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The Ask-A-Hooker Thread

Geoff

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genintoronto said:
the challenge of seizing up someone's triggers in a few minutes of meeting them,

This part intrigues me and I would love to hear some answers from the ladies.

Anything in particular that look for or wait to hear first?

I'am in business as well so reading body language and eye contact are very much a big component of understanding your suppliers or clientel.
 

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Rockslinger said:
Do escorts, especially those in incalls, TALK about clients among themselves? If yes, what do you talk about?
How do you feel when the same client comes back to see your best friend but not you (a bit jealous?:mad: ).
I barely ever see another girl from the agency, and when I do, it's for a few minutes when one is coming in for a call and the other is leaving. We don't sit around at the incall when we're not there to see a client. So, not much chance to talk about clients there.

When I used to do outcalls, I would often be in the car with another girl (or two), often the same few ones because we had similar schedules. We would talk about clients, usually because one girl saw the client that the other was going to see, and gave her a briefing of what to expect. Typically, our conversations were very tame - more about increasing the comfort level of the girl going to see a new client than about sharing dirty raunchy details.

I don't have a 'best friend' in the industry, but that aside, I've never been jealous that a client I've seen was seeing another girl. I don't believe in monogamy in my personal life, and even less so in this business.
 

rafterman

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enduser1 said:
5 hours a week? I cannot imagine seeing the same girl for a year at that cost and not considering it a relationship. At some point a dependency has to set in. Even if it is similar to a therapist. That is a massive commitment of time and money.

EU
Quick math $200 per hour X 5 hours X 52 weeks = $52K...thats a serious regular!
 

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Geoff said:
This part intrigues me and I would love to hear some answers from the ladies.

Anything in particular that look for or wait to hear first?

I'am in business as well so reading body language and eye contact are very much a big component of understanding your suppliers or clientel.
That's difficult to answer, maybe because a large part of it is happening somewhat 'unconsciously, or maybe 'instinctively'.

I would say that from the moment a client walks in, my radar is on and I'm focused on reading his attitude and reaction to me: that would include body language, tone, attitude, eye contact, what he says and doesn't say, how he's dressed, how he carries himself, etc. I usually try to figure out where the person sits on the submissive/dominant spectrum (most people, men and women, tend to be more submissive than dominant) and adjust my own (top/dominant) persona accordingly.

When it comes to the 'dirty' part, that's where the 'routine' I mentioned in response to another question comes in: I have a few 'tricks' in my bag that typically work with the majority of clients. So, I start with those, and pay attention to how they are received, and adjust accordingly. Junior's reaction is also always a good barometer of the level of enjoyement, but blushing, erect nipples, pupils are also other physical signs that I pay attention to.
 

diverdown

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enduser1 said:
5 hours a week? I cannot imagine seeing the same girl for a year at that cost and not considering it a relationship. At some point a dependency has to set in. Even if it is similar to a therapist. That is a massive commitment of time and money.

EU
I found that answer amazing too. Not soo much the year but the 5 hours every week is a bit of a WOW!

Interested to hear answer on that question from others.

and new question.

I realize each encounter is unique but, in general.............

Would you say your professional experiences have bouyed your faith in mankind or made you shake your head and worry for our future.
 

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enduser1 said:
5 hours a week? I cannot imagine seeing the same girl for a year at that cost and not considering it a relationship. At some point a dependency has to set in. Even if it is similar to a therapist. That is a massive commitment of time and money.

EU
we did alot of differetn things, not just locked inside for the 5 hours ;)
$$ for him was NOT an issue.

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Gen I want to play! I tried to answer them all, but this thread is WAY too long for a late starter like me. Some highlights:

"What size was the smallest penis [...] and what do you thing the average size is?"
Smallest was only foreskin, triangular-shaped, and significantly smaller than my pinky. The man with the average sized dick is the guy that thinks his might be slightly on the smaller side.

"What are hookers' biggest fear. Getting old?, getting warts? etc..."
Gen's, but also getting trapped in the industry, addicted to 'easy' money with no prospects of an independent future.

"Weirdest/most unusual fetish you were asked to participate in?"
The weird and unusual ones are my favourites, I've only ever said absolutely not once: on an outcall when a client tried to introduce me to his dog.

"Whats your favorite novel?"
I've got to admit I've read Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy a few times a year since I was 8.

"Have you been over overwhelmed by an overly affectionate client!?"
Yes. You may know me don't love me. I've asked several clients to please stop seeing me based on this.

"Have you encountered a client out in the "regular world" that has tried to talk to you??"
Yes, I've passed one at the Eaton Centre and a few on the street/at the GO train. My rule of thumb is smile nicely, if you're both alone come say 'Hi' :)

"Were you a goer in high school/how old were you when you had intercourse for the first time?"
I was and still am conservative about my personal sex life. Right before my 16th birthday I had called up a close friend and asked for a platonic deflowering, still a decision I don't regret.

"What is the most cum you have seen produced by a client?"
A LOT! Spilling over the sides of my mouth, easily - hard to swallow!

"Are you ever envious of clients who obviously have a lot of money and can buy their pleasure on a whim while you have to work at providing that pleasure?"
A little? Usually I think it creates a power dynamic and that's exceptionally hot.

"1-3, 5 Male pattern baldness/overweight/George Costanza look-a-likes/what do you really think about your clients?"
In my opinion men don't see escorts because they are unattractive. I'd say most are average to attractive: normal people with a kink. Most are not sexually deviant in any way (although the ones that are tend to be more fun) and they tend to be more politically and socially relaxed. I've only ever met a handful (less than 5) clients that I thought were there because they couldn't get anything else, no one else would tolerate them, etc.

