What not to do if you see a sp in public!!!!`

[GPIDEAL]

And another question.

why is it...that when a guy is decent looking or dare i say, good looking and he's a john and he doesn't say hello when he sees an SP, she gives him sh*t for not saying Hello. but when a guy is average looking or plain looking, she gets all riled up (gets annoyed, agitated or angry) and makes a bad scene just because he approached her to simply say hello, how are you?

Again. Can anyone say double standards?

The same exact double standards you'll see from any girl, not just an SP.

Ur making a lot of assumptions here. It doesn't matter what the guy looks like. Even if she was attracted to him or they had chemistry, you still don't approach unless she communicates it's okay, and you certainly don't discuss business.

Besides, it seems as if you have general issues about all women, which is not relevant to the discussion at hand.

 

[GPIDEAL]

if you read I did already contact the police .. I have not heard from him since.. I am not a stupid little girl.. not afraid of the police. neither should the other Ladies be. if something does not feel right or you are being wronged or in any kind of bad situation call them.. they are not the monsters that some people make em out to be... I never once put any of his personal info on the public forum.. I have said that if any of the girls would like his info to avoid him in the future to pm me... ONLY THE LADIES

Ok 4 that too. (Nobody thinks you're stupid hon).

 

[Ladyraven]

Ok 4 that too. (Nobody thinks your stupid hon).

Thank you

 

[loveisblind]

I 've seen sp's that I've recognized from ads at stores before never approached them

why do some men feel they have the right to do this???

so when your with your wife at No frills should a sp say " are you still coming by for you 8 pm session john doe???"

 

[GPIDEAL]

Can I assume that the same goes for the client - if s/he is famous or has their picture up somewhere, are they asking to be outed?

To me, the whole purpose of this hobby is discreet fun.

Yup! One of those unwritten rules, or 'it goes without saying'. Sheesh!

 

[Tokyo Heights]

Just politely node and greet her as a normal friend or acquaintence of your's, why Double Standards our SP's maintian i dont understand, they are rather seperating themselves from the main stream of communities, their profession of banging men is entirely their own personal preference, but when they meet anyone outside their professional life they can act like a normal civil lady, as our Country is a pretty Liberal Minded in such matters
and the Law does not interfere till someone creates a public nuisance or concern by neighbours or a jealous wife no action is taken what so ever on girls who are SP's by their own choice.

 

[HG Hunter]

Here's how I see things.
The first sign of recognition, if any should be brief eye contact. At that point, a quick evaluation of the situation has to be made by both parties as to whether or not the other person is alone or with someone.
If one or both parties are with someone else, the contact should be limited to that first initial eye contact. End of story. Both parties should understand this is out of respect for privacy, not for any other reason.
If both parties appear to be alone, then a small nod of the head or a smile should be acceptable. If further contact is to be undertaken it should be done with discretion and it should be recognized that if one party ignores the other, it's not a slight, it's just a desire to remain incognito.

It's all about respecting the unwritten rules and boundaries of the hobbying community.

 

[hamiltondude]

First I'm not a "dude". I have worked in many restaurants where customers and staff would go beyond the being friendly point. Now to compare that to this is like comparing apples to oranges. Discretion is paramount here....I have no idea why you can not see that. If one of us was 'outed' doing such...our business would ruined.

And yes it is because I am an sp. There is no other comparison.

Man = Dude
Woman = Bitch

Dammit Terminator, fix it!!!

 

[The Oracle]

Can I assume that the same goes for the client - if s/he is famous or has their picture up somewhere, are they asking to be outed?

To me, the whole purpose of this hobby is discreet fun.

I didn't say they are asking to be outed at all.

But they are taking that risk.

What we do attracts a certain percentage of people of little common sense.

Put another way sometimes common sense isn't that common.

After a while this type of behaviour will happen.

 

[Alex_Ontario]

I see that there isnt a MR Hamiltondude

Well in your case and with your f*cked up logic, it wouldn't surprise me if there was a Mr. Hamiltondude.

I could also see why you probably don't have a Mrs. Hamiltondude either. Because if you did and an SP approached YOU in public, you wouldn't be thinking that way. Your lips would be as tight as your ass.

 

[hamiltondude]

well in your case and with your f*cked up logic, it wouldn't surprise me if there was a mr. Hamiltondude.

I could also see why you probably don't have a mrs. Hamiltondude either. Because if you did and an sp approached you in public, you wouldn't be thinking that way. Your lips would be as tight as your ass.

lmao

 

[mruptonogood]

oh alex smacked you down and hit you over the head with a chair just to make sure you stayed down.

