First of all, how is it that all these sp's and clients see each other? I have never seen any sp that I have met through hobbying firsthand. In fact, I don't ever see any of my good friends out in public unless of course I have made plans to meet them at a specific place and time. Now, if I don't even run into my good friends given that I know so much about them, what are the chances of running in an sp that I know very little about (remember, most of what an sp says to you during a date is bullshit). She is simply trying to be cordial and interactive with you during your appointment.
When I was a child, I used to see my childhood friends playing on my street, but that was because they were living on the same street as I was and we was, we made plans often and I didn't have to pay to spend time around them. So the chances were very high.
If the average sp has seen 3,000 - 4,000 customers in her career, and moreso, if she has drawn that customer tally from a population of 7,000,000 southern Ontario residents, the chances of her running into any of them is so small. Yet it seems as though every hobbyist and sp on this board has a number of stories about sightings and interactions. It is highly unbelievable that all these hobbyists and sp's seem to run into each other. I just don't understand why so many people seem to have these unusual circumstances, when probability dictates otherwise.
Now having said all that, if I ever did see an sp, if I was by myself I would probably say hello to her in a quiet, discreet manner and judge whether or not she wanted to engage me. As long as I, as a customer, didn't say 'hey, remember when we fu*ked last month', I don't see how an sp would be afraid of being outed in public. When I talk to other women in public, I don't believe anyone around me is wondering whether she is an sp and I am a client or not. People don't think that way unless you harshly boradcast it less than 10 feet away from them. All this fear and secrecy and worry is way overblown. If, as an sp, you can't even engage someone in a conversation without hyperbolic fear of being outed, then you are living in a fantasy world that puts you on a higher pedistal than you actually deserve.
If I have tasted a woman's vaginal fluid and she has recieved my bodily fluid, and then afterwards, down the road, upon seeing her, I can't even say hello to her, then that shows me that I am wasting my time and money in this hobby as such a reaction would make me feel as though I have less signifigance to her than an ant scurrying across the sidewalk. If I ever saw an sp and she outwardly ignored me, even though she was by herself and had no reason to be so stand-offish, I would never call her again.
Anyways, this whole hobby is bulls*it. Hobbyists are looking for connection and intamacy whether they admit it or not and some civility and respect other than ignoring someone like they don't exist is warranted. If sp's are so embarassed by what they do, then they should stop doing it and go work in a regular job for a living.
