The Code

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It's been mentioned many times. I use it, many terb friends use it, so why is nobody talking about the Code. Coming from a "happily" married guy I need the code to protect my self, my wife + family and the MPA or SP. I need it to set me straight when I fall head over heals and am in no position to reason or do whats in the best interest at the moment. So what it this code?


I am hoping you guys can share yours as well. Many people use it, movies uses, armies use it, leaders use it, religion uses it so why can't we use it to make this hobby the best it can be for both clients and service providers.

My code:

1 - Never get caught (I shake my head sometimes when I read guys SO finding out. Most of the time it could have been prevented. Some of these guys are lazy of fuck or some want to be found out. I do everything to cover my tracks, from turning off find my iphone, deleting my GPS memory, using a ISP to call MP, etc...I put myself in the mindset as if I was my SO with suspicions, what would I do if I was in her shows. What would somebody smarter then me do.


2 - Never talk about it within your circle of friends/family (this is why we have terb)


3 - Maintain Your Privacy (especially from terb members)


4 - Always Pay (even if you become friends and she offers you benifits, always pay. It protects both of you)


5 - Look forward an keep moving (Don't spend too much time/repeats with same MPA/SP, don't make them your destination)


6 - Always respect the MPA/SP (Even if your cock slides in and it feels like the best pussy in the world you better stop if she's not into it, or better back off if she says or signals no kissing to the face)

7 - Never and I mean absolutely never ever disclose any intel about the MPA/SP to them. (many times we know from others what these girls will actually do or sometimes very private things about them, but never ever ever let them know.

8 - Don't bring your hobby feelings home (lock it up when you're back to your family or SO, complain on terb but in no case let it be shown at home)

9 - Always learn something new about the game or SP/MPA even if it's a bad session

10 - Never stop the hero ( Make sure you can still give your family what they need from you, especially love, emotional support and protection no matter how deep you go)

11 - Hobby responsibly (with great power comes great responsibility - many times we play with fire and bring our self on the verge of hurting many people emotionally due to being so deep in it).

12 - Stop the hobby once you loose control of yourself or can't stick to your code


I guarantee if you stick to this code or even your own code you will have the time if your life with this hobby. You need to has some solid guiding principles, some consistency, especially when you fall or loose your mind.

I am very curious what is your code? Do you believe in a code? How do you protect yourself from this industry? How do you protect your family?

If you guys totally tear my code to bits, is there a code that makes sense for the majority to get the best out of this hobby?
 
Pretty much covered it. Good post.
 
It's been mentioned many times. I use it, many terb friends use it, so why is nobody talking about the Code. Coming from a "happily" married guy I need the code to protect my self, my wife + family and the MPA or SP. I need it to set me straight when I fall head over heals and am in no position to reason or do whats in the best interest at the moment. So what it this code?


I am hoping you guys can share yours as well. Many people use it, movies uses, armies use it, leaders use it, religion uses it so why can't we use it to make this hobby the best it can be for both clients and service providers.

My code:

1 - Never get caught (I shake my head sometimes when I read guys SO finding out. Most of the time it could have been prevented. Some of these guys are lazy of fuck or some want to be found out. I do everything to cover my tracks, from turning off find my iphone, deleting my GPS memory, using a ISP to call MP, etc...I put myself in the mindset as if I was my SO with suspicions, what would I do if I was in her shows. What would somebody smarter then me do.


2 - Never talk about it within your circle of friends/family (this is why we have terb)


3 - Maintain Your Privacy (especially from terb members)


4 - Always Pay (even if you become friends and she offers you benifits, always pay. It protects both of you)


5 - Look forward an keep moving (Don't spend too much time/repeats with same MPA/SP, don't make them your destination)


6 - Always respect the MPA/SP (Even if your cock slides in and it feels like the best pussy in the world you better stop if she's not into it, or better back off if she says or signals no kissing to the face)

7 - Never and I mean absolutely never ever disclose any intel about the MPA/SP to them. (many times we know from others what these girls will actually do or sometimes very private things about them, but never ever ever let them know.

8 - Don't bring your hobby feelings home (lock it up when you're back to your family or SO, complain on terb but in no case let it be shown at home)

9 - Always learn something new about the game or SP/MPA even if it's a bad session

10 - Never stop the hero ( Make sure you can still give your family what they need from you, especially love, emotional support and protection no matter how deep you go)

11 - Hobby responsibly (with great power comes great responsibility - many times we play with fire and bring our self on the verge of hurting many people emotionally due to being so deep in it).

