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shack

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So I've done it and my recommendation is to get to know the girl before you go on the vacation. For me it's just as important that we connect on a social level as well as a sexual one if we're going to spend that much time together.

Yes you are expected to pay her expenses including airfare, accommodations, activities and meals. Shopping is something that's up to your discretion and it's not something I expect on a vacation. But I'm sure as hell not going to turn it down either LOL

I would not go on a vacation without being compensated in some way. Although I would not ask for my regular rate because it is a vacation and there would be fun involved. So the social time I don't really charge for. But if you're expecting to get laid a couple of times a day then you're going to pay for it LOL.

The friendship might be free but the pussy is paid only on vacation!

You also have to take into account that the entire time I'm away with you I cannot earn any income. So I lose a week's worth of regular income.

It's not that we're greedy. Or at least not myself personally, but I just need to make sure that my bills are not are going to be covered when I get back home

Something else to expect is that the lady is going to want a few hours to herself each day. No matter who I go on vacation with I need some time away from that person

There's a lot more detail I could go into but this gives you a good idea from a provider standpoint.

However every girl probably has a different way of doing things so please don't take this as official. It's just my 2 cents
Certainly a very reasonable approach. Thank you.

Much more reasonable than someone who wants to charge as if she's going to be booked 18-24 hours a day if she stays at home.
 
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I’ve never done it, but as other have suggested, this is probably an area to tread carefully. If it goes well you will have an epic vacation, if it doesn’t, you will have fucked up a vacation, which at least to me is a risk I would have a hard time taking. You’d have to know the person really well, seen them multiple times, with a number of prolonged dates/ overnights. You’d have to have some common interests, and future out what mutual expectations are. And as many have suggested you will need deep pockets (notwithstanding some experiences that didn’t end up costing 5 figures plus). I can’t see a scenario where I’d go on a trip with a SP, though I’ve known some fabulous, great girls who are great company. Maybe also it’s a bit of my reserved / and conservative nature, and need for personal privacy too. 🤷‍♂️

(Doing my part to get thread back on track, in contrast to numerous other threads the last several days that have been derailed into shitshows and / or dumpster fires).
 

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Certainly a very reasonable approach. Thank you.

Much more reasonable than someone who wants to charge as if she's going to be booked 18-24 hours a day if she stays at home.
Yes like I mentioned every girl runs her business differently. And it's what works for her. I'm not out there trying to be like the upper echelon of escorting. That market is small and it is spoken for.
 

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So I've done it and my recommendation is to get to know the girl before you go on the vacation. For me it's just as important that we connect on a social level as well as a sexual one if we're going to spend that much time together.

Yes you are expected to pay her expenses including airfare, accommodations, activities and meals. Shopping is something that's up to your discretion and it's not something I expect on a vacation. But I'm sure as hell not going to turn it down either LOL

I would not go on a vacation without being compensated in some way. Although I would not ask for my regular rate because it is a vacation and there would be fun involved. So the social time I don't really charge for. But if you're expecting to get laid a couple of times a day then you're going to pay for it LOL.

The friendship might be free but the pussy is paid only on vacation!

You also have to take into account that the entire time I'm away with you I cannot earn any income. So I lose a week's worth of regular income.

It's not that we're greedy. Or at least not myself personally, but I just need to make sure that my bills are not are going to be covered when I get back home

Something else to expect is that the lady is going to want a few hours to herself each day. No matter who I go on vacation with I need some time away from that person

There's a lot more detail I could go into but this gives you a good idea from a provider standpoint.

However every girl probably has a different way of doing things so please don't take this as official. It's just my 2 cents
Thank you for this.

I don’t believe this is something I would ever do (I would be concerned about subsequent blurred lines potentially caused by all the time together and fun shared non-sexual experiences).

However, I enjoy the insight provided by some of the posters on this thread. I’m with Massman In wanting to see good/interesting/useful threads kept alive.

Thank you for the commentary, the insight, and generally helping get it back on track.
 
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Vera.Reis

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Certainly a very reasonable approach. Thank you.

Much more reasonable than someone who wants to charge as if she's going to be booked 18-24 hours a day if she stays at home.
That's not why we charge how we charge. Every day, for at least 14hrs a day, my day is going to be about you and making sure your happy. It doesn't matter how much you enjoy someone's company, you are paying me to make sure you have a good time, and that requires work around the clock. It is not a vacation with my boyfriend where I can tell him to go jet skiing by himself because I just want to rest or lay in the sun, or that I'm not in the mood to fuck today. I'm literally working around the clock to curate your experience and give you the best time possible. And this is EXHAUSTING. One thing clients don't understand is that even when you make it about us, it's still about you. When a client tells me how much HE enjoys eating pussy, him eating me out now becomes about him, if I don't like how he's doing it and say that, I'm ruining his experience. Literally spending almost every waking moment catering to someone else is a lot of fucking work. And I'll be taking at least 2 weeks OFF work when I get home to recover from the mental exhaustion so that I do not burn out.

Also, if you divide my weekly rate by my hourly rate, the client is only being charged for 5hrs a day. It's not an around the clock calculation.

It's just truly disheartening how many of you refuse to see our work as work. Trust me, if providers stop making the effort to make these types of appointments all about you, you'd definitely notice and you wouldn't like it, because regardless of the amount paid, you expect a service that keeps you happy.
 
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Vera.Reis

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Think of it like a single parent taking their toddler on vacation, everything you do revolves around the needs of the toddler and that diminishes the restfulness of the vacation. It doesn't mean you don't love your toddler, it doesn't mean it wasn't at least partially enjoyable, but it wasn't really a vacation, it was just taking care of your toddler at a beach resort or in Europe instead of at home.
 

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What would be more weird is, each time he wants pussy he has to pay as agreed before signing the agreement.

They get there and she decides to open her leg for Julio the pool boy for free. Or some other tourist she see there does the same for free. Or she is pissed with her host and does Julio and another tourist and the host gets nothing.

That would be a nightmare not to tell at church.
 

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I have gone on vacation 3 times with an SP. all great experiences. Use good judgment and set out the details beforehand. For one trip, I paid all travel expenses and a $1K for shopping and other expenses (paid at the airport) plus a $1K tip (paid afterwards) for an unbelievable trip.
 

Vera.Reis

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hopefully any young/or older lady that wants to get into business uses you as an example of how not to carry themself. You claim that you have all these accomplishments and well educated, but all you do is clout chase, troll, use celebrities that don't even know you in your arguments, and your acting a fool. Step aside, fall back, and just leave the chat for the grown folks my dear.

Cheers.(y)
Active board members say this all the time, and yet my business keeps growing 🥰

Must suck to know that despite you thinking my personality sucks, many others enjoy it and pay to spend time with me, and even more so that I have a wonderful partner who supports me accomplishing my goals by whatever means I deem necessary and doesn't have the negative view of my job that you clearly do to think that he would have a problem with it🥰
 
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I have gone on vacation 3 times with an SP. all great experiences. Use good judgment and set out the details beforehand. For one trip, I paid all travel expenses and a $1K for shopping and other expenses (paid at the airport) plus a $1K tip (paid afterwards) for an unbelievable trip.
Be careful. You might get called a liar.
 
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shack

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Must suck to know that despite you thinking my personality sucks, many others enjoy it and pay to spend time with me, and even more so that I have a wonderful partner who supports me accomplishing my goals by whatever means I deem necessary and doesn't have the negative view of my job that you clearly do to think that he would have a problem with it
"Not that anybody believes you."
 
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