Was I right or wrong?
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You do. Every freaking day. Hell, there was probably one in line behind you at the coffee shop at lunch, quietly and impotently fantasizing about fighting the big guy three people ahead of you.
He was being a boor, you on the other hand committed a crime.
Perhaps more effective would have been to have said 'yelling isn't going to get your coffee made any faster, if you show her some respect this will go more quickly' or 'she's doing the best job she can' (IF she was, I've seen some damn incompetent fast food workers in my day - it truly isn't that hard to follow the directions for making a latte or espresso).
The only free sex I've been offered is by fuji, he offered to dress up and bottom for me, he was quite adamant about it, I politely declined.
Simply doing nothing when people are treated badly is a reflection of someones character, while at the same time harassing someone else with the wrong action is just as big an issue as the former.
If I was in that line behind you when you had slapped his coffee out of his hand I would of had quite a few words for you to make you feel as small as the other idiot did (thinking you can get away with your wrong actions)
Slapping coffee out of someone's hand, or putting the boot to someone is harassment. Grow up and be a man, rather than repeating the same bad behaviour try having a word with people like a human being rather than reacting like an animal.
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You should have attempted to defuse the situation. You're lucky the guy simply left. If you tried to defuse the situation instead and he escalated, then you'd be more justified in your actions. As it is, you just come off as trying to be self-righteous.
I was in a movie theater a couple years ago waiting to buy our tickets at a kiosk. The girl at the front of the line obviously didn't know what she was doing and was taking her sweet time. The guy behind her was obviously frustrated and asked her: "You almost done there? I don't got all day!" A guy with his girlfriend in the line next to us decided to be self-righteous (maybe because of who was on his arm) and told the girl to take all the time she needed. The offending guy flipped the fuck out and started cussing this white knight out like no one's business. White knight isn't going to take that in front of his girlfriend, so they start to scuffle. Ruined everyone's night. All this white knight had to do was to suggest to the guy that the proper course of action was to offer help, rather than demean the girl. Defuse. But, he needed to preen instead.
I was in a movie theater a couple years ago waiting to buy our tickets at a kiosk. The girl at the front of the line obviously didn't know what she was doing and was taking her sweet time. The guy behind her was obviously frustrated and asked her: "You almost done there? I don't got all day!" A guy with his girlfriend in the line next to us decided to be self-righteous (maybe because of who was on his arm) and told the girl to take all the time she needed. The offending guy flipped the fuck out and started cussing this white knight out like no one's business. White knight isn't going to take that in front of his girlfriend, so they start to scuffle. Ruined everyone's night. All this white knight had to do was to suggest to the guy that the proper course of action was to offer help, rather than demean the girl. Defuse. But, he needed to preen instead.
You don't actually believe that do you? All due respect, but that's such generic impractical advice and it makes no sense in a real situation. Angry guy gets just as angry if some sanctimonious prick behind him chirps at him about how "you know, not everyone knows exactly what they want to see it the process. Maybe we should all just be a little patient with her and act like positive role models for those around us".
If it were me, that would probably annoy me way more
If it were me, that would probably annoy me way more
Holy shit! I actually agree w something Fuji has written.
But.. Well said, Fuji. Spot on.
