Sorry, was not able to finish my prior post, it went mid-word!
Thanks to Terb, I now have very high expectations going in. I`m no longer looking for "does she provide good service". That I now take as the basic entry fee. I`m looking for SP`s I click with. And yes I`ve received great service, but with no click? Sorry, not going back. Thanks, Terb, you have raised my own standard by giving me the information I need to wean out the poor providers, or even more basic, the B&S operations, some of which do advertise on this site (but who, to my knowledge or what I have seen, never post).
This whole "fight club" thing is juvenile. It`s people wanting to be secretly "in the know". Do I leverage the fact that I`m an active reviewer for better service? No, I don`t. In fact, I have an old thread I started that lead me to question whether I should keep reviewing because I am somewhat known.
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=252948
After numerous posts in the thread, and pm`s, I`ve decided to keep reviewing.
Do I ever mention my Terb before a session? No, unless it was booked through Terb, in which case I just assume they know (duh). If someone asks will I lie? No. Yes, I`ve heard of it, yes, I review, no, I don`t give details in my reviews. I don`t get into a long discussion over it.
As for Terb events, I`ve only been to one, and I had fun. The reason for doing it? Interacting with people who you can actually talk about hobbying with. Can`t and won`t do it with in my civilian life. Plus, it`s also great to meet ladies outside of sessions.
One thing I do want to know. Who`s in the so-called "frat pack"? Based on what`s been thrown around, it may include up to half the active reviewers on the board.