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WoodPeckr

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I believe that I may be of some help here.
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Carry on...........
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fuji

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The fact that most of the members in this thread, I say most as there may be one long silent/forgotten poster who may not and I suspect many more who choose not to be active, see through his BS and puffery, I suspect she knows and is in it the financial benefits, as two can live cheaper than one and possibly the entertainment. After 1000's of posts about how wonderful his relationship is, we find out about a prenup. I'll let the lawyer members confirm this but, like many contracts, prenups aren't iron clad.
Who knows if it's iron clad or not. So far I have no use of it. The main terms in it have all sunset anyway, it calls for a 50-50 split at this point, which is what the law would do by default anyway.
 

fuji

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Now, you admitted that people who cheat "monitor their behaviour", one example of yours being you don't cheat with your wife's sister. Well right there you undermine your claims, because you keep saying moral codes specific to sexual relations cannot be substantiated
You are misrepresenting or misinterpreting what I said. I don't cheat with my wife's sister for pragmatic reasons rather than moral reasons.

If it is normal (and it is clear from stats alot don't cheat, or alot don't cheat most of the time) for people to suppress things, then by your logic, a morality that says suppressing their urges is bad (inappropriate) is a life denying morality. You are done like bad turkey. Again.
I agree. Not sure why you think this is a point against my argument, though. Whether people choose to suppress their urges or not is something they will evaluate based on their odds of success.

In any case, I agree, it would be wrong to construct a morality that says it is immoral to suppress those urges.

Again, more of your sleight-of-hand. Serial or overlapping must absolutely be specified, otherwise it is too easy to get agreement for a conclusion the interlocutor would not assent to.
Bullshit pedantry.

Fuji implies the associated desire is to cheat. But this is not necessarily so.
You are misrepresenting what I said. I didn't say the associated desire is to cheat. I said there is a sexual attraction there, a desire to have an additional sexual partner. Whether that would require cheating or not depends on your circumstances!

What fuji constantly does is use the line "we desire multiple sex partners"
The study I cited on the subject quantified it as "desired partners per month" but the point stands no matter how you would want to quantify it.

So it cannot be life denying not to cheat.
That's correct. It's only life denying to say that it's immoral to cheat. Whether or not an individual's best choice is to cheat in a given situation depends on factors that defy rational, logical analysis, and require the application of the whole host of human faculties, including intuition, emotional intelligence, experience, social intelligence, and anything else a person can bring to bear to make the decision.

It's incorrect for a morality to tell them what to do one way or the other.

What you're saying is that because you want to have sex with many people but you also want a partner who is not fucking anyone, the only way you can do that is be a self-centered, lying schmuck.
Correct, although I prefer the phrase "womanizing slimeball".

You're probably terrible in the sack and know it, so promiscuity means there is always a new person who doesn't yet know you suck in bed.
Nope. Most of my sexual relationships with civilians are long lasting. Months at least, and in several cases years. Both my wife and my girlfriend I've been with for years.

Of course if you were a stronger person you would just stay unattached and fuck as much as you can
I value having a wife for a lot of reasons, not only sexual ones.

or maybe getnin an open relationship
I've argued that being in an open relationship also requires the suppression of basic human desires. I'm capable of self actualizing WITHOUT suppressing those desires, so why would I?

I agree that other men in other situations, or women, might find themselves in relationships where they have no choice but to accept monogamy or an open relationship, but my situation allows for a broader, richer life experience than that.
 

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For the life of me I cannot understand why the Mods have not het banned a guy who proclaims proudly he would FORCE women into a relationship of his rules if he could.
I don't mean that the way you are taking it. Specifically I don't mean via any threat of violence, coercion, and so forth. Rather I mean in the same sense that you might say I was forced to sign an employment contract. It was what I had to do in order to gain the benefit I was seeking.

My point was that if I were a billionaire then I would be desirable enough that I could require women who want to be with me to make additional concessions.
 

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I don't mean that the way you are taking it. Specifically I don't mean via any threat of violence, coercion, and so forth. Rather I mean in the same sense that you might say I was forced to sign an employment contract. It was what I had to do in order to gain the benefit I was seeking.

My point was that if I were a billionaire then I would be desirable enough that I could require women who want to be with me to make additional concessions.
I am a billionaire, Fuji is correct.
 

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And that's incompatible with cheating why?



Get over it.



