What do SP's do when they quit the Biz?

[Doctor Zoidburg]

What they do afterwards is as diversified as what the general population does.

It all depends when they get in and when they get out, what they charges for their services, and how ell they have kept themselve during the time of their SP career.
I know of a few SPs that got in and out at the right time, and have made a bundle and invested it well. I also know of others that have gotten in and did not like what they were doing and was in and out just for the quick money, they did not take good care of themselves and did not save, so now they are on welfare.

 

[Sasha Jones]

I think they have a very difficult time acclimating to society. Once they realize they can't just shake their ass and tits and have the money flow out of guy's pockets anymore, it is tough on them. Many have major issues to begin with and the added pressure of making money outside of the biz sometimes pushes them over the edge to drugs and alcohol or even to crime. I am sure there are some, but my guess is the majority don't make it and become societies problem in one way or another. Gosh, am I too pessimistic here?

Yeah sure, because who could figure that anyone willing to whore themselves out for a living could actually lead a 'normal' life after the tits sag and the pussy is all stretched out.
For what it is worth some of us who have left the business are actually leading very fulfilling lives and are not all screwed up like most would assume.
God, some of you guys really need to get a clue. It is a shame to see that not much has changed in the last few years.

 

[pokerdude]

I ran into a former SP at my gym of all places and asked her how things are going. She will remain nameless and was quite popular here a few years back. She told me that she finished school and works as a dental assistant in a different area than the one she used to service. I wished her well and saw her again a couple of times at that gym.

 

[skypilot]

LOL Nah, they're really checking to see how many of you guys are still here!

A note to the original poster: I've thrown nothing but sarcasm in this thread because I hope you are not seriously expecting us (SPs) to reveal the plans for our lives.

Come on Jazzy, of course we want to know the plans for your life, after all this is TERB.
Like dancers and MPAs we want to know EVERYTHING about you SPs - where you have had lunch, what you had for lunch, if you date clients, if you marry clients, if you have a normal life, if you have an abnormal life, what kind of car do you drive, do you have Michelin tires, where you went to school, what your grades were, what you are doing today, what you will be doing tomorrow, what you will be doing on Feb. 7, 2008, 2009, 2010 and why.
If I forgot anything I will start another post.

 

[great bear]

How different are the "ladies" from us the "clients"? For the majority of them its a job. Some of them treat it as a business and do very well from it. Others treat it differently and live hand to mouth. Asking the girls what kind of life style changes they make after they leave the business is like asking us the clients how much we change after we leave them and go home to our wives or girlfriends. If your basically a good person the change is minimal. Its a job, simple as that.

 

[great bear]

skypilot, now you stop that; you're giving me ideas for threads on you guys.

My threads are only Italian.

 

[ed_v]

I have had the fortune of meeting bright, sweet ladies in the short time I've been hobbying. Often, after the heat of the moment of the encounter has subsided, there have been somewhat personal disclosures of thoughts and dreams of things to come. I felt honoured that those thoughts were shared, and it left me with an impression that these ladies are in control of their lives and this is but a stepping stone. Of course, I realize that can't be said for everyone. I hope when the day comes to quit the SP world, they will reflect fondly on this chapter of their lives, the many nice men they've met and brought happiness to, and their courage for not having taken the easy road. No doubt they will be ready to embrace whatever remains to be done.

 

[Aardvark154]

I ran into a former SP at my gym of all places and asked her how things are going. She will remain nameless and was quite popular here a few years back. She told me that she finished school and works as a dental assistant in a different area than the one she used to service. I wished her well and saw her again a couple of times at that gym.

I suspect that the above scenario is fairly typical. From the little I actually know about it, it seems that such priorities as: finish University, or go to University, or go to Professional School, or go to Graduate School, get a job in a 9-5 job field, hope to meet the right guy and get married are a lot more more typical than: move to French Polynesia, buy a Gulfstream V, live off investment income, die of terminal boredom on a tropical island.

 

[papasmerf]

Married? That stops at the engagement ring...oh wait, he could call off the wedding; never mind.

Few will be blessed wives - PSE for the rest of that lucky guy's life!

PSE= POOR SUCKER'S ENGAGED????

 

[danmand]

they become politicians

That does not make any sense at all.

 

[diver]

Politicians are generally thought of as being willing to screw anybody over with a smile on there face. Sp's have the ability to screw anybody while maintaining a smile.

 

[papasmerf]

Papa, you will get a spanking!

Promises, promises

 

[great bear]

Promises, promises

Woody wants to give you a planking.

 

[papasmerf]

Woody wants to give you a planking.

Ah woody a man who wishes he was a weber grill

 

[danmand]

Politicians are generally thought of as being willing to screw anybody over with a smile on there face. Sp's have the ability to screw anybody while maintaining a smile.

But the direction is opposite.

 

[LKD]

they never quit. It's an addiction similar to ours.

 

[papasmerf]

they never quit. It's an addiction similar to ours.

Not many 70 year olds making a good living

 

[petitelover]

Yeah sure, because who could figure that anyone willing to whore themselves out for a living could actually lead a 'normal' life after the tits sag and the pussy is all stretched out.
For what it is worth some of us who have left the business are actually leading very fulfilling lives and are not all screwed up like most would assume.
God, some of you guys really need to get a clue. It is a shame to see that not much has changed in the last few years.

My goodness, you certainly are belittling the SP crowd. The point in my post is that SP's have a hard time, not impossible time, acclimating to society. Money made in this business is analogous to an aphrodisiac and when they see it is not as forthcoming with a lot more work in the "real world" many become disenchanted with the work concept and resort to other avenues of income. Based upon your response, and please take not offense to this, it certainly sounds like you have a lot of pent up anger directed at this business. I am glad to hear you are leading a very fulfilling life.

 

[goodtime]

move to French Polynesia, buy a Gulfstream V, live off investment income, die of terminal boredom on a tropical island.

with Goodtime.

 

[Morgan Ellis]

The point in my post is that SP's have a hard time, not impossible time, acclimating to society.

a lot more work in the "real world" many become disenchanted with the work concept and resort to other avenues of income.

What are you basing this on? Which well researched follow up study on the lives of ex-non-street working sex workers did you draw this data from? Seriously, quote me some sources here - I'd love to read them.

Oh, that's right - there are no sources, other than the fertile ground of your own imagination.

Do you know what makes both current and ex hookers alike bitter? Reading idiotic drivel like this, over and over and over again. Drivel couched as facts, and presented as such.

The reality is that you have no idea what kind of success we lead in the 'real world', because most of us became adept a long, long time ago at blending both parts of our lives seamlessly. Segueing into non-sexwork is a piece of cake, compared to the juggling we do while we're working F/T.

Hard as it may be to believe, we're not all crack addled, shopping addicted head cases who can't hold down a day job or a relationship. It would be nice if there was just one place where almost everyone didn't believe all of those stupid stereotypes, and present them as facts engraved in stone.

- Morgan