You are correct I made an assumption but not the one you think. I made the assumption, based on my type of question, that the men I was addressing want to have multiple sex partners.You make the assumption here that a person knows when entering into a relationship how things are going to work out. We don't, so often we make things up on the fly as best we can.
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By the way - I've read through the entire thread and whether you intend to or not and whether you realize it or not you are sounding very judgemental, regardless of how much you protest that "I said I'm not judging." Saying that is generally a sign that you realize that you at least sound like you are judging.
By the way - I've read through the entire thread and whether you intend to or not and whether you realize it or not you are sounding very judgemental, regardless of how much you protest that "I said I'm not judging." Saying that is generally a sign that you realize that you at least sound like you are judging.
Maybe I should have made that assertion Or pretext before hand. I am only discussing those men who want multiplied partners. Not men who want a standard relationship and then end up in a sexless one.
Which is another reason why I say I am not judging. Because I completely understand the latter. It is the former I was not getting.
And had you actually read the whole thread, which I don’t believe you have at all, you would see where and why I was questioning the former. I did just spill my relationship life story all over this thread.
But you are free to disagree. I know my truth and am not going to lose sleep because a couple of a people on the internet don’t believe me. The majority got it and understood where I was coming from. That is a count I can live with.