . I completely understand why a person . . . let themselves be known as a reviewer. Why not? . . . If you are known, you get great service. If you are not, you get the standard . . . You guys are never going to agree on a reviewing system . . . The reader has more responsibility then the reviewer or the provider and I think that is something that has gotten lost here . . .There will be a blog article about that next week for those wanting to know how to properly read a review.
Apologies to those few kiss arses who bleated on about how miraculously intelligent this post was, but sorry, it wasn't. Wake up, terbnutters . . . if this whole hobby has three interest groups - clients, SP's, agencies - then the interest group most likely to lose out by a non-functioning review system is CLIENTS. Duh! The pool of information represented by terb is the only real quality control mechanism available.

Here's the part that appears to be escaping some of the dimmer bulbs around here . . . When the reviewer is known to be taking a kick-back from the one reviewed, then most commentary on reviewing systems say that review system is breaking down or being robbed of legitimacy. Case in point: pharmaceutical companies that give stock options or cash to doctors who write favourable reviews of the company product. Result? Widespread distrust of drug companies and much fraud and misrepresentation by those companies.

Of course, maybe KJ is smarter than I am giving her credit for here? Maybe she realizes that many terbites are pretty dim, and that if she sucks them into helping turn the review process into a known kick-back system, that is likely to relieve any real quality control measure on SP's and agencies. If this is so, then kudos to KJ for duping you tools! But come on, lads, think it through.

Let me try and get out a version of what I'm thinking. A dry run, ask for clarifications before you rail against it:
- Explicitly using your terb handle for session leverage is like a race to the bottom. Eventually no-one will trust the reviews, because everyone knows they are all tainted. Now, individual clients will get some extra special service at some stage, maybe, so yippee. But of course some of us appreciate the surprise-factor. But anyway . . . Eventually, members-in-the-know will have to rely on PM's to know the truth - their pool of reliable info shrinks to those they PM. Newer members will start finding mass discrepancies between the reviews and their experience, and ditch terb. So much for the impacts on clients. A proviso is that, of course, sometimes real identies get out. But when that happens accidentally, and is not linked to a system of kick-backs, then the larger pool of authentic reviews can swamp the odd exception. But also, the buck doesn't stop with clients. Eventually SP's will also find less and less 'socialized' clients (ie.: never read the do's and don't, etc), and advertisers will begin to lose access to potentially 'loyal' and repeat cleints. Lose-lose. Get it? Lose-lose. But clients lose first and they lose the most.

So . . . ignore KJ saying no agreement about a review system exists. Baloney. Sharing reliable information is valued. Shilling and bullshit is not. And don't forget that exchanging your terb handle for extra service just is blackmail. Maybe not all SP's are OK with that? But also, are you, as a client, OK with that? Paying and blackmailing are different. The former gets you into a game-like situation where you hope to do well, get a good experience, make a connection, etc, in the context of good times that you walk away from easily. The latter is cheap, in all of its senses, because your doubling up on the lack of authenticity and you know it. Is that really that satisfying?
 
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