the only time it's come up is the question:
"Where did you hear of me, the mens room wall or terb?"
I've always thought this is a valid marketing question. The lady is running a business, it's astute business practice to enquire efficacy of advertising, she deserves to know, no privacy boundary is being crossed by admitting source when being asked. When being asked.
What I've learned here over the years is some people are not so astute in their answers.
Terb, is answer enough. Any more and, in most cases, a discretionary line is crossed. Why some people continue on with in detail conversations thereof is beyond me, and probably the end result is various controversies played over the years.
Several independant ladies I saw asked the above question. At the end one asked for something to be written as she had no presence here and realized it would take time to build one; she didn't ask for specific content, just something be written. I thought this was a totally legitamate and professionally discrete marketing request. One lady even showed me laptop screen with posts about her and described both her rabid lovers and haters, a post where the shill-hurtbag-loser crew (©Elisha) were yelling shill and her id was clearly different. Several described deep ambivalence, an anti-SP ambience: to this date, although members, they have never posted, going back now 7+ years.
Also, I never booked through this board's pm system, indeed hardly ever used it, maybe 3 times in 7 years. Always and only a phone call: serious, discrete - no board names.
I agree it's easy for the ladies to put a name and date to a board id based on review - events, writing style, date and time, etc. But, if reviewers were to honour most ladies' request to truly write a non-descript, non-specific, non-gynacological pornographic review, the probability of identifying said terbite would greatly diminish.
Also, why some moron terbites have a 1:00 appointment then write a review at 2:30 "Just saw Valentine Luv..." and expect to remain anyonymous????
And I'll never forget Jackie at bodyandsoul's epiphany: "I get a bad review and get overbooked with new clients".