This hobby can get lonely

[Nut_Cracker]

Why not contact him again?

I had a friend, she betrayed me in a hurtful way because of a BF she was with. I stopped talking to her for 3 years. She apologized but I wanted none of it. And I was right to walk away at the time.

Fast forward 3 years and I was in counseling dealing with another matter. It brought up forgiveness in a way I had not thought of and by the end I called her to forgive her. I wasn’t calling for any other reason. I knew my forgiveness would mean the world to her.

We had to build some trust back but we back to being the best of friends.

People move past things and he may be missing you too. Give it a try. What’s the worst that will happen? You still won’t have him but the up side, you may get your buddy back.

Well.. a lot's changed since then. We buried the hatched a while ago, but he didn't actually apologize and things were never the same. Now we're on a "see you when I see you" basis. I'm not sure if I want to start that friendship up again, I've given up marijuana but he hasn't. I got caught up in my feelings about being cooped up in the house due to lockdown and been on Terb for what feels like the first time in years, and the conversations reminded me of that time in my life.

I was single back then and running free, but now if I had that kind of buddy, he'd have to have just as much to lose as I would if this secret got out.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Why not contact him again?

I had a friend, she betrayed me in a hurtful way because of a BF she was with. I stopped talking to her for 3 years. She apologized but I wanted none of it. And I was right to walk away at the time.

Fast forward 3 years and I was in counseling dealing with another matter. It brought up forgiveness in a way I had not thought of and by the end I called her to forgive her. I wasn’t calling for any other reason. I knew my forgiveness would mean the world to her.

We had to build some trust back but we back to being the best of friends.

People move past things and he may be missing you too. Give it a try. What’s the worst that will happen? You still won’t have him but the up side, you may get your buddy back.

Sounds very Oprah.

 

[malata]

me only do threesomes with me, myself and i

 

[Jenesis]

Sounds very Oprah.

Ellen actually.

 

[Happyhomer]

I had a good friend who actually pushed me into going strip clubs and later SPs. When our relationship fell apart, he outed my GF who was a former dancer to common friends and told people about my various activities. Not cool. Keep it to yourself.

 

[Insidious Von]

I've always been a lone ship on the ocean, I don't share this life with anyone.

I did meet a longtime friend downtown for drinks just before I had a session booked. She showed up and he found the situation weird, we never spoke about it afterwards. I haven't seen him in years, his business went bankrupt - he was too nice to be a boss. He had all the time in the world to ask me for help. We could have become good cop/bad cop and he'd still be in business. Being a proud stubborn Irishman, he never did. Now he's an employee and running ragged, he told me that he may never be able to retire.

He was too generous with his employees and they took advantage. Being an Ebeneezer Scrooge with money, I could have remedied his problem - he never asked for help.

 

[Sonic Temple]

........but the last two months have been unbelievable.

May it continue for a life time my friend, and not everyone here is a douche. Sometimes we gotta go through the shit before we see greener pastures. We all have our own stories of back-stabbin' douches but many more of good ones.