12 - Stop the hobby once you loose control of yourself or can't stick to your code


I guarantee if you stick to this code or even your own code you will have the time if your life with this hobby. You need to has some solid guiding principles, some consistency, especially when you fall or loose your mind.

I am very curious what is your code? Do you believe in a code? How do you protect yourself from this industry? How do you protect your family?

If you guys totally tear my code to bits, is there a code that makes sense for the majority to get the best out of this hobby?

What a bunch of horseshit. I've never heard such drivel in my life.Your code iS your code and the code is the code and live your code but leave us out of it.
 
It's been mentioned many times. I use it, many terb friends use it, so why is nobody talking about the Code. Coming from a "happily" married guy I need the code to protect my self, my wife + family and the MPA or SP. I need it to set me straight when I fall head over heals and am in no position to reason or do whats in the best interest at the moment. So what it this code?


I am hoping you guys can share yours as well. Many people use it, movies uses, armies use it, leaders use it, religion uses it so why can't we use it to make this hobby the best it can be for both clients and service providers.

My code:

1 - Never get caught (I shake my head sometimes when I read guys SO finding out. Most of the time it could have been prevented. Some of these guys are lazy of fuck or some want to be found out. I do everything to cover my tracks, from turning off find my iphone, deleting my GPS memory, using a ISP to call MP, etc...I put myself in the mindset as if I was my SO with suspicions, what would I do if I was in her shows. What would somebody smarter then me do.


2 - Never talk about it within your circle of friends/family (this is why we have terb)


3 - Maintain Your Privacy (especially from terb members)


4 - Always Pay (even if you become friends and she offers you benifits, always pay. It protects both of you)


5 - Look forward an keep moving (Don't spend too much time/repeats with same MPA/SP, don't make them your destination)


6 - Always respect the MPA/SP (Even if your cock slides in and it feels like the best pussy in the world you better stop if she's not into it, or better back off if she says or signals no kissing to the face)

7 - Never and I mean absolutely never ever disclose any intel about the MPA/SP to them. (many times we know from others what these girls will actually do or sometimes very private things about them, but never ever ever let them know.

8 - Don't bring your hobby feelings home (lock it up when you're back to your family or SO, complain on terb but in no case let it be shown at home)

9 - Always learn something new about the game or SP/MPA even if it's a bad session

10 - Never stop the hero ( Make sure you can still give your family what they need from you, especially love, emotional support and protection no matter how deep you go)

11 - Hobby responsibly (with great power comes great responsibility - many times we play with fire and bring our self on the verge of hurting many people emotionally due to being so deep in it).

12 - Stop the hobby once you loose control of yourself or can't stick to your code


I guarantee if you stick to this code or even your own code you will have the time if your life with this hobby. You need to has some solid guiding principles, some consistency, especially when you fall or loose your mind.

I am very curious what is your code? Do you believe in a code? How do you protect yourself from this industry? How do you protect your family?

If you guys totally tear my code to bits, is there a code that makes sense for the majority to get the best out of this hobby?

some of this is common sense, as a single man most of the rules can go out the window. but the discretion between who you tell about this hobby is up to you.

i have a friend i can confide about this hobby to as he was the one that gave me the idea about it and has taken part in it from time to time. but i have a friend who is most likely; for a lack of a better term a "speaker phone" where if you tell him something _everyone_ in your circle of friends will know shortly.

also love your sig, read the allegory of the cave while in college and it really opened my mind, still read it from time to time.
 
some of this is common sense, as a single man most of the rules can go out the window. but the discretion between who you tell about this hobby is up to you.

i have a friend i can confide about this hobby to as he was the one that gave me the idea about it and has taken part in it from time to time. but i have a friend who is most likely; for a lack of a better term a "speaker phone" where if you tell him something _everyone_ in your circle of friends will know shortly.

also love your sig, read the allegory of the cave while in college and it really opened my mind, still read it from time to time.

Ouch! More drivel spouting!!!
 