"What do you find attractive in men? I'm not referring to clients, but a guy you'd meet in "civilian" life."
A sick twisted sense of humour and biting wit, passionate about music. For me to be sexually attracted to someone he/she has to be GREAT at what they do: talent and power (not necessarily in the dollar sense) are really f-ing hot! (Physically broad shoulders won't hurt his case, or well-proportioned curves hers.)

"What percentage of the time would you say you are "acting" as opposed to genuinely enjoying the encounter or getting off? How often do you cum with a client if at all?"
I usually do but I don't think I'm the average girl. Sometimes its not the client getting you off, its just the situation (they come, you please them, they go).

"What is your favourite aspect of being an escort (aside from the money)?"
I'm hugely into power play (see above) so this gives me the opportunity to explore and indulge that while I'm in school, with flexibility and in my comfort range. Plus where else is a younger girl going to get to meet so many different people and learn so much more beyond just school and the early-20s crowd?

"How many times have you had a man not being able to get it up during an encounter?"
Not yet, to be honest. Sometimes they'll lose it halfway through but I'd rather go over the booked time than let someone leave unhappy.

"Do escorts, especially those in incalls, TALK about clients among themselves? If yes, what do you talk about?"
Not really, unless the session was unusual or uncomfortable. There are a couple girls that work who are really good friends (Alanna/Alexis, ex-Nadia/Kelly, Kaitlyn/Dawn/me) and they'll tend to talk about it more often.

"How do you feel when the same client comes back to see your best friend but not you (a bit jealous?)"
Depends, how good was he?

AND for argument's sake I think slut, in most contexts, is an affectionate term.

Phew.
 

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rafterman said:
How many of your clients are "regulars".

What frequency do they see you?

How many out of towners vs. locals.

How many terbites? if they're saying.

What's your longest standing client, most sessions.

Just curious as to your best guess.
The vast majority are regulars, once a week for a few hours to once every 2-3 months, hence mostly local and most on TERB (all?). Longest standing client is the first client I ever saw (almost 2 years). He brought me a chocolate bar then and brought both Dawn and I one last week.
 

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diverdown said:
Would you say your professional experiences have bouyed your faith in mankind or made you shake your head and worry for our future.
Bouyed in MANkind, I worry a lot about certain girls in the industry though... are they well-adjusted enough to handle it, how will they get out, is this doing bad things to them... so just like every other job, I guess.
 

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diverdown said:
Would you say your professional experiences have bouyed your faith in mankind or made you shake your head and worry for our future.
Nothing I've encountered in this business as changed much of my perspective on men. Mostly just confirmed what I already thought or knew. Before you ask, I invoke the fifth on that one. ;)

The few things that I learned have more to do with straight women or men's relationships with straight women. I had no idea for instance that bj were such a rare commodity: I always thought that it was part of the deal, the same way that I would never keep a lover that wouldn't be enthusiastically willing to cater to my own sexual needs (whatever they may be).

Teaching has me much more worry about our future than escorting ever will.
 

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How often does your work wear aka Lingerie aka Candy wrapping get swiped?...and how often have clients asked to purchase your well worn and female scented adornments!?
 

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enduser1 said:
Money may not be an issue but he obviously likes you a lot. Essentially you are confirming the "Relationship" argument I was making.

EU
no relationship, (well maybe in a different way)
it was both with our mfm scenes,and just he and i alone sometimes ..
he's married , older gentleman ''late 60's''

he insisted on paying for the time, no matter what we said, honestly, we tried many times to give it back in his jacket pocket, he'd always find where we put it, and hide it someplace for me to find it


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Cycleguy007 said:
Or Kyra... haven't seen much of either of them on the board lately... they must be busy!
Sorry sunny days my girlfriends and I have been outside trying to enjoy the weather.


Since I'm on the computer now I'll answer a few questions at random.
 

BallzDeep

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How often do you get fucked outside the industry, give it away for free.

Is it hard or impossible to have a relationship when you're an escort?

Are you exhausted after work?

Do you ever lose (or loose for some) interest in sex when you're having so much of it, mostly with guys you're not physically attracted to. I had a recent trip to Thailand and had so much sex I actually got bored with it, never thought that would happen, is it the same with you girls, ever have days where you're working and the last thing you want to see is a cock, or are those your off days?
 

diverdown

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I've said it before but I'm going to say it again.

Thanks for the thread Gen.
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Thank you to all of the ladies for participating.

Most interesting and relevant.
 

Rockslinger

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Possessiveness. I'm not that familiar with escorts but I can say that SC dancers can tend to get possessive (jealous?) with their customers. Maybe it is because the SC environment is so open that it is obvious when a customer takes someone else into the VIP. Here is one simple example. Dancer asks me: "What are you getting from Amazon that you are not getting from me?" (I think the guys on this Board know what I mean.)
 
herames said:
How often does your work wear aka Lingerie aka Candy wrapping get swiped?...and how often have clients asked to purchase your well worn and female scented adornments!?
Never had it swiped by a client but years ago I had my undies go missing from the laundromat and also from the changeroom at a strip club when I worked there in a "previous life". ;)

As far as being asked for it, it's rare but it happens, I don't part with mine generally as they are part of a set and not easily replaced.

More frequent is someone will buy a gift of lingerie, typically one bra and two pairs of panties. I wear one pair of panties when with them and then they take that one home and I take the set home. The date continues in a way because the tease can continue, you can set up different conversations, scenarios, etc. about when the bra and panties are being worn or when they will make their next appearance and the client has the matching panties as a personal reminder.
 
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