That is the worst part of this.That sad shit. He leaves a family behind.
It's possible that the makeup of a guy who is willing to be a hockey goon predisposes him to substance abuse. There's gotta be low self-esteem for a guy whose talent compares so lowly in relation to his colleagues that he can only stay in the league by using violence (and it's not even spontaneous).An good interview with George LaRoche on CBC where he said he knows about 50 enforcers who careers are over, many of whom were paid relatively little, and they are having trouble dealing with their demons. Many falling into drug and alcohol abuse.
To paraphrase, and I hope I'm not being unfair, "being a bully was bad for his self-esteem". To a true bully, knocking the shit out of someone you despise would probably be great for the old self-esteem.It's possible that the makeup of a guy
who is willing to be a hockey goon predisposes him to substance abuse. There's gotta be low self-esteem for a guy whose talent compares so lowly in relation to his colleagues that he can only stay in the league by using violence (and it's not even spontaneous).
I know I'm generalizing but it doesn't sound like an unreasonable scenario.
Hey Phil, it's good to know you feel this way.That is the worst part of this.
Your paraphrase was too short. Shoulda been ".............. self-esteem because his skills were so poor, the only was he could stay in the league was to beat up other guys." A lot of these guys are not "true bullies", just bullies on the ice and most of the guys they fight, they do not despise but are forced to do so because it is their job and they need to do it to stay in the league.To paraphrase, and I hope I'm not being unfair, "being a bully was bad for his self-esteem". To a true bully, knocking the shit out of someone you despise would probably be great for the old self-esteem.
Maybe it is time for the NHL (and all major league sports) to prepare athletes for "life after the game". Super stars may have a break due to local status, however regular schmucks do not have the opportunities for a life after hockey (or whatever sport) that more popular guys have.maybe it's time for the NHL to ban fighting?...with 3 tough guys dead in a year, (and many more dead ie.Kordic,Probert)fans should think about the mental/physical toll these guys go thru, just to appease their need for violence in the game....