What's with Spanking?

[Shades]

I've noticed an increase in spanking offerings on sites such as myfreecams.com and other sites. Porn sites have always had categories of spanking video's and pictures.
I don't get it? What is attractive, sexy about spanking, or being spanked? Not just men spanking women, but women spanking women, and I'm sure if you looked you would find men who enjoy being spanked. Is it just part of the BDSM interest, is it growing in popularity?
I would really be interested in hearing from anyone who enjoys spanking and/or being spanked about what it is they get out of it?
This is not sexy to me.......

 

[Cassini]

Some girls like it. Some girls don't. Some orgasm when spanked. Many don't.

Ask before you try, and start gently.

 

[GameBoy27]

This is not sexy to me.......

Take any fetish or any sex act and you'll find some are turned on by it and some who aren't. I'm sure there's lots of people completely uninterested in some of the things that turn you on. Why not post a list of your turn-ons and we'll see what people think.

 

[Shades]

.... Why not post a list of your turn-ons and we'll see what people think.

The cutie in your signature line seriously turns me on..................
Apart from that smart, witty women that I like to be with before and after.............not just the during sex act. Good Sex for me is as much mental as it is a physical engagement.
I wasn't raising the spanking to be judgmental, pardon me if it seemed that way. I am just saying it does nothing for me, but I am genuinely curious to understand better what others get from it, because I have noticed a greater prevalence of it on the internet....there obviously is an audience.
Forever seeking enlightenment, and the girl in your gif

 

[GameBoy27]

The cutie in your signature line seriously turns me on..................
Apart from that smart, witty women that I like to be with before and after.............not just the during sex act. Good Sex for me is as much mental as it is a physical engagement.
I wasn't raising the spanking to be judgmental, pardon me if it seemed that way. I am just saying it does nothing for me, but I am genuinely curious to understand better what others get from it, because I have noticed a greater prevalence of it on the internet....there obviously is an audience.
Forever seeking enlightenment, and the girl in your gif

I'm not sure if there's an explanation as to why some things turn people on and some things don't. Come to think of it, I've never asked my wife why she likes her ass spanked while I'm doing her doggy with her arms tied behind her back. I do however know it turns her on immensely which drives me crazy, so it's a good thing.

 

[Yoga Face]

I got a half answer

Spanking stimulates the sex organs in the girl being spanked, esp if you spank the bottom of the buns, so there is a physical reason for a woman to enjoy spanking

for the other half of the answer, as a male I enjoy spanking and watching spanking vids

I do not know why, I just know I do

 

[Hiding]

I don't get it? What is attractive, sexy about spanking, or being spanked? Not just men spanking women, but women spanking women, and I'm sure if you looked you would find men who enjoy being spanked.

With the right person, in the right way, and at the right time: it feels amazing. That's what's attractive about it.

Tons of endorphins racing through your blood and the line between "pain" and "pleasure" is easily blurred. Why is rough nipple play fun? Why can nails be fun? From the other side, why is being the cause of overwhelming physical sensation fun?

That having been said... being spanked out of nowhere or with no erotic pretext sounds unfun, unfair, and frankly would piss me off in a "call the police" kind of way

 

[spankingman]

It's a fun thing for the wife and I. She enjoys it (receiving) I enjoy it (giving). We don't go overboard with it no canes paddles straps etc just bare hand on bare flesh. Is it a fetish ? It's possible there's lots of them out there but the one I could never understand is CBT! Just seems way too painful and could cause real damage.

 

[frankcastle]

It is not one of my favorites but i admit having a girl beg for it and egg me on to be rougher is hot.

Why is it hot? I guess the feeling of domination, of crossing a line, of doing something taboo. I am a pretty gentle guy so being pushed out of my comfort zone feels weird but exciting at the same time.

Bdsm is hot because i think for me the idea of having a woman do whatever i want is something i fantasize about. But it is a game she is really still in control and can stop whenever she wants.

But honestly a good slow oily hand job or sloppy blow job is all i need. Spanking is more of a vacation type thing...... once in a while.

 

[bolt.upright]

I did it once. It was the lady's idea and she wanted it firm. I obliged, and was surprised at how much I enjoyed it too. It's not something I'm looking for, but if she wants it I'm happy to participate.

 

[TeasePlease]

50 Shades.

I'm tired being begged to spank and rope. Do I look like a cowboy?

What happened to good old fashioned missionary sex? Sheesh.

 

[bolt.upright]

Do I look like a cowboy?

What happened to good old fashioned missionary sex? Sheesh.

Are you a missionary?

 

[Sugar-D]

I've noticed an increase in spanking offerings on sites such as myfreecams.com and other sites. Porn sites have always had categories of spanking video's and pictures.
I don't get it? What is attractive, sexy about spanking, or being spanked? Not just men spanking women, but women spanking women, and I'm sure if you looked you would find men who enjoy being spanked. Is it just part of the BDSM interest, is it growing in popularity?
I would really be interested in hearing from anyone who enjoys spanking and/or being spanked about what it is they get out of it?
This is not sexy to me.......

Have you tried it. Or are you just passing judgement?

 

[GameBoy27]

It's a fun thing for the wife and I. She enjoys it (receiving) I enjoy it (giving). We don't go overboard with it no canes paddles straps etc just bare hand on bare flesh. Is it a fetish ? It's possible there's lots of them out there but the one I could never understand is CBT! Just seems way too painful and could cause real damage.

^^^^^ And there you have it from an obvious authority on the subject.

 

[JMrandomstuff]

With the right person, in the right way, and at the right time: it feels amazing. That's what's attractive about it.

Tons of endorphins racing through your blood and the line between "pain" and "pleasure" is easily blurred. Why is rough nipple play fun? Why can nails be fun? From the other side, why is being the cause of overwhelming physical sensation fun?

This is from someone who knows. Consensual blurring of lines and overwhelming physical sensation: all that sounds very familiar. I would write a review about it, but it was all a glorious blur. Listen to Becky gentlemen.

 

[Yoga Face]

I got a half answer

Spanking stimulates the sex organs in the girl being spanked, esp if you spank the bottom of the buns, so there is a physical reason for a woman to enjoy spanking

for the other half of the answer, as a male I enjoy spanking and watching spanking vids

I do not know why, I just know I do

[video]http://www.popscreen.com/v/3ogT/jennifer-aniston-getting-spanked[/video]

 

[Celticman]

With the right person, in the right way, and at the right time: it feels amazing. That's what's attractive about it.

Tons of endorphins racing through your blood and the line between "pain" and "pleasure" is easily blurred. Why is rough nipple play fun? Why can nails be fun? From the other side, why is being the cause of overwhelming physical sensation fun?

This

It is also a turn on having a woman being genuinely submissive in this way. I have also been on the other end of it in BDSM sessions and enjoyed that.

 

[rhuarc29]

I enjoy it rough with the right woman, but even then spanking does nothing for me. Yet it's always requested.... I think women enjoy receiving far more than men like giving, from my humble perspective.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I hate it. I can't stand when people do it. It doesn't do anything for me. I'm tempted to hit them back. lol

 

[train]

I hate it. I can't stand when people do it. It doesn't do anything for me. I'm tempted to hit them back. lol

I agree. I'm betting this would be the reaction the vast majority of women - along with hair pulling. Seems silly but I guess its any other fetish - only a very small number are actually into it.