I hope SPs here will come out and tell us. Otherwise, we would be all guessing. Do they have a normal relationship and their bfs are cool with what they do? Do they hide it completely from their bfs? Are they single because they haven't met a guy who is okay with what they do. Do they even look among their clients like a needle in a haystack for someone that they actually like? Or maybe they are just totally independent and only care about making a living for themselves? Perhaps some guys here know because they actually asked them this question.