What do SP's do when they quit the Biz?

Morgan Ellis

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Vancouver Femme Fatale said:
And, I think I'm with you on this one Alexa. I am now officially taking the "Bitch Please! Option Of Non-Participation In Idle And Excruciatingly Repetitive Speculation About SPs Lives" vow.
Ditto. Maybe we should get t-shirts.

Barring that, I'm going to adopt the 'giggle/head toss/wide eyed/'like, is re-tirement when I put the snow tires on the car?' approach.

- Morgan
 

solitaria

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Here's my take;

What I've done in the past, doing now, or may do in the future will not be 'who I am'. Those who are chickenshit enough to presume that they know something about my character based on a job description can, to be blunt, blow me. Those kind of people will, by definition, be people whose opinion doesn't matter to me.

Again, and again, and again, only fools who gossip and whine about their assumption of what someone may be like based on what they've done in their lives have that assumption blow up in their faces. Why? Because people who really understand how the world works - and often have the serious money to prove it - know that character is what counts, not your damn resume.

Essentially, you show your rookie status by beaking off about someone's past. And I don't hang out with rookies. When I leave the business, life will go on much as it always has...people will seek me out based on my ability to be a decent human being :)
Everything you do or say gives insight into who you are as a person.

For example some key things to consider in your post are its overly-aggressive angry tone, how you equate money to an in-depth understanding to how the world works, and your preocupation with status and how you are not a rookie yet you seem to care so much about how others view you.
 

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pritty_kitten said:
i wish that they gave a class for girls in the biz on how to manage their money. too many girls are struggling to pay the rent at the end of the month, yet they make $1000+ a week.
Couldn't agree more! Would easy come, easy go apply? :rolleyes:
 

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2Ex-SP's whom i used to meet on regular basis are both happily married and doing their businesses, Lord Bless them, both are in conact with me and we now meet for lunches as good friends & remember times spent togather, therefore i always quote that even girls in adult industry do have emotions, & some are really very warm hearted females who keep relationship seperate from their past biz life- my 2-Ex SPfriends are far more better human beings then some of my so-called old girlfriends or even some relatives.
 

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Guy7 said:
2Ex-SP's whom i used to meet on regular basis are both happily married and doing their businesses, Lord Bless them, both are in conact with me and we now meet for lunches as good friends & remember times spent togather, therefore i always quote that even girls in adult industry do have emotions, & some are really very warm hearted females who keep relationship seperate from their past biz life- my 2-Ex SPfriends are far more better human beings then some of my so-called old girlfriends or even some relatives.
I wholeheartedly agree some SP's have there act together and are kind and considerate. On the other hand, there are many who don't come out as well and remain very bitter about their experience.
 

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Mystique Misty said:
It has been my observation and experience that most upscale and classy escorts are rather well educated and have skills outside of the sex industry . As far as them not being able to acclimate into society that too I feel is misunderstood . These ladies are already a part of society and have been for quite some time . Many have professional jobs unrelated to the sex industry , many are married or in a relationship and have children , yes it is true they do have a life outside of the escorting . Some are in it for the money to supliment there income or provide a good living for the kids while others enjoy the sex and companionship and yet others know they will only be in it a short while until they are done with school or at which time they have met other
personal or financial goals in life . What other profession allows them the
flexibility they need to be able to accomplish many of there life's goals ?Bottom line for most is its not a lifestyle its a job 1 they might enjoy but nevertheless its there job. I would think most escort for a combination of reasons many of which are mentioned above . Chances of them being recodnized are much greater while they are active and there websites
are up and running , they deal with these issues and have learned to handle them with class .

That being said you will find those who are drug and alcohol dependent or those who deal with mental and emotional health issues or those who really do not enjoy it at all and lack the skills nessesary to excel , even though there is a world of education availible to them and for whatever reason cant motivate themselves to embrass it . These individuals may have a hard time acclimating into society but not because they were an escort it would only be because they do not want more for themselves .

I do have to take issue with 1 thing I read in this thread ...it takes more then having great looks a hot body and shaking your ass and tits to be a great escort . There are many facets to this industry that you gentleman dont know and dont see . A good / great escort takes the time to make the date special for both of you which means you must have a creative side and
immagination a skill many of us never develope . Not to mention they also have to be skilled in the area of scheduling and timing , also be a good host and good at making every client feel comfortable and special . She must also be good at public relations ( answering calls and emails promptly ) a
good listener , respectful and discrete ( which we know works both ways ) . Beleieve it or not these are skills many lack but are essential for making a good escort GREAT ! Its no wonder many of the GREAT escorts get burned out and retire who could keep up the pace without the use of an illegal substance ? This of course is just my perception .

Misty
Kudos to you Misty - very well said. Perhaps some of the other SP's that posted in this thread could learn a thing or two from you. As everyone can see, it certainly is possible to get your point across in a classy and civil manner. :cool:
 
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