When to Leave/Ask for Donation?

[BAR]

I think it should be given at the beginning of the session. This allows us both to relax and not have to think about it during or after the session. Be kind and relax and enjoy.

 

[philandsararecordings]

One SP just sloppily put all the cash in the nightstand drawer where they keep the rubber. When I opened it, there were all these bills scattered around.

 

[philandsararecordings]

For clients, I think it's courteous to pay up front.

For SPs, at least give the client an opportunity to pay before asking, and find a way to not count in front

 

[boomboom]

My routine is almost the same. Except I take temp at the door before the hug and kiss greeting. Then when I bring them in the room I simply say

“Feel free to put your stuff here (usually clothes, phone, watch, hat, etc) and you can throw donation there.”

However while I’m taking, I’ll also get really casual. I’ll also ask things like “do you like my outfit” or “ do you like how I got dressed up for you” and do a little twirl. 9/10 times it takes the focus off the money and back on me. This is also when I offer a towel for shower - etc.

I will spread the cash for a quick count as I recently got ripped off $40 on a call. But usually this is when the client is distracted taking off clothes or having a shower. I leave the money on the table so the client feels more comfortable. Like I didn’t just snatch it away greedily. It also helps the guy because he sees it is still there and can feel that if he doesn’t get the service he requested, he can take the money back. I’ll be honest. That will NEVER happen because the money is by the bear spray and if you touch it, me and you and the room is in for a nasty surprise, but I want my new clients to feel as comfortable as possible.

I will not see a guy who insists on pay at the end. If you say no you will pay at the end when I make my donation request, I will tell you to leave. It is too much of a red flag. I’m sorry if clients have had negative experiences but I have the reputation to back up my professionalism so if that is not enough for you to leave the donation in plain view for both of us until the end of the appointment, I will just ask you to leave and find another escort better suited to your needs.

This has happened with me a couple times with regulars but they have always come through in the end. It is a honest mistake and sometimes you just get caught up with the person. I had one weekly regular leave, go home and I didn’t realize until a few hours later. It was a homebase appointment so I was just puttering around the house after. He drove back the next day to give me the cash. LOL.

Good points
The gut feeling as someone enters or on the 1st kiss means alot.

I always have donation ready in a separate pocket incase its asked for & always double check my pocket to make sure a $20 or 10 didn't slip out of the fold. Much easier now that many bank machines give out multiple bills & not just 20's. Makes the fold easier & less chance of a 20 falling out.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I find I will get the money thing out of the way so I can enjoy the session

 

[LTO_3]

If I see any SP multiple times, indy or agency, I rarely pay first since they know the money will be there.

I do agree that the standard is to pay first especially when seeing any SP the first time to get the financial stuff out of the way.

The connection between SP & client, especially thru numerous txts, has a big influence on when she asks/doesn't ask for the money.

LTO_3

 

[massman]

Definitely pay up front. It gets the business out of the way, so you can get on to the fun part. I think it also makes a girl feel more relaxed, and trust you a bit more, which translates to better service.

 

[massman]

[QUOTE="thumper18474, post: 7484518, member: 173781"
Paying afterwards....chance of client forgetting cus the session was so mindblowing his brain wasnt functioning properly..LOL
[/QUOTE]
Lol. This has happened twice. Once with an agency girl, I think we both were a little out of it after an intense session, as she also forgot, and the agency called me just after I left.
The other time was a few years ago with a girl I’d seen a number of times, she just politely said, as I gave her a kiss and was about to leave, “aren’t you forgetting something?”

In both cases I’d seen the girl before, and they’d basically attacked me when I walked in, hence me forgetting to put the $ out at the start. And in both cases, we’d had a very intense session, where the big head was only receiving about
1/2 the blood supply it usually needs to function, because the little head had taken priority. Lol

I don’t think there is anything wrong with the girl asking. A simple “how about we get the business out of the way so we can get on to the good stuff” or something similar. Some guys say it spoils the mood, but to me it is then opposite. The finances are out of the way, and she and I can focus on each other completely.

 

[oralgiver]

On my website, I do ask that the donation is left on my dresser or in clear view once you enter my bedroom.
I actually prefer no envelope with new clients and never count the donation in front of a client unless asked to.

When you walk in my door, you get a friendly greeting with me in lingerie, hugs and kisses, and then you take your shoes off and enter my room.
Once you enter my bedroom I expect the donation to be left on a surface unless you are a longterm regular that I trust.

I feel uncomfortable having to ask, especially if the client is eager and things get hot and heavy right away before showering.
Interrupting a hot groping and make out session to ask for the money is the last thing I want to do, which is why I am clear in my guidelines on my website.
I just do not feel comfortable continuing a session without being paid first.

The problem is, about 60% of my new clients forget or neglect to follow my guidelines to place the donation on my dresser.
So I have to awkwardly say something along the lines of "Hey hun, do you mind leaving the donation on the dresser first"?

I hand over the donation and ask her to confirm it's the right amount as soon as I enter the room. This makes for a smooth and honest transaction. We both acquire what we need and want. We part ways with no forced connections. It has been this way forever and has served me well.