 

[Natalie]

Man = Dude
Woman = Bitch

Dammit Terminator, fix it!!!

Bitch at an hourly rate to you

 

[Aardvark154]

Just politely node and greet her as a normal friend or acquaintence of your's, why Double Standards our SP's maintian i dont understand, they are rather sperating themselves from the main stream of communities, their profession of banging men is entirely their own personal preference, but when they meet anyone outside their professional life they can act like a normal civil lady, as our Country is a pretty Liberal Minded in such matters . . .

Here's how I see things.
The first sign of recognition, if any should be brief eye contact. At that point, a quick evaluation of the situation has to be made by both parties as to whether or not the other person is alone or with someone.
If one or both parties are with someone else, the contact should be limited to that first initial eye contact. End of story. Both parties should understand this is out of respect for privacy, not for any other reason.
If both parties appear to be alone, then a small nod of the head or a smile should be acceptable. If further contact is to be undertaken it should be done with discretion and it should be recognized that if one party ignores the other, it's not a slight, it's just a desire to remain incognito.

It's all about respecting the unwritten rules and boundaries of the hobbying community.

Largely I agree with Tokyo Heights and HG Hunter above.

It should I would hope be obvious that stalking someone is obnoxious behaviour that is not going to lead to any positive result. At the same time what ever happened to just normal social interaction? Is a smile and/or nod, or saying "hello or "good morning" or whatever as you continue on walking that threatening? I can see that it might be if the SP is with their S.O. but if not, no scene is made and other casual acquaintances are treated in the same manner. . . .

Perhaps all this is going the way of holding the door for the woman who is walking right behind you.

 

[HOF]

I understand some posters are trying to maybe explain the actions so that LR is aware that some of her advertising and her job may lead to some overly excited client approaching her at the wrong time. So maybe she can prepare herself for this in the future.

I understand some posters who would want this guys booking information since this certain client has become out of control with his improper behavior.

I understand some posters trying to figure out why some men would act this way.


I don't understand those who are justifying his actions, calling LR out, saying she is as wrong as him, she asked for it, she is at fault, she would be okay with it if he was cute, she is a hypocrite, a double standard dealing whore who should either put up or shut up because of the type of business she is in.

Each poster knows which category they fit into so I need not call out any names. But I am quite shocked ny some of the replies.

LR, this is nothing more than an internet forum. You don't need to reply to some of these people. They will not understand or they are simplying posting to be on the "opposite" side. Tboy was known for this and it use to drive people nuts while he sat back in his easy chair and laughed his ass off at the reaction. Don't give in. Find another thread or just ignore them.

I completely agree that this guy is idiot, and I understand that you're concerned or afraid. In the real world, there are many undesirable people, who are not concerned about privacy.

In fact LR, you have stated many times in your daily advertisements that "your cock could be in the next sig pic." with a smile on your face, and you welcome your clients to photograph you too. The point is that whether you like it or not, you've become a public figure in what is supposed to be a private world. Other than allowing you to vent, I'm not sure this thread is going to benefit you; other than to put more undesirable types onto you.

You stated that you've contacted the police now after being harrassed, so let them do their job. What I still have difficulty with is you could have asked the cashier to call 911 for police. They would have been there real fast. Other than asking the cashier for that sort of support, he/she isn't going to be able to do much more.

Instead of dealing with this matter quietly and quickly, you've chosen to air the episode, and you get angry with members that aren't on your defence. You reply with constant foul language, coping strategy, but it doesn't help your case. It demonstrates that you're easily frustrated and incites others against you.

At this point, your thread has lost purpose and usefulness and you're the front-runner for the "EMM" award this month. Maybe a good time to close it before you get more frustrated?

There is no malice intended by my post. I agree the guy is an idiot, and you have to remember this village has many.

Sensual-Secrets, please tell me what category, you think I'm in? I'd be interested in knowing. I fully agree that the male involved is a problem, but he won't be dealt with here; this is a means to vent for LR. She has to realize is that this village has many idiots. I"m not going to restate the entire post; I am glad that she is fine, but now let the police handle it. Play safe and stay safe, it's nice out today go for long walk and clear your mind of the nonsense.

 

[The Oracle]

I completely agree that this guy is idiot, and I understand that you're concerned or afraid. In the real world, there are many undesirable people, who are not concerned about privacy.

In fact LR, you have stated many times in your daily advertisements that "your cock could be in the next sig pic." with a smile on your face, and you welcome your clients to photograph you too. The point is that whether you like it or not, you've become a public figure in what is supposed to be a private world. Other than allowing you to vent, I'm not sure this thread is going to benefit you; other than to put more undesirable types onto you.

