Why did your marriage fail?
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Never been and doubt I ever will. I tend to get bored after about 18 months. Always made more sense to just keep trading in for a new one just like a car.
Yeh, I need my space too much, too set in my ways now. But common law for several years and after a couple of years she just took me and the relationship for granted. On her side, I'm guessing, I never wanted to hang out and socialize with her friends...just kept to myself...her friends thought I was a jerk...imagine that. Ha ha ha.
We parted amicably and still have the odd phone call but they are probably less than once a year now.
We parted amicably and still have the odd phone call but they are probably less than once a year now.
Maybe 10 years after we divorced she tld me the reason we divorced was I was still the same man she married.
Seems se figured she would mold me into the man she wanted.
Seems se figured she would mold me into the man she wanted.
because she was a 10 and i have always thought why fuck a 10 when you can fuck 5--- 2's well thus the failer..lol just kidding i not married and since i have been on terb marriage is even further away,, terb is the perfect marriage if you ask me , you go give $ have fun and leave ,no calling the next day, no nagging ,no we have to go here go there ,and i get to change my hour wife here as much as i want , no one gets hurt and no one freaks out..so my marriage to Terb has not failed..lol
LOL, same here. Not worth thinking about it either, it was ugly. 50% my fault 50% hers. But she always said 100% my fault.squash500 said:It would take me too long to type out all the reasons
Religious differences.
She though she was God's gift to men and I disagreed.
Inability to communicate:
I said, "Tomato".
She said, "shut the fuck up".
Sometimes small mistakes in communication led to big blowups. For example we were at the airport and this well endowed attendant booked our flight. I wanted two tickets to Pittsburgh and I said, "two pickets to titsburgh". We laughed about that but, later at lunch, she wanted to say,
"pass the salt", and it came out as,
"you fucking bastard, you ruined my life!"
She though she was God's gift to men and I disagreed.
Inability to communicate:
I said, "Tomato".
She said, "shut the fuck up".
Sometimes small mistakes in communication led to big blowups. For example we were at the airport and this well endowed attendant booked our flight. I wanted two tickets to Pittsburgh and I said, "two pickets to titsburgh". We laughed about that but, later at lunch, she wanted to say,
"pass the salt", and it came out as,
"you fucking bastard, you ruined my life!"
he was anti social. no communication, trying to have normal conversation- he would get piss off or yell or make comment about my gramer or language skill. i know im working on it. he would rather read book than fuck his young atractive wife. other stuff to but to personal to get into. being escort was good escape and knowing that someone still find you atractive and hot. it got very lonley and it nice to have some intimacy with someone. in the end he didn't seem to loose sleep over me being sp either. fuck him. as i heard dr phil say on tv today something like you know when its time to divorce when you can walk out with no anger, emotion or regret. i will never get marry again. i like peace and quiet to much.
In brief, she had emotional/psychological issues that she was unwilling to address, and no marriage can last when one spouse is trying to make it work and the other does nothing to do so. Do I have regrets - of course I have regrets - but they are regrets that it did not work, really the wish that she would have been a different person.
