To the men mid 40's and older, how old were you when you sex drive declined?

[black booty lover]

Just past 5-0. No sign yet. Tbh I wouldn’t mind a slight downturn, my sex drive occupies a lot of thoughts and time lol. Need to orgasm most days etc.

This is the conflicting part. My whole life revolved around sex. I needed to make this much money so I can see SP's, etc...

Now that my sex drive is way down, it's kind of nice as most days I'm so chill about not having to worry if I'm making enough money to fill my sexual desires. It's paradox.

 

[esoterica]

I'm well into my 60's - when it starts to happen, I'll let you know.

agreed in full!

 

[jarhead]

Mine started all of sudden around the 52-53 ish mark. It now seems to have a mind of its own. I have no idea on how it is going to perform - it is either too quick or I can't keep it up for very long even though my attraction to my partner has not declined.

Thankfully to this hobby, over time I've felt that I manage to gain the skills and confidence of an amateur porn star but now, I've reverted back to being school boy on his 1st date. It can be very embarrassing, humiliating and crashing blow to the ego especially when hobbying.

I have tried the blue pill. In my case, it only marginally helps. Even with that aid, for me it still has proven to be un predictable.

I am in above average shape for my age, however I do take Blood pressure pills. I was taking this long before ED started. Originally I thought that daily stress was the main culprit. I have also tried Ginseng, Maca etc.

I have not thought about iron that was mentioned above so maybe I will give that a try.

 

[Ben19]

I started taking blood pressure pills around 55, was all down hill from there

Me too

Me three.

You guys should talk to your doctors / health care provider. It may be unrelated but certain BP meds can actually lower sex drive (beta blockers)

 

[kbiii2]

Anyone with problems might want to start Kegel exercises to strengthen their pelvic floor muscles. These muscles help keep blood in the penis. They can get weaker as we age. One way to test is to use a cock ring or two. Experiment with different types and placement, i.e. around both cock and balls, around either one, etc. and different tightness. Don't leave on too long or damage can be done. If it stays up and/or is harder pelvic floor weakness might be the cause.

 

[lenny2]

About 58

 

[barnacler]

I'm 55. I get hornier every year.

I agree. I am 52. I started to lift weights and get strong, and whoa! what a difference. Testosterone increases.

 

[malata]

my sex drive is on overdrive. does not want to stop anytime soon. only thing changed is quality, not quantity

 

[black booty lover]

my sex drive is on overdrive. does not want to stop anytime soon. only thing changed is quality, not quantity

But how old are you?

 

[Nathan 88]

Quite frankly it’s never been as strong as it is now.
Seems like it’s getting stronger every day.

 

[richaceg]

I'm mid 40's and horny as a rabbit.

 

[GameBoy27]

I'm 55. I get hornier every year.

I'm older than you but have the same problem. I've had sex with my wife 3 times in the last 5 days and jerked off an additional 7 times. No sign of slowing down.

 

[yomero5]

I'm older than you but have the same problem. I've had sex with my wife 3 times in the last 5 days and jerked off an additional 7 times. No sign of slowing down.

Lol, I always thought that you were 12 years younger than me, (27 in 2004)!

 

[black booty lover]

I'm older than you but have the same problem. I've had sex with my wife 3 times in the last 5 days and jerked off an additional 7 times. No sign of slowing down.

That's insane...lol.

 

[adon100]

+1 from me

 

[GameBoy27]

That's insane...lol.

I know right? And I've already jerked off twice today. lol

 

[Judge_Knoll]

I still have my sex drive. I just have problems ejaculating. Can stay hard a long time without cumming.

I'm 45.

 

[malata]

But how old are you?

i'm ancient. i've fought in www I and www II. i can fuck like a rabbit and would have enough energy to fight www III. but seriously, like what others have said, if you're in good health and take care of yourself physically and mentally, you could fuck through a tree. age has no barrier my friend

 

[Cuddlebub]

At 57, it's not quite the same as in my 20's but certainly not far off. I jerk off pretty much every night. It might be helping me sleep.

 

[black booty lover]

At 57, it's not quite the same as in my 20's but certainly not far off. I jerk off pretty much every night. It might be helping me sleep.

that's incredible....lol. We're all snow flakes i guess...lol. the way my sex drive dropped off in the few years, I could be completely celibate by next year...lol.