Taking sp on date

[behemoth_dick]

All I'm saying is there are 3 tiers of men

1. Those who can get both the date and the sex for free

2. Those who can get the date for free if they choose to but must pay for the sex
(I'm in this tier and I admit the guys in the above tier are better than me)

3. Those who must pay for both the date and the sex
(I'm better than you)

 

[gcostanza]

All I'm saying is there are 3 tiers of men

1. Those who can get both the date and the sex for free

2. Those who can get the date for free if they choose to but must pay for the sex
(I'm in this tier and I admit the guys in the above tier are better than me)

3. Those who must pay for both the date and the sex
(I'm better than you)

Does your mom know you're up this late on a school night?

 

[DoomFM]

yeah that stuff makes me roll my eyes. i remember one month i saw like four different SPs claim they were "robbed" and begging for donations. the ones who are constantly asking for gift cards are even more shameless. in my experience, there are no shortage of sweet and generous clients who will gift you nice things from time to time, but to be always tweeting and asking for shit is just greedy. if someone likes you and wants to spoil you, they will. you shouldn't need to ask.

but posting photos of gifts received doesn't really mean we're asking for more. it's mostly just showing appreciation for the clients who do go the extra mile in spoiling you like they think you deserve to be. the other clients who feel lesser than simply because we are sharing the gifts we get - that's your own problem.

Oh, I completely agree. It's hard to make nuanced points on a forum. I've certainly seen instances where it seems like genuine appreciation. I've seen more instances where it's quite clearly pandering and trying to get more "gifts," or at least seemingly to attract more of that in their direction. It strikes me as being in poor taste. I would see that person once, but I doubt I would see that SP twice as it's quite clear they have a manipulative streak, and that ends well for nobody (well, at least for the gift-giving fool).

 

[DoomFM]

Not at all, if that's what some choose. The problem might exist in instances where a client loses sight of the arrangement being paid for, and/or blurs the line between a 'paid' encounter and an actual, romantic relationship.

Yeah, it's sort of akin to paying to be a cuckold, or I guess paying for a friend. Which is fine - they have sites for that as well so I think it serves a purpose for some segment of society. Everyone has needs of some sort - if you can deal with them in some healthy way, do it up!

 

[legendspirit]

All I'm saying is there are 3 tiers of men

1. Those who can get both the date and the sex for free

2. Those who can get the date for free if they choose to but must pay for the sex
(I'm in this tier and I admit the guys in the above tier are better than me)

3. Those who must pay for both the date and the sex
(I'm better than you)

Regarding your number 1: Nothing is free.

 

[buttercup]

I can understand paying for sex.
But pay a girl BY THE HOUR to eat dinner with you?
To watch a movie? Or a concert? Or a game?
That's just fucking sad, dudes! Why would you do that?? Absolutely miserable and shameful!
To be in public among all the REAL couples who are together for no other reason than they love each other, while there you are with your hooker who would never give you time of day if not for hundreds (thousands?) of $$$. If there's a huge age gap even more ridiculous and laughable!
Any PAID time during which your dick is NOT inside one of her orifices is time and money wasted! I'd much rather fuck for an hour, unload my nuts, then gtfo and have a beer by myself. Peace and quiet!

moth, baby, why pay at all? If all you want is an orifice to fuck and then a beer by yourself, you don't need a human woman for that. Get a doll.
Some men are attractive enough that a woman will pay him for sex. How come you're not miserable and ashamed, that you're not in that bracket?

Hopefully, sometime in your life, you'll experience the joy of being sexually intimate with a woman, where she genuinely wants to share her body with you, and you are unselfish enough to want the same. A woman you don't have to pretend to be interested in, you really are interested in her. You want to make her feel good -- not because you want to manipulate her into letting you fuck her, but because you genuinely want her to feel good. The thing about the SP is that the sex afterwards is assured, so you both know you're not trying to cajole her or manipulate her.

If your only interest in a woman is access to her orifices for your dick, and you think you've got to either pay her or trick her into giving you that access, you have reason to feel miserable and ashamed.

You think poking your dick in her orifice feels nice? Try taking an interest in her, talking to her, laughing with her, over dinner. There's no comparison between that and just fucking on its own. If you don't know how to do it, or if you lack confidence, pay an SP. Learn. Every time I've done it, I've loved it.

Piece of advice. Don't waste a lot of time researching trying to find an SP you'll enjoy being with. Not that just anyone will do -- but almost anyone will. Pretend to be interested in her; go through the motions; pretty soon, you'll find you are interested in her. Sometimes, you'll find chemistry and you want to repeat. I love it.

 

[ultistar]

Funny how on an anonymous perv forum you can tell so much about a person just from a few written words.

 

[rhuarc29]

All I'm saying is there are 3 tiers of men

1. Those who can get both the date and the sex for free

2. Those who can get the date for free if they choose to but must pay for the sex
(I'm in this tier and I admit the guys in the above tier are better than me)

3. Those who must pay for both the date and the sex
(I'm better than you)

4. Men who haven't left their teenage years behind them and still subscribe to that hierarchical social structure.

 

[Kirby2006]

I did it twice in my life, yes I could afford it, the actual date was pleasant enough, and the girls were pretty... but I could not shake off the shitty pathetic feeling of paying someone to fucking sit with me


On a few occasions I took an escort out but did not pay for the time, only dinner, then just paid to fuck her after. That felt more normal. These days I just fuck em and leave em though


To each their own, yes. Just felt like ranting lol

You get a shitty pathetic feeling from paying someone to sit with you?
A woman with a superior intellect,sophistication a charming personality intimidates you?
Wham bam thank you ma'am makes you feel superior to women?
Obviously not because you retire to your hobbit hole, guzzle beer and rant.
Don't be a -dick. Spare us your thoughts. And stop reading your hero's tweets!

 

[eternalbachelor]

All I'm saying is there are 3 tiers of men

1. Those who can get both the date and the sex for free

2. Those who can get the date for free if they choose to but must pay for the sex
(I'm in this tier and I admit the guys in the above tier are better than me)

3. Those who must pay for both the date and the sex
(I'm better than you)

No one is better than Richard Gere's character in Pretty Woman. And he paid for both the date and sex. Because he could afford it, not because he had to. We just need to work a little bit harder to be more like him.