I think it should be given at the beginning of the session. This allows us both to relax and not have to think about it during or after the session. Be kind and relax and enjoy.
When to Leave/Ask for Donation?
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One SP just sloppily put all the cash in the nightstand drawer where they keep the rubber. When I opened it, there were all these bills scattered around.
For clients, I think it's courteous to pay up front.
For SPs, at least give the client an opportunity to pay before asking, and find a way to not count in front
For SPs, at least give the client an opportunity to pay before asking, and find a way to not count in front
Good points
The gut feeling as someone enters or on the 1st kiss means alot.
I always have donation ready in a separate pocket incase its asked for & always double check my pocket to make sure a $20 or 10 didn't slip out of the fold. Much easier now that many bank machines give out multiple bills & not just 20's. Makes the fold easier & less chance of a 20 falling out.
I find I will get the money thing out of the way so I can enjoy the session
If I see any SP multiple times, indy or agency, I rarely pay first since they know the money will be there.
I do agree that the standard is to pay first especially when seeing any SP the first time to get the financial stuff out of the way.
The connection between SP & client, especially thru numerous txts, has a big influence on when she asks/doesn't ask for the money.
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I do agree that the standard is to pay first especially when seeing any SP the first time to get the financial stuff out of the way.
The connection between SP & client, especially thru numerous txts, has a big influence on when she asks/doesn't ask for the money.
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Definitely pay up front. It gets the business out of the way, so you can get on to the fun part. I think it also makes a girl feel more relaxed, and trust you a bit more, which translates to better service.
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Paying afterwards....chance of client forgetting cus the session was so mindblowing his brain wasnt functioning properly..LOL
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Lol. This has happened twice. Once with an agency girl, I think we both were a little out of it after an intense session, as she also forgot, and the agency called me just after I left.
The other time was a few years ago with a girl I’d seen a number of times, she just politely said, as I gave her a kiss and was about to leave, “aren’t you forgetting something?”
In both cases I’d seen the girl before, and they’d basically attacked me when I walked in, hence me forgetting to put the $ out at the start. And in both cases, we’d had a very intense session, where the big head was only receiving about
1/2 the blood supply it usually needs to function, because the little head had taken priority. Lol
I don’t think there is anything wrong with the girl asking. A simple “how about we get the business out of the way so we can get on to the good stuff” or something similar. Some guys say it spoils the mood, but to me it is then opposite. The finances are out of the way, and she and I can focus on each other completely.
Paying afterwards....chance of client forgetting cus the session was so mindblowing his brain wasnt functioning properly..LOL
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Lol. This has happened twice. Once with an agency girl, I think we both were a little out of it after an intense session, as she also forgot, and the agency called me just after I left.
The other time was a few years ago with a girl I’d seen a number of times, she just politely said, as I gave her a kiss and was about to leave, “aren’t you forgetting something?”
In both cases I’d seen the girl before, and they’d basically attacked me when I walked in, hence me forgetting to put the $ out at the start. And in both cases, we’d had a very intense session, where the big head was only receiving about
1/2 the blood supply it usually needs to function, because the little head had taken priority. Lol
I don’t think there is anything wrong with the girl asking. A simple “how about we get the business out of the way so we can get on to the good stuff” or something similar. Some guys say it spoils the mood, but to me it is then opposite. The finances are out of the way, and she and I can focus on each other completely.
Donation should be given to the lady and counted in front of her once you get inside of the door. Once she acknowledges
the amount is correct, you then take the shower. This way, there is no misunderstanding and the sp is paid before any activities
take place.
This is the right protocol for benefit of both parties of the transaction. SPs should always state upfront on their website that
donation is required upon arrival so that you don't have someone skipping donation. Envelop is not necessary. But counting is
a must.
CP
These days I'm doing most of my business with cash and where ever I go I pay cash.
I always fastidiously count the money given to me and have zero problems when others do the same with what I give them.
You'd be surprised how many times bills stick together. Other times honest counting mistakes happen.
But when you count all is square.......Most of the time I insist that they count my money in front of me just to eliminate any problems.
Last thing I want is somebody calling me when I'm driving down the road saying I've shorted them.
I've mostly been a "donation up front during the greeting" guy.
After. Always.
I completely understand why some (usually newer) women ask for it up front, but it always kind of puts things off for me, and honestly those sessions are nearly always the worst. It's like the girl knows it's going to suck so she wants to make sure she's at least covered.
I think for me it's a combo of trust (did you seriously think I was going to run out without paying you?) and chemistry (let's explore one another before we turn to money).
For reference, I hobby almost exclusively with agencies. I HAVE once or twice over the years forgotten to pay - sometimes you just get that pussy fog so hard and the session is so amazing you're just in a daze. But in those few cases I always arranged to cover it off immediately.
I completely understand why some (usually newer) women ask for it up front, but it always kind of puts things off for me, and honestly those sessions are nearly always the worst. It's like the girl knows it's going to suck so she wants to make sure she's at least covered.
I think for me it's a combo of trust (did you seriously think I was going to run out without paying you?) and chemistry (let's explore one another before we turn to money).