Not true, I have all those things. You're projecting beyond what's called for. I cheat, sexually. To say that I'm dishonest in any other way is false. To say that I don't have compassion, respect, decency, will power, and backbone--just bloody false.
it is incompatible with cheating because you promised to love and honour, you are not honouring your wife by cheating on her.

you may have those things i mentioned but you choose to ignore them, you looked someone right in the eye and made a promise, a promise above all. if you can look right in the eye of the person you chose to spend your life with then you are dishonest in every aspect of your life as well. you don't show compassion, respect, decency, will power or back bone because you lie.

will power- the desire to cheat but not doing it.
back bone- see above and being able to admit it.
decency- not cheating on your wife or at least being honest so she can decide if she is okay with it or wants to move on.
respect- not cheating on or lying to your wife.
decency- see all of the above.

you show that while you may have these in you you choose to ignore them, i would never do business with a man that cheats on his wife because that man is shady. my grandfather is a man to be looked up to and respected, him and my grandmother ar both 72, they got married at 20 and he has never been unfaithful or lied to her, that is a man of character, that is a man. you are nothing and at the end of your life you will find that out as you lay o your death bed and no one can even stand to look at you.

the fact you said you would leave your wife if she cheated on you says a lot about the class of man you are.
 

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Fuji.
Your First mistake is ASSUMING everyone is like you.
Your Second mistake is trying to convince people to be like you.
Your Third mistake was to selectively agree with sections of my argument taken out of context in such a way to attempt to support the proving your point.
Your Fourth mistake was attempting to agree selectively with sections of my argument taken out of context to try and bait me into assuming you had some intelligence and were actually coherently understanding what I was attempting to say and somehow you just misunderstood it.
Your Fifth mistake was admitting being a hypocrite and being proud of the fact.

If you've any brain at all you'll look up the history of the ancient greek called "Hypocrites" to see what became of such a man and the connotations being a hypocrite has.

Now I'm big, Big as i 6 feet tall and over 450 pounds and I don't have any issues attracting or dating those of the opposite sex. Actually for some strange reason women that have husbands like you literally and figuratively throw themselves at me and their friends usually have to come pull them ff and say "I'm sorry about this, she's not normally like this". My Issue has always been I believe in Karma. I believe that if a woman cheats on her partner with me, eventually I will have my partner cheat on me. I believe the universe is about balance and always runs itself back to a state of equilibrium. That being said, whole you're out Cheating on your Wife with your Girlfriend, it is possible that your wife uses that time to cheat on you with a guy like me who doesn't believe in Karma and doesn't care about the sanctity of marriage. Also, your girlfriend, while you're with your wife, can be doing the same thing. In fact they can both be cheating on you while you're with an SP as well. WOW WHAT A MINDFUCK.

Fuji, you remind me of Jimmy Swaggert and all the Jehovah's witness preachers who come knocking on my door selectively quoting the Bible and trying to convince me to join them. And a Hypocrite doesn't learn until his hypocrisy turns out to bite him in the ass.

A great question to ask you is, What would YOU DO if you caught your WIFE and your GIRLFRIEND cheating on you?
 

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I cheat, sexually. To say that I'm dishonest in any other way is false. To say that I don't have compassion, respect, decency, will power, and backbone--just bloody false.
WOW FUJI ADMITTED HE CHEATS! How can any man of integrity and who wishes to be known as honest and a man who keeps his word admit to cheating on his wife? Therefore what you are saying is that YOU ARE NOT A MAN WHO KEEPS HIS PROMISES, thus YOU ARE NOT A MAN OF YOUR WORD thus you have no respect, decency, will power or backbone. If you can't keep a vow of marriage how can you ever keep any vow at all?
 

Davy.Biggie

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I am a billionaire, Fuji is correct.
LMAO!

You're just meeting/dating women who will say anything to get your money. In reality you're buying their affection and time. Betcha if you had a solid prenup where they don't get anything for the first 20 years of marriage uless you die they would either never marry or they'd be trying to kill you at every turn. Nice morality those women you buy have.
 

simon482

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switch, i stepped in and slapped him around for you and he was gone, now you come back with your long winded argument and give him a foot hold again. you should have just let it ride man.
 

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switch, i stepped in and slapped him around for you and he was gone, now you come back with your long winded argument and give him a foot hold again. you should have just let it ride man.

Si, FUJI's not gone. I suspect he's having a family day.
 

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LMAO.
You guys kill me!
Mayb Mr Fuji is now folowing the wife and girlfriend to make sure they're not cheating.
Life is busy when you're a hypocrite.
 
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