You stated that you've contacted the police now after being harrassed, so let them do their job. What I still have difficulty with is you could have asked the cashier to call 911 for police. They would have been there real fast. Other than asking the cashier for that sort of support, he/she isn't going to be able to do much more.

Instead of dealing with this matter quietly and quickly, you've chosen to air the episode, and you get angry with members that aren't on your defence. You reply with constant foul language, coping strategy, but it doesn't help your case. It demonstrates that you're easily frustrated and incites others against you.

At this point, your thread has lost purpose and usefulness and you're the front-runner for the "EMM" award this month. Maybe a good time to close it before you get more frustrated?

There is no malice intended by my post. I agree the guy is an idiot, and you have to remember this village has many.

Sensual-Secrets, please tell me what category, you think I'm in? I'd be interested in knowing. I fully agree that the male involved is a problem, but he won't be dealt with here; this is a means to vent for LR. She has to realize is that this village has many idiots. I"m not going to restate the entire post; I am glad that she is fine, but now let the police handle it. Play safe and stay safe, it's nice out today go for long walk and clear your mind of the nonsense.

Me thinks he has pretty much hit the nail on the head.

 

[hamiltondude]

I completely agree that this guy is idiot, and I understand that you're concerned or afraid. In the real world, there are many undesirable people, who are not concerned about privacy.

In fact LR, you have stated many times in your daily advertisements that "your cock could be in the next sig pic." with a smile on your face, and you welcome your clients to photograph you too. The point is that whether you like it or not, you've become a public figure in what is supposed to be a private world. Other than allowing you to vent, I'm not sure this thread is going to benefit you; other than to put more undesirable types onto you.

You stated that you've contacted the police now after being harrassed, so let them do their job. What I still have difficulty with is you could have asked the cashier to call 911 for police. They would have been there real fast. Other than asking the cashier for that sort of support, he/she isn't going to be able to do much more.

Instead of dealing with this matter quietly and quickly, you've chosen to air the episode, and you get angry with members that aren't on your defence. You reply with constant foul language, coping strategy, but it doesn't help your case. It demonstrates that you're easily frustrated and incites others against you.

At this point, your thread has lost purpose and usefulness and you're the front-runner for the "EMM" award this month. Maybe a good time to close it before you get more frustrated?

There is no malice intended by my post. I agree the guy is an idiot, and you have to remember this village has many.

Sensual-Secrets, please tell me what category, you think I'm in? I'd be interested in knowing. I fully agree that the male involved is a problem, but he won't be dealt with here; this is a means to vent for LR. She has to realize is that this village has many idiots. I"m not going to restate the entire post; I am glad that she is fine, but now let the police handle it. Play safe and stay safe, it's nice out today go for long walk and clear your mind of the nonsense.

HOF has spoken!! Well put. Although, i feel that this post isnt over yet. As ive said, its constant back and forth with the same points and its getting annoying. HOF ended this post, and lets move on!! Again, Soup Nazi says.....NEXT!!

 

[gcostanza]

Bitch at an hourly rate to you

+1 .

 

[HOF]

I think you put too much faith in people Lady. My number one rule is People Suck. I go at everything in my life with this one preconceived notion. As for calling the Police. It's Peel Region. No matter what tag line Toronto Cops take on helping ladies in this business Peel has their own ideas. She may well put herself on their Radar. The best thing to have done was tell him outright when he began calling that he creeped you out and you would appreciate if he'd leave you alone and then react to his decision and then notify police is needed.

No deal Peel is their tagline; however, they do have and must investigate; it's part of their mandate:
http://www.peelpolice.on.ca/Specialized Units/Investigative Units/Special Victims Unit.aspx

Yes, she may put herself in the open; however, what is the lesser of two evils if her safety is in question?

 

[Ladyraven]

No deal Peel is their tagline; however, they do have and must investigate; it's part of their mandate:
http://www.peelpolice.on.ca/Specialized Units/Investigative Units/Special Victims Unit.aspx

Yes, she may put herself in the open; however, what is the lesser of two evils if her safety is in question?

they dont care what I do.. and well I never told em what I do.. I said I was a personal trainer.. they rolled their eyes and kinda were like ya ok.. but something must have been done as I am no longer being bothered by him..either he read this or they contacted him.. either way I do not care .. just as long as he leaving me alone now. I hope he is not on to bothering another girl..
and each and everyone of you can think what you want. however I do not think ANYONE has the right to do that to another human being.. NO MATTER WHO THEY ARE OR WHAT THEY MAY DO!!!
Be safe