To the men mid 40's and older, how old were you when you sex drive declined?

[thirdcup]

It was the early 50's for me. But now that my little head does not drive me, it is with some relief that my sex drive has decreased.

I have heard that a man's ears and nose are the only body parts that continue to grow with age. The other parts either stop growing, such as arms & legs, or they start shrinking.
This I am sorry to say has been the case with me. Regular sized condoms now fit me.

Funny story- back in my 20s, when I was looking for action anywhere I could find it, for the longest time I used regular sized condoms, and I did not like it. I intuitively understood why guys didn't like them. Then somewhere along the line, I changed to large condoms and it made a world of difference.

Also I had a slight hint from my early GFs that I was above average. I didn't take their words seriously. I thought they were trying to boost my ego.

I had one long term GF who said doggy style was painful to her.

I also read from someone who supposedly knows about these things, that males have 18 to 40 times more testosterone than females. I have no idea if this is a true statement. All the usual disclaimers apply.

 

[black booty lover]

Also I had a slight hint from my early GFs that I was above average. I didn't take their words seriously. I thought they were trying to boost my ego.
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You should have taken their words seriously. 100% boosting your ego.

 

[Scarey]

I turn 49 in 3 months and have been overweight for the last 13 years(about 280-290).Over the last year I have lost 90lbs, and was expecting to go back cutting glass with my Wang. This last four months has been a very disappointing discovery. Fuck in your youth lads...….fuck as much as you can. It's a gift...use it on any woman who will let you.

 

[multimedia]

39. Definitely more mental related.

 

[oil&gas]

I'm older than you but have the same problem. I've had sex with my wife 3 times in the last 5 days and jerked off an additional 7 times. No sign of slowing down.

You wife can't be as old as you. I have this notion that
by the time a woman is in her late 50's her sex life must
have long been dead. She might still have the desire but
her partner would be too exhausted from hobbying to
be aroused.

 

[deezed]

I'm well into my 60's - when it starts to happen, I'll let you know.

50 something but what Meesh said applies to me as well ( very healthy lifestyle though)

 

[Blade]

When I married my ex.

 

[dick.assman]

47 in less than a week and no sign of decline

 

[GameBoy27]

You wife can't be as old as you. I have this notion that
by the time a woman is in her late 50's her sex life must
have long been dead. She might still have the desire but
her partner would be too exhausted from hobbying to
be aroused.

She's just a few years younger than myself. She's in great shape and still has an awesome sex drive. I think because we like to go to Oasis and have a couple we regularly play with, (she's bi) that it keeps things interesting. I don't see SPs (although there's a few I'd like to) but I won't say no to the occasional massage with a HE.

The couple we play with has been same room soft swap up until this point. We're all in agreement we want to try full swap next time. Looking forward to that.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I turn 49 in 3 months and have been overweight for the last 13 years(about 280-290).Over the last year I have lost 90lbs, and was expecting to go back cutting glass with my Wang. This last four months has been a very disappointing discovery. Fuck in your youth lads...….fuck as much as you can. It's a gift...use it on any woman who will let you.

Congratulations on the weight loss. Don't let discouragement make you backslide. The body will recover if you give it a chance. One year isn't that long after 13 of what physicians call "insult" . You might surprise yourself in a while.

 

[Smallcock]

I'm older than you but have the same problem. I've had sex with my wife 3 times in the last 5 days and jerked off an additional 7 times. No sign of slowing down.

This is awesome! You're in good health!

 

[WyattEarp]

Everyone's different as they age and everyone has a different interpretation of what sex drive specifically means.

I still want to have sex every day. In my 30s, I could go at it five times a night. In my early 40s, it was down to once a night and in the morning. Alcohol also became an inhibitor. So for me, I would say early 40s I started to see changes.

 

[thirdcup]

Whoa, blood pressure medication shouldn't be doing that to you. I take 5mg of Amlodipine a day, my sex drive is still chugging along. Talk with your doctor, you could have an iron deficiency, your red blood cells are not getting enough oxygen. Have him test you for anemia. If it's just an iron deficiency start taking Geritol or develop a taste for liver.

You can also take iron tablets. And spinach contains lots of iron.
Being iron deficient makes you tired during the day.

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[kstanb]

44 and I grow hornier year after year

 

[y2kmark]

When they closed the border, no sex drives since...

 

[jalimon]

At 50 I still wake up every morning with a boner.

The only thing that changed since my early 40's for me is:
- no alcool before fucking... either I will have issue getting hard or I will not come
- only 1 sog (rare rare occasion I got 2 but that was because the girl was crazy kinky naughty)

 

[jcpro]

I had a sort of revelation a couple of days ago. I went cruising the massage places and ended up in Etobicoke with a pretty Chinese riding my dick. At one point, I think she was getting tired, she turn to me and she asked- do you want to fuck me? For some reason, and completely automatically my answer was- I'm paying you to fuck me. I just didn't feel like moving; at all! In the recent past I used to go at it from all the angles; top, bottom, upside down, using all the furniture- two, three hours solid. Right there, all I wanted was to relax, lie back and have a young hottie service me. That's when I realized that the age has finally caught up with me.

 

[funstick]

Gradual decline started mid 40s. Miss those days when I could get hard and cum 2-3 times per hour every time. I envy guys who are rocking it well into their 60s

 

[oakvilleguy]

I had a sort of revelation a couple of days ago. I went cruising the massage places and ended up in Etobicoke with a pretty Chinese riding my dick. At one point, I think she was getting tired, she turn to me and she asked- do you want to fuck me? For some reason, and completely automatically my answer was- I'm paying you to fuck me. I just didn't feel like moving; at all! In the recent past I used to go at it from all the angles; top, bottom, upside down, using all the furniture- two, three hours solid. Right there, all I wanted was to relax, lie back and have a young hottie service me. That's when I realized that the age has finally caught up with me.

This^^^

Probably why I now prefer MPs as opposed to SPs. I’d rather a sensual experience and have the lady do the work which is the “understanding” with MPAs. I’m 54 and still want to cum everyday but recovery time is a couple of hours as opposed to being able to 3x an hour 10 years ago. This is why I don’t book hour appts anymore.

 

[Mr.Know-It-All]

It's a myth. If it were true, we wouldn't hear about "dirty old men" from all the teenie boppers.