What factor makes you decide to repeat with a SP?

[alexxxis]

I think one of the important factors you excluded was wether the SP provides incalls or outcalls or both...
When I first started in this business I was doing strictly outcalls. A LOT of men are interested in ONLY incalls...so this option may have pertained to a poll about what makes u choose a certain SP to begin with. You may really want to see a certain girl but she doesn't have a place and, well, you're wife may not approve of her being over ... lol

 

[chuck007]

Incall/Outcall

I think one of the important factors you excluded was wether the SP provides incalls or outcalls or both...
When I first started in this business I was doing strictly outcalls. A LOT of men are interested in ONLY incalls...so this option may have pertained to a poll about what makes u choose a certain SP to begin with. You may really want to see a certain girl but she doesn't have a place and, well, you're wife may not approve of her being over ... lol

Actually, I considered that factor and left it out. My logic (perhaps flawed) was that the first visit would have been where the client's preference was made for incall vs. outcall. After that, my assumption is that the client would either repeat or not in the same venue. I realize some SPs offer a choice. Again, unless they reduce the choice, incall/outcall would be irrelevant to repeat or not.

I agree with you. The availability of incall vs outcall is very important in that first decision to see an SP for a first time. After that, all things being equal, would you repeat?

 

[slyjohn]

Attitude and BBBJ/GFE !

 

[gmuoo]

Sorry for getting out of topic ... but curious about how one turns on and off the feelings when the chemistry is there? I think it is easier for the gents but for the ladies who obviously have a few more that they have chemisty with must be a little tough .... or maybe you girls don't turn it off at all????

Yes you can get burnt if you fly too close to the sun (Is this how you say it in English too?)

My personal opinion is that when those factors are NOT present and we are just going through the motions...well... it's preatty boring and I honestly don't see what's the point in spending time together if nothing is real...but that's just me.

Yes I think one has to be aware of dangers that come with feeling real emotions but isn't it what life is all about? Otherwise I think we just live our lives like robots and we are num and we don't feel nothing whatsoever because we are afraid to be hurt...now that's no fun.

Having said that, I do not diminish what you said about the possibility of "entanglement". I beleive it to be a risk factor yes especially for the gentlemen but my own personal experience in this business has shown me that gentlemen are not stupid...they are able to play and be cautious at the same time and find a good balance.

We do have to be cautious. I think that the key is for both parties to ALWAYS be very honest with each other. While we can sometimes get lost in the moment (witch is great) we must never loose touch of reality.

Luv,
Gab,xxx

 

[SexyLacy]

hi there
what a great poll

I would have to agree that chemistry does play a factor. But i would also think that how she makes you feel would be another big factor.

this thread is very informative, thanks

Lacy xxoo

 

[OnTheWayOut]

wow!

hi there
what a great poll

I would have to agree that chemistry does play a factor. But i would also think that how she makes you feel would be another big factor.

this thread is very informative, thanks

Lacy xxoo

Lacy, you need to visit Ottawa!!!!!!!

*sigh*

 

[SexyLacy]

Lacy, you need to visit Ottawa!!!!!!!

*sigh*

I am making my way there

 

[CapitalGuy]

Lacy, you need to visit Ottawa!!!!!!!

*sigh*

yip.

 

[gabrielle_luvxxx]

Sorry for getting out of topic ... but curious about how one turns on and off the feelings when the chemistry is there? I think it is easier for the gents but for the ladies who obviously have a few more that they have chemisty with must be a little tough .... or maybe you girls don't turn it off at all????

One can't turn it on and off silly bro! It's either there or it's not...

 

[slyjohn]

I second that!!!

Lacy, you need to visit Ottawa!!!!!!!

*sigh*

 

[chuck007]

Poll results summary

The poll results are in.

What factor makes you decide to repeat with a SP? https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147657

In answering this poll, pick the single most important factor that makes you decide to repeat, assuming that all other items are equal. I realize a single turn-off can ruin the whole thing, but I`ll open a separate poll for that. SP only. I`ll do MP in a different poll.

In 2 weeks, 130 people voted, but 1250 views of the thread were made. Obviously a high interest subject. The results are enlightening.

What do the results tell us about why we repeat?

• Attitude is the run away winner, taking more than 50% of the vote and about twice its nearest competitor. Some good discussions brought out that making a connection, chemistry, and so forth all relate to attitude.
• Service (Whatever you are into) accounted for 27%.
• Everything else 10% or less.

What factor makes you decide NEVER to repeat with a SP? https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147658
Unfortunately, in real life, even if many things are awesome, it only takes one thing to really turn off any hope of ever repeating. In this poll, we look at which factor you tolerate the least at being poor that will cause you to never repeat with a Service Provider.

So, Which single factor will make you decide NOT to repeat, assuming that all others have been equally met?

What do the results tell us about what turns us off, so that we won`t repeat?

• Poor personal hygiene won by a small margin with 31.5% of the vote.
• Attitude was a close runner up with 29% . For more on attitude - see Why we repeat.
• Service came in 3rd with 20%.
• Everything else was 6% or less.

Conclusions:

• When you couple this poll to the one on how often we repeat (see https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147516), it help explains why some providers put so much effort into the attitude and how we experience them. I think Nyomi Blu`s website (Toronto SP) summarizes all this best with her favorite quote "people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Maya Angelou.
• Personal hygiene may not be a turn on, but it`s the biggest turn off. This is a two way street. Let`s make sure we don`t turn them off either.
• When you couple great attitude and service - the chances of winning a long term client goes through the roof.

Hope this was a bit informative. Don`t take it too seriously. Thanks to everyone who took the time to vote.

Have fun and play safe out there.