This hobby can get lonely
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Don't feel the need for a side kick or to be someone's side kick. Definitely don't disclose my activities. Don't really feel the need. One of my regulars said to me that I have a better life than Donald Trump. I had to agree. She has really stepped up her game for some reason. All my needs are met. So don't really need civilians either. Got it good. Finally.
To be honest, it has really taken a lot of the joy out of the hobby for me too. This guy was larger than life in many ways, and now, *snap* it's just over.
So sorry for your friend
Every time I see a girl I have a 2-3 second shame but then I think... Fuck sake I could be dead tomorrow!when i was college, i have 3 other guy friends who just travel and do p4p sex around the world. We still keep in touch these days. We used to meet in FKK's in Germany pre covid once a year.
Guys who are pussy mongers usually let on, it's like they're looking for other like minded guys.
So sorry for your friend
Whenever my depression got bad and death cross my mind, the way I would combat it was to think "No more sex if I'm dead!". It usually kept suicidal thoughts away.
Good for you man. Sounds like all your needs are met. I was happy like that once upon a time. Still waiting for my 2nd wind!
I have very good friend who also hobby's.
Frequently we call one another during our session and let the SP's talk up activities/events on the phone.. Bragging rights among friends is everything lol...
Frequently we call one another during our session and let the SP's talk up activities/events on the phone.. Bragging rights among friends is everything lol...
Do not tell a soul. Civilians won't understand. People will talk. Someone might be your best mate and one day something happens and word gets out. I knew a lady in the biz, brought in a friend to the biz, then they have a falling out and the friend turns on her. Later during a child custody case during divorce - this former friend turns and discloses in court their escort work just to get back at her. Causes her to lose custody.
Ya never know. I met some blokes through this site and another where half a dozen of us got together at a strip club in 'sauga and had a blast. 2 ladies from the biz joined us too. Became good mates w 1or 2 of them too.
Anyhow sites like this good for talking about this life.
Ya never know. I met some blokes through this site and another where half a dozen of us got together at a strip club in 'sauga and had a blast. 2 ladies from the biz joined us too. Became good mates w 1or 2 of them too.
Anyhow sites like this good for talking about this life.
I would never share this life with any of my Civvy friends.
While I don’t feel guilty when I see SP’s, it’s not something that I would publicly broadcast either - for both personal and professional reasons.
Fortunately, I have a buddy that I met via TERB. We started chatting, because it seemed like we have similar tastes in women. We end up connecting once or twice a week.
It’s always nice to be able to relate to someone else and share your experiences with this lifestyle. I also found it very cathartic to divulge to someone why I started seeing SP’s in the first place.
No judgment. No frowning looks of disapproval. It’s just cool to be able to relate to someone who enjoys seeing the ladies like I do.
While I don’t feel guilty when I see SP’s, it’s not something that I would publicly broadcast either - for both personal and professional reasons.
Fortunately, I have a buddy that I met via TERB. We started chatting, because it seemed like we have similar tastes in women. We end up connecting once or twice a week.
It’s always nice to be able to relate to someone else and share your experiences with this lifestyle. I also found it very cathartic to divulge to someone why I started seeing SP’s in the first place.
No judgment. No frowning looks of disapproval. It’s just cool to be able to relate to someone who enjoys seeing the ladies like I do.
My BF knows I've had some SP fun. He knows my marital situation as well. When young, we'd hit the clubs, bars, strip clubs and MPs. Crazy times. He still sees MPs here and there. We keep everything secret and I wouldn't dare tell another person. Due to work and families, we rarely see each other... That sucks.
Why not contact him again?
I had a friend, she betrayed me in a hurtful way because of a BF she was with. I stopped talking to her for 3 years. She apologized but I wanted none of it. And I was right to walk away at the time.
Fast forward 3 years and I was in counseling dealing with another matter. It brought up forgiveness in a way I had not thought of and by the end I called her to forgive her. I wasn’t calling for any other reason. I knew my forgiveness would mean the world to her.
We had to build some trust back but we back to being the best of friends.
People move past things and he may be missing you too. Give it a try. What’s the worst that will happen? You still won’t have him but the up side, you may get your buddy back.
I think whenever you “live a different life” outside of what the “normal” is, it is difficult to both keep it hidden and resist the need to share (many of us, not all). Trust is a privilege, not a right. And this is an activity where trust is paramount. I once worked with a guy (20 years my senior) who openly shared with me that he went to MPs...”I like to relax” was his response when he saw my reaction...so I responded “Yeah, I do too”. And that was that. It felt amazing to just say that to a like-minded person. We never actually had conversations about it, but it was just a unique bond between two grown men.
I am torn between keeping this life a secret and hoping to find trustworthy brethren to tip a glass or two with. But maybe that’s what TERB is for as well...
...we’re in this together!!
I am torn between keeping this life a secret and hoping to find trustworthy brethren to tip a glass or two with. But maybe that’s what TERB is for as well...
...we’re in this together!!
Two buddies were driving around in a car, telling eachother sex stories. They got very horny and drove to a whore house. Parked, checked wallets and found $100 cash between both.
They went up to a door and knocked.
A guard opened a door and asked what they wanted.
- We have $100. What kind of service can we get?
- $100?? You can go fuck eachother for a $100.
Boys leave.
15 minutes later there's a knock on a door. Guard opens and sees the same fellas.
- What do you want?
- We just wanted to know who do we pay $100 to?
They went up to a door and knocked.
A guard opened a door and asked what they wanted.
- We have $100. What kind of service can we get?
- $100?? You can go fuck eachother for a $100.
Boys leave.
15 minutes later there's a knock on a door. Guard opens and sees the same fellas.
- What do you want?
- We just wanted to know who do we pay $100 to?
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