What is the love life of SPs like?

[Brill]

^^^
Agreed.
This would be even worse than fucking someone you didn't find appealing, he's trying to get into your head.
He might be genuinely concerned for you and wants to be your friend but paying for it at the same time will confuse the situation.

 

[skypilot]

I used to make my former girlfriend MPA wash her hands at least three times when she got home. If she was an SP I would have made her douche and use mouthwash.

 

[ready2rock]

Interesting thread. Actually, very interesting.

mruptonogood sounds like he has personal knowledge of a specific SP & might be trying to paint the lot of them with that brush. What he's asserting is not fair, nor is it accurate.

I prefer not to label a strata of society based on the characteristics a few individuals.

We're all individuals. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and being whom we are.

R2R

 

[friendlysmile]

I prefer not to label a strata of society based on the characteristics a few individuals.
We're all individuals. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and being whom we are.

This is a great statement. I think and feel it is closes to the truth. Honestly now Sp-ing is a business reflecting financial opportunity for some. I do not understand why some feel a need to make it personal, say bad things or desire to be friends, a working woman or attempt to get in there head.

Like I said, before, I have met ladies according to service, even develop real friendships with them and as a result…we stayed friend, but walked away from the fun, side of it. In fact we speak often on Msn or other online places.

But since I know them personally …..I never book them and they understand why?

Truth is I am not interested in an emotional attachment in this way so if we become friends it kind of moves towards something I am not seeking. Everyone has their own reasons.

Keep it simple I say,” Enjoy the time together as it all but a fantasy, and remember it a service nothing more, just a business exchange, a favor so to speak.”


Like a buddy once said,” keep it simple stupid.”

 

[GPIDEAL]

I can't speak for all, I've only observed about two relationships like this and the reason was because a dork is a life-long lapdog.

Cuckold. Cornuto. But I've seen my fave dancer with a good-looking young dude (but a jealous, inmature jerk).

 

[GPIDEAL]

We're just a way for these girls to make good money, and in most cases, we can't leave quick enough. Uptonogood makes a few good points, one in peticular, most of the time the girls can't wait for the guy to leave.

I'm sure that's the case a lot of the times if not most of the time (even if the client is attractive), however, they do have clients they like that are not slouches themselves.

Quit being so delusional, if most of these girls saw us on the street they may consider jumping in front of a bus to avoid talking to us. At these parties the girls can relax, flirt, and have drinks bought for them all night, all the while knowing they don't have to fuck any john that night.

He's not delusional. Yes, I'm sure SPs do cringe when they deal with certain if not most johns. However, have you ever been to a party to see the crowd of johns? Not many are scarry looking, and they are just normal dudes who are quite sociable.

 

[DocOdd]

Sorry Captain Save a Ho types need not apply. Do the above and you will run the risk of being snickered at when she decides to tell all of her SP friends. i only have respect for people who mind their own business. It is a fantasy and I like to keep it that way. my personal life is no one's business unless I[m discussing it on my terms. Not yours. In most cases, you will never get to know an SP.

Admittedly, the person you're responding to did sound a little clueless with his "talk instead of jumping into bed" (I usually find the conversation a lot more relaxed and open after there's been some hot sex), one can take an interest in an SP without being Captain Save a Ho. I've never encountered an SP who seemed to want to be saved, and so never offered to save one. I've had very pleasant conversations with many, though.

 

[JayTor]

what about if you see an SP once professionally, you really connect, then SHE calls YOU, you see her again and you have an actual experience, no money involved or even discussed?

 

[fuji]

Do they have a normal relationship and their bfs are cool with what they do?

There are all kinds. Some have BF or husband that know all about it. Others sneak out behind their BF/husband back. Some have a not-very-serious BF on the side while they work as SP. Still others plan to put off the BF/husband thing completely until they're finished working as SP's. Others are just single coz they haven't found the right person.

There will probably be as many different answers to this question as there are SP's.

 

[rama putri]

yes I was wondering why a SP's love life matters as well????

Most TERBites are socially inept, so these types of inquisitions are what they ask to fill their immaturity gap.

 

[rama putri]

There are all kinds. Some have BF or husband that know all about it. Others sneak out behind their BF/husband back. Some have a not-very-serious BF on the side while they work as SP. Still others plan to put off the BF/husband thing completely until they're finished working as SP's. Others are just single coz they haven't found the right person.

There will probably be as many different answers to this question as there are SP's.

So, just like 'normal' women ...

 

[yahoo40]

I know an SP who got married to a normal civilian guy who didnt knew about it.
And during the vacations the SP was still seeing clients with SO not knowing.

Obviously the relationship lasted only a year.

 

[Aardvark154]

Seemingly there are several different issues involved here:

a) The differences between different ‘categories’ of SP’s for instance as best as any of us know, the needs and goals of a University Student or someone come from rural Ontario or Québec coming to Toronto or Montreal to “see the world” is entirely different from an independent in her late 20’s or early 30’s hence it is easy for this to be apples and oranges.

b) the fact that many men (seemingly most of us), feel very uncomfortable about being in so blatantly non-exclusive a relationship. Is this more than a bit hypocritical – absolutely, but since when did that affect reality.