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Hello my fellow terbites - most of what you say is true except for a few of you shillers.
Thus, I'm asking for your honest opinion of Tinder. I find it completely useless but I'm bombarded by guys giving advise on how to improve your profile, how to add the right photos, how to text blah blah blah.

My question is this - who is Tinder for? That is, do you need to be an 8 or a 9 to get a girl on Tinder? Do you think updating your profile or photos makes any difference? I know with me, I only need on decent shot a girls tits and stomach and I know she's hot. I find it hard to believe it's my profile making the difference.

I'm about ready to give up on dating apps and I'm wondering if it actually works for anyone....And I'm not talking about getting laid once or twice, I'm talking about a steady stream of ladies, at least one per week. Also, do you prefer sex with Tinder dates (one night stand) OR with escorts? Besides Tinder, where do you have the most success picking up women?
 

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Here is my 2 cents, Tinder in the GTA is a complete waste of time. It's escorts, women wanting to look for sugar daddies, ones linking their Amazon wishlist or 40 lbs overweight, divorced and 3 kids. If you want to meet women get out there and join things you are interested in (when things resume back to whatever normal is) use your network of family, friends etc or just work on yourself, goals, confidence and start talking to women you see everywhere.

Now for me where has Tinder worked is before going on a vacation, I would use it to plan to meet up with many women, that way if you have one or two flake out you always have back ups.
 

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Here is my 2 cents, Tinder in the GTA is a complete waste of time. It's escorts, women wanting to look for sugar daddies, ones linking their Amazon wishlist or 40 lbs overweight, divorced and 3 kids. If you want to meet women get out there and join things you are interested in (when things resume back to whatever normal is) use your network of family, friends etc or just work on yourself, goals, confidence and start talking to women you see everywhere.

Now for me where has Tinder worked is before going on a vacation, I would use it to plan to meet up with many women, that way if you have one or two flake out you always have back ups.
I always wondered how the escorts operate on there.
I assume nothing like a pro SP.
 

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I always wondered how the escorts operate on there.
I assume nothing like a pro SP.
They would have a profile,the pics are always so fake looking it's absurd and have listed a phone number or website in some way,.

I also forgot another category of women the Asian profiles looking for investors in crypto currency scams, those are hilarious, the pics are so Photoshopped to the level you know no human being has that skin tone or that level of makeup.
 

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I mean no offense by this, but someone who says they are the king of being sincere, maybe isnt being that sincere. Just like when people say, "Hey, I am a good person!" they are usually over compensating. Sincerity isn't just about being honest with another person, it is also about being honest with yourself, and I believe earnest as well. And open mindedness.

Also, depends on what kind of women you are trying to connect with. If you are 60 and on the lower end of the scale, you probably wont obtain a real connection with a 25 year old super model. And not because you aren't worth it but because those women may not be capable of connecting themselves.

(That sounded more pointed to dating than hookups, but it applies to both, most people get turned on by how the other person makes 'em feel so being able to create and nurture connection is key)

I'm the king of being sincere - it's never worked before but if you want to give it a try, dm me your number :)
 

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I mean no offense by this, but someone who says they are the king of being sincere, maybe isnt being that sincere. Just like when people say, "Hey, I am a good person!" they are usually over compensating. Sincerity isn't just about being honest with another person, it is also about being honest with yourself, and I believe earnest as well. And open mindedness.

Also, depends on what kind of women you are trying to connect with. If you are 60 and on the lower end of the scale, you probably wont obtain a real connection with a 25 year old super model. And not because you aren't worth it but because those women may not be capable of connecting themselves.

(That sounded more pointed to dating than hookups, but it applies to both, most people get turned on by how the other person makes 'em feel so being able to create and nurture connection is key)

SIncere and social masks don't always mix, sometimes they do. .
 
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There are a lot of dating sites now. Personally, I didn't like the tinder. Of all the services, I fell in love with chat, which really diversified my life https://isexychat.com/chatrooms/gay-chat/. By the way, there I met my girlfriend. Life has become more diverse and it's cool.
 
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I always take a screenshot of my Savings Account and put it up with my profile picture. Ladies seem to respond well and I find them to be very sincere, especially young model looking types.
 

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Tinder is rubbish.

It's populated with women who are more interested in getting you to follow their Instagram, SnapChat or OnlyFans account than chatting or god forbid meeting you in person. Also lots of bots as well as women looking for a Sugar Daddy. I've had a couple of Tinder dates but nothing ever amounted to much.

Best dating/hookup site ever? Lavalife. By far.

Lavalife was better for dating/hooking up 20 years ago than Tinder is today. But about 10 years ago, for reasons unknown, Lavalife changed its website design and the site became crap. Lavalife reigned supreme for dating sites, but it has since become the dating site equivalent of MySpace.

Yes, I miss the old Lavalife.
 
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Tinder is only just a ground for hookups and the hookups arent even good 99% of the time.

Its literally girls my age trying to find a SD who can provide them with all these expensive luxury items and besides once they done with using your money ...they are hunting for a new target. Tinder is just about the non stop swiping left or right and seeing how many people message you but I have found people on that site are faker the kim kardashians ass .

So for older gents I would say steer clear of tinder because its just a crap show filled with bots and dumbfucks ohh and flakes ^-^
 

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In all seriousness, most often it's not even about a specific website or a venue.

It's about YOU individually.

I know people (40's, 50's) who met on Tinder, got married and are happily married to this day.

You seek crap - you'll find it.

You seek something meaningful - keep digging and you'll find IT.
 

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Hello my fellow terbites - most of what you say is true except for a few of you shillers.
Thus, I'm asking for your honest opinion of Tinder. I find it completely useless but I'm bombarded by guys giving advise on how to improve your profile, how to add the right photos, how to text blah blah blah.

My question is this - who is Tinder for? That is, do you need to be an 8 or a 9 to get a girl on Tinder? Do you think updating your profile or photos makes any difference? I know with me, I only need on decent shot a girls tits and stomach and I know she's hot. I find it hard to believe it's my profile making the difference.

I'm about ready to give up on dating apps and I'm wondering if it actually works for anyone....And I'm not talking about getting laid once or twice, I'm talking about a steady stream of ladies, at least one per week. Also, do you prefer sex with Tinder dates (one night stand) OR with escorts? Besides Tinder, where do you have the most success picking up women?
Tinder and Bumble are a waste a lot of ladies want a SD bumble too or you get older ladies that just dont get it woft
 

Jasmina

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See, way sexier than your other posts.

In all seriousness, most often it's not even about a specific website or a venue.

It's about YOU individually.

I know people (40's, 50's) who met on Tinder, got married and are happily married to this day.

You seek crap - you'll find it.

You seek something meaningful - keep digging and you'll find IT.