It is too much for me. firstly it is an addiction for most.
In a relationship what happens.
1. It is the law of averages, at some point you may/will get caught, this changes with frequency of participation.
3. Privacy... I'm a frickin ram, I did well for so long, but at some point out it comes.
4. Paying is the only way you know that it is a service and you are the one being serviced
5. Easy most of the time, but again the longer you are in it the more likely that you will have a reg, you become less guarded ( my current reg has been with me 20 years )
7. Guys PM crap all the time, guys are guys, it seems we are still 16 in high school
8. take acting lessons, you aways take from your real life when putting out in this world.
9. I prefer to live in the moment, I rarely take anything out of the room even to the point of not remembering
10. take acting lessons or at least be aware that you have to make the effort.
11. now you tell me
12. now you tell me

for me personally I have so many rules but in this world it is simple

like a crime...follow the money. It is the greed in people that makes you know where your at. If your bank account is dwindeling and the only thing that is happening is that your getting your rocks off... time to re-examine your situation.
 
Ouch! More drivel spouting!!!

what part of what i said is drivel? i know you are entitled to your opinion but when you don't back up anything it just seems like an insult with no merit. it's my opinion that what OP has said has some level of truth and sense to it, to call it The Code may be an overstatement on his part and some may take bits and pieces of his code and add their own rules to it.
 
The OP's is summed up brilliantly by this scene. Listen to Al Pacino and DO NOT GET CAUGHT. How you do that is entirely up to you. Now I wonder if there is some super secret client school out there! :D

 
what part of what i said is drivel? i know you are entitled to your opinion but when you don't back up anything it just seems like an insult with no merit. it's my opinion that what OP has said has some level of truth and sense to it, to call it The Code may be an overstatement on his part and some may take bits and pieces of his code and add their own rules to it.

Don't worry about those guys, as provide little value to a discussion or anything else.

I've been doing this for 5 years and slowly have developed this Code, rules or whatever you want to call it to protect my self but also take the most benefit out if this industry. Many of do this to some point, with everything we do.

Also some are just loose cannons or china store bulls, with little care for collateral damage or what it does to them or others.

My main point is that this works for me, and I want to know what works for you guys. When you're married it becomes a lot more important to do this. However, to gain respect with the girls you need something like this. For respect I am talking about more then just sugar daddy respect. I know it's easy to see them just as SPs/MPAs but if you treat them right you will be surprised how high they can take you + the word slowly spreads about you to their circles.

Many times I heard stories from these girls how horrible they feel because some client managed to fuck them up/miss treat them, and some of these girls also provided the most memorable sessions.
 
The OP's is summed up brilliantly by this scene. Listen to Al Pacino and DO NOT GET CAUGHT. How you do that is entirely up to you. Now I wonder if there is some super secret client school out there! :D YouTube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8tuTxwswew

+1 this is a great motivation piece or example how real shit could get if you're not careful. I love my marriage and family, and I know it would destroy it if she found out.
 
+1 this is a great motivation piece or example how real shit could get if you're not careful. I love my marriage and family, and I know it would destroy it if she found out.

Hopefully, she doesn't hire some guys like this! :D
 
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stinky nuts?
 
13. Never disclose her/his real name and personal information. (Even if it's to your closest terb friend or shit hits the fan. The client or service provider had enough trust to share so treasure this gift of trust)

14. Never tell them that you love them if you don't mean it (I beleive that people are capable of loving more then one person, but if you have the courage to say it to the other person this should be sacred and treasured and not used as a tool to take advantage of the other party. Using love to advance ones interests is a big sin in terms of your own self worth)


I understand if you guys see my code as nonsense but this is also meant for me, to build and use so I can tap it for full potential from this hobby and not hurt anybody in the process. Terb is the best place to write it on so my SO can never find. When you are playing with fire you need some sort of protection mechanism. I can see myself using this for a long time. It has worked wonders for me thus far.
 
I am single.This code is useless.

Not necessarily. You still need rules to keep your hobbying life private. What gal will date you if she knows you're a john? What would your family and friends say or think about you?
 
this is part of the problem. bazokajoe is a happy hobbyist, single guy, needs no code. No offence, GPIDEAL, but you're telling him he should be ashamed. It's exactly this attitude that we need to change :)

If the hobbyist feels shame for his behaviour even as a single unattached person, how can we, as industry participants, convince the rest of Canada that you're just average men, that there's nothing wrong with purchasing sexual services, that you don't need "help" and you certainly aren't "criminals"?

I'm not the one telling him he should be ashamed. It's the rest of society. I choose to be discreet as a result. We can be discreet and still support the purchasing of sexual services. C'est la vie bella.
 
Golden Rule - treat others as you'd like to be treated.

We often disregard this, especially when we're anonymous online, driving in cars or wearing a uniform.