For reference, I hobby almost exclusively with agencies. I HAVE once or twice over the years forgotten to pay - sometimes you just get that pussy fog so hard and the session is so amazing you're just in a daze. But in those few cases I always arranged to cover it off immediately.
Just because of the layout of most condos downtown, I usually just leave the envelope and any gift cards I may have gotten for the lady I'm seeing on the kitchen counter.
Or if it's in a hotel, I just leave it on the dresser.
It's gotten to the point where I just set it down as I'm carrying on a conversation with the companion I'm getting together with. Honestly? It's become second nature for me.
I don't need to be asked, I know what's expected of me as a client.
Or if it's in a hotel, I just leave it on the dresser.
It's gotten to the point where I just set it down as I'm carrying on a conversation with the companion I'm getting together with. Honestly? It's become second nature for me.
I don't need to be asked, I know what's expected of me as a client.
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Once in awhile I get a client, usually a newbie, who hands me the cash as soon as he walks in my door before I can even say "hello" with a kiss and hug.
I feel awkward when this happens for some reason.
They are doing nothing wrong but my routine is to say "hello" give hugs and kisses, ask them to take their shoes off and get payment left on my dresser once in my bedroom after some small talk.
Then they can remove their coat and head to the washroom.
I do have trusted regulars who shower beforehand and we are in Kingston, so it is a 5 minute drive to me. I am fine with that for regulars TBH.
And sometimes with regulars, we get too hot and heavy too quickly.
When that occurs, payment is given afterwards.
These are people I trust that if payment was forgotten, they would make sure I received it somehow.
I feel awkward when this happens for some reason.
They are doing nothing wrong but my routine is to say "hello" give hugs and kisses, ask them to take their shoes off and get payment left on my dresser once in my bedroom after some small talk.
Then they can remove their coat and head to the washroom.
I do have trusted regulars who shower beforehand and we are in Kingston, so it is a 5 minute drive to me. I am fine with that for regulars TBH.
And sometimes with regulars, we get too hot and heavy too quickly.
When that occurs, payment is given afterwards.
These are people I trust that if payment was forgotten, they would make sure I received it somehow.
Yeah, not happening.If you feel that awkward, just don't take it...
The way ive done things the minute i walked in kiss hugged i say lets get this out of the way ......i even count it right there and ill tell you why even my high roller clients would sometimes as they say by "acciodet" would short be a few 20s. Hers the facts if you take the money into another room and say 60 bucks is short he will accuse you of stealing it if hes a scammer if hes a nice respectful guy he will correct mistake. if your not worried about being pleasing to a man how you collect money shouldnt matter. this nonsense that they want us to be REAL GIRLFRIENDS well as a real girlfriend id still ask my man sometimes for money LOL i always count the cash in front of him and when theres an extra hundred in the pile i say do you know you gave me an extra 100 he says yes i say thank you .But one time a guy gave me 3 brown bills one was stuck to other and i told him and he said wow your honest so he kept me an extra hour so it was a win win. ive had regulats short change me ive had regulars say they cant find there wallet too lol the minute im leaving watch how fast he finds the cash. never collect at end of session or your looking for a ratio of 60 40 getting paid the men who have orgasming issues will say well you didnt do it aftrer youve done backflipds trying to make his dick hard .he knows he canyt stay hard even with kim kardasian
but its an insecurity that they project on some. I have told them straight out if your not cumming with me your not cumming with nobody . perhaps i was very confident. haha
but its an insecurity that they project on some. I have told them straight out if your not cumming with me your not cumming with nobody . perhaps i was very confident.
haha
I get it done as soon as I enter and after our initially introductions and hello's. I always place the donation with some sort of a gift on the first table I see. Get it out of the way so there is no issue.
Can you imagine all the money you’d be paying yourself over the years…
For me there is a sweet spot between when they arrive and when they head to the shower. Most gents walk in and place it down no questions asked that way no one has to talk about it or mention it. That is the best way to do it.
Of course there are those who might be nervous or too excited to remember the donation at all. I get it! It happens! I find that when they walk in it’s best to introduce yourselves and the companion welcome him into the space. The best way to ask for the donation is not to ask for it at all. Simply tell/show them exactly where to place the donation before they head into the shower and then show them where you will be waiting after. When you remind them in a subtle way that the donation needs to be paid first, it gives them a chance to take the initiative on their own to pay you first instead of you having to ask for it.
Now when it comes to my regulars, I trust them enough to allow them to pay when they want either before or after our time together. As long as they don’t leave without doing so!
At the end of the day it’s always best that the gentleman simply get it out of the way right from the start so that it never becomes a topic during the date at all.
Of course there are those who might be nervous or too excited to remember the donation at all. I get it! It happens! I find that when they walk in it’s best to introduce yourselves and the companion welcome him into the space. The best way to ask for the donation is not to ask for it at all. Simply tell/show them exactly where to place the donation before they head into the shower and then show them where you will be waiting after. When you remind them in a subtle way that the donation needs to be paid first, it gives them a chance to take the initiative on their own to pay you first instead of you having to ask for it.
Now when it comes to my regulars, I trust them enough to allow them to pay when they want either before or after our time together. As long as they don’t leave without doing so!
At the end of the day it’s always best that the gentleman simply get it out of the way right from the start so that it never becomes a topic during the date at all.
