Why Do Men Waste there Money on Dinner dates?

GeeBee

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I was chatting with a SB the other day between rounds and sharing our experiences in the sugar world. She told me several guys just wanted a platonic date, dinner or drinks. In her experience they were simply lonely and wanted an intelligent conversation with a younger woman. Some clearly wanted to show her off and make it known to the world that they could pull this kind of girl if they wanted to. I was surprised that it wasn’t always about the sex, and she assured me that wasn’t the case.

We then returned to fuckin’ :)
 

dirtyharry555

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Conversation baby... conversation...lol
What happens when she goes on a date with somebody like Joe Biden?

 

AdamH

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If all you want is to get laid, then going on a date isn't the best way to do it. It's also not the cheapest way to get laid (short-term anyway).

Go on a date if with a woman if you see yourself being happy in a romantic relationship with that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you want to invest up front in some free fornication in the future from that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you see yourself wanting to rub uglies on the regular with that woman.

Otherwise you're better off sticking with SPs.
 

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If all you want is to get laid, then going on a date isn't the best way to do it. It's also not the cheapest way to get laid (short-term anyway).

Go on a date if with a woman if you see yourself being happy in a romantic relationship with that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you want to invest up front in some free fornication in the future from that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you see yourself wanting to rub uglies on the regular with that woman.

Otherwise you're better off sticking with SPs.
Wow, I did not know that...said no guy on TERB, ever.
 
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Because if they don't take them on dinner dates they get called cheap.
Coffee for a first date is the way to go. Cheap and if it's not clicking for either person it's short and quick. You can decide later if a dinner date is in the cards. Why spend a few hrs with someone that you don't want too.
 

dirtyharry555

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If all you want is to get laid, then going on a date isn't the best way to do it. It's also not the cheapest way to get laid (short-term anyway).

Go on a date if with a woman if you see yourself being happy in a romantic relationship with that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you want to invest up front in some free fornication in the future from that woman.

Go on a date with a woman if you see yourself wanting to rub uglies on the regular with that woman.

Otherwise you're better off sticking with SPs.
It's partly a demographic issue. Here's the history and contemporary reality of dating.

 
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Claudia Love

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It's partly a demographic issue. Here's the history and contemporary reality of dating.

ya know what the first night i8 had sex with the neighbour it sucked cause he came inch 5 minutes but tonights sex he lasted hour 14 minutes what a perfect set up this is we live in separate houses and were both attracted to each other and now the sex is fankfuckintastic
 

dirtyharry555

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ya know what the first night i8 had sex with the neighbour it sucked cause he came inch 5 minutes but tonights sex he lasted hour 14 minutes what a perfect set up this is we live in separate houses and were both attracted to each other and now the sex is fankfuckintastic
That's not a date. You have never dated him. That's the definition of a bootycall.

Bootycalls and hookups make much more sense than dating in today's environment.
 
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Copy/ pasted from my "Ask bobistheowl!" thread on another board, (November, 2014), here are some tips on how to meet civvie women in a big city:

Q: OK, bob, this is the thing. I'm too old for clubbing, in any decent amount of light. I don't want to have to resort to the ice cream aisle. I'm tired of reading about other guys having sex. Where should I go, to find various types of civvie women that might find any of a number of us pathetic guys at least worthy of coffee? - Yu, Shanghai

Yu, a man's best friend in choosing, rather than being chosen, is lack of visible competition. Women are often interested in the best man who is there, rather than the best man who there is.

If you're looking for a standard '5', in any of a number of different shapes, sizes, and age groups, you could get tickets for one of those local women's talk shows. Every station has a couple of them, The View, with different hostesses. You're going to be the only guy in the audience, so that automatically makes you the best looking guy there, if only for a little while, until other guys start doing it, too.

If you want sleazy in an attractive way, try to get tickets for one of those lowbrow talk shows in the Jerry Springer vein, with the paternity suits, or the plot of a MILF smut clip. A lot of guys are already working that field, so wear a clean baseball cap, and tuck in the mullet, it's not the 90's anymore.

If you're looking for someone a little more refined, try Sunday afternoon around 2:00 PM at the ROM, or the Natural History Museum closest to you. You'll find the younger single moms in the dinosaurs section, or near the mummies, or cave man dioramas. You'll know she's single, because if she weren't, she would be making sandwiches and bringing beers to the guys watching the game. If you just want a quick fling with a brainy single, go to the armour section, but be careful; the permafrown crowd congregates there, too. How to spot them is another lesson.

If you wanted to have a few drinks with some of the women who don't go to bars to drink with men they don't know, it might be a good investment to take a Learning Annex wine appreciation course, on a Friday. If you don't meet anyone you like, take it again; most people don't take that course twice, unless they want a clean slate.

I like the last idea because it is easy to approach people for both sexes
 
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Butler1000

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My favorite first was the weekend lunch date. That way either had the option to claim other plans after the date was over. Lack of pressure. Always cheaper. And if things were clicking then then having a well planned out "spontaneous" idea for an activity nearby could extend things.
 
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I never understood this men will gop on dating sites take a lady out for dinner
they are secretly hoping to get laid that night
dinner 100 plus drinks 50
stop for a coffee 5 bucks
time 3 hours
still not laid

when al they had to do0 was spend 300 time 1` hour get happy ending mutual satisfaction ;)
Why Do Men Waste there Money on Dinner dates?


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I never understood this men will gop on dating sites take a lady out for dinner
they are secretly hoping to get laid that night
dinner 100 plus drinks 50
stop for a coffee 5 bucks
time 3 hours
still not laid

when al they had to do0 was spend 300 time 1` hour get happy ending mutual satisfaction ;)
Maybe he is hot for a woman that is not a hooker
 
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