 

[chrispalen]

I hand over the donation and ask her to confirm it's the right amount as soon as I enter the room. This makes for a smooth and honest transaction. We both acquire what we need and want. We part ways with no forced connections. It has been this way forever and has served me well.

Donation should be given to the lady and counted in front of her once you get inside of the door. Once she acknowledges
the amount is correct, you then take the shower. This way, there is no misunderstanding and the sp is paid before any activities
take place.

This is the right protocol for benefit of both parties of the transaction. SPs should always state upfront on their website that
donation is required upon arrival so that you don't have someone skipping donation. Envelop is not necessary. But counting is
a must.

CP

 

[The Oracle]

For clients, I think it's courteous to pay up front.

For SPs, at least give the client an opportunity to pay before asking, and find a way to not count in front

These days I'm doing most of my business with cash and where ever I go I pay cash.

I always fastidiously count the money given to me and have zero problems when others do the same with what I give them.

You'd be surprised how many times bills stick together. Other times honest counting mistakes happen.

But when you count all is square.......Most of the time I insist that they count my money in front of me just to eliminate any problems.

Last thing I want is somebody calling me when I'm driving down the road saying I've shorted them.

 

[Valcazar]

I've mostly been a "donation up front during the greeting" guy.

 

[Kracker]

After. Always.

I completely understand why some (usually newer) women ask for it up front, but it always kind of puts things off for me, and honestly those sessions are nearly always the worst. It's like the girl knows it's going to suck so she wants to make sure she's at least covered.

I think for me it's a combo of trust (did you seriously think I was going to run out without paying you?) and chemistry (let's explore one another before we turn to money).

For reference, I hobby almost exclusively with agencies. I HAVE once or twice over the years forgotten to pay - sometimes you just get that pussy fog so hard and the session is so amazing you're just in a daze. But in those few cases I always arranged to cover it off immediately.

 

[SexB]

Just because of the layout of most condos downtown, I usually just leave the envelope and any gift cards I may have gotten for the lady I'm seeing on the kitchen counter.

Or if it's in a hotel, I just leave it on the dresser.

It's gotten to the point where I just set it down as I'm carrying on a conversation with the companion I'm getting together with. Honestly? It's become second nature for me.

I don't need to be asked, I know what's expected of me as a client.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Once in awhile I get a client, usually a newbie, who hands me the cash as soon as he walks in my door before I can even say "hello" with a kiss and hug.

I feel awkward when this happens for some reason.

They are doing nothing wrong but my routine is to say "hello" give hugs and kisses, ask them to take their shoes off and get payment left on my dresser once in my bedroom after some small talk.
Then they can remove their coat and head to the washroom.

I do have trusted regulars who shower beforehand and we are in Kingston, so it is a 5 minute drive to me. I am fine with that for regulars TBH.

And sometimes with regulars, we get too hot and heavy too quickly.
When that occurs, payment is given afterwards.
These are people I trust that if payment was forgotten, they would make sure I received it somehow.

 

[y2kmark]

Once in awhile I get a client, usually a newbie, who hands me the cash as soon as he walks in my door before I can even say "hello" with a kiss and hug.

I feel awkward when this happens for some reason.

If you feel that awkward, just don't take it ...

 

[KittyCaterina]

If you feel that awkward, just don't take it ...

Yeah, not happening.

 

[Claudia Love]

The way ive done things the minute i walked in kiss hugged i say lets get this out of the way ......i even count it right there and ill tell you why even my high roller clients would sometimes as they say by "acciodet" would short be a few 20s. Hers the facts if you take the money into another room and say 60 bucks is short he will accuse you of stealing it if hes a scammer if hes a nice respectful guy he will correct mistake. if your not worried about being pleasing to a man how you collect money shouldnt matter. this nonsense that they want us to be REAL GIRLFRIENDS well as a real girlfriend id still ask my man sometimes for money LOL i always count the cash in front of him and when theres an extra hundred in the pile i say do you know you gave me an extra 100 he says yes i say thank you .But one time a guy gave me 3 brown bills one was stuck to other and i told him and he said wow your honest so he kept me an extra hour so it was a win win. ive had regulats short change me ive had regulars say they cant find there wallet too lol the minute im leaving watch how fast he finds the cash. never collect at end of session or your looking for a ratio of 60 40 getting paid the men who have orgasming issues will say well you didnt do it aftrer youve done backflipds trying to make his dick hard .he knows he canyt stay hard even with kim kardasian
but its an insecurity that they project on some. I have told them straight out if your not cumming with me your not cumming with nobody . perhaps i was very confident. haha

 

[Sonic Temple]

I get it done as soon as I enter and after our initially introductions and hello's. I always place the donation with some sort of a gift on the first table I see. Get it out of the way so there is no issue.

 

[Fun For All]

Guys don't pay when they don't cum?????

HOW CHEAP CAN THEY BE HOLY MOTHER OF GOD

Can you imagine all the money you’d be paying yourself over the years…