Taking sp on date

[IM469]

Relax DUDE. To each their own. Why do you care what someone YOU don't even know, does with their time and money?


We can't all be the same in this big world we live in. Is everyone supposed to THINK/act/LIVE the way you do ?

+1 If someone wants to pay for a fantasy date that guaranties a happy ending - fine. It may not be as your base notion of putting out money for a fuck but we all have our quirks.

Not to shock you but SPs watch movies without being paid, ditto meals, etc. I've socialised with SP's including movies, dinners, just hanging out. No planned happy endings - just a relaxing time.

 

[explorerzip]

There is a huge cost difference between going out on a paid date with an SP and with a woman. The same activity with both women will cost much more with the SP since you are also paying for her time not just dinner and a movie.

It depends on what you decide to do on a civilian date. You could be spending big bucks if you took a girl out to a high-end restaurant, concert or show, etc. for nothing. How is that not shameful or miserable?

 

[Samranchoi]

It depends on what you decide to do on a civilian date. You could be spending big bucks if you took a girl out to a high-end restaurant, concert or show, etc. for nothing. How is that not shameful or miserable?

The premise is that you are paying for the SP's time as well as dinner at a high end restaurant and concert, etc... Just assume the activity is the same and the only difference is that the guy is also paying the woman so much per hour for her time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with the paid date scenario. Like I said before, this is not about OTC encounters with an SP, just about paid date time, with or without a happy ending.

 

[Tempted Monk]

There is a huge cost difference between going out on a paid date with an SP and with a woman. The same activity with both women will cost much more with the SP since you are also paying for her time not just dinner and a movie.

Cost will be different,agree, it is paid time.
Regarding the second part, I don't agree, not the same activities. These dates are very different.
On a date with SP, I can be myself, I can talk about anything and everything, I don't need to play any roles, I don't need to prove anything. I can really relax and enjoy our time together. Of course, you need to be with the right woman, but it is completely my choice with whom to be in this case.
In the end, people pay hundreds and thousands of $$ to shrink - basically just for talking and listening. It seems to be the same "therapy", sort of.

PS. To be honest, most of my "dates" with SPs in the past were not paid, just spending time together with long time regular as a friend.

 

[oil&gas]

I have this habit of putting my hand up the skirt of my
date while watching a film together. That could cost me
dearly if the date is a civilian woman of respect. I can't
afford paid dinner time with escorts hence my preference
for my regular MPAs to be a date.

 

[behemoth_dick]

Time and companionship should be free, only losers pay for that. We pay to put our dick in a hole!

 

[oil&gas]

Time and companionship should be free, only losers pay for that. We pay to put our dick in a hole!

Free only in the mind of losers who can't afford to pay
for it.

 

[behemoth_dick]

I can afford it; it's just degrading and beneath my dignity. Perhaps you have no concept of that

 

[oil&gas]

I must admit rates charged by escorts for dinner dates
are too pricey for me. But then I was never a SP guy so
it is more a matter of preference than affordability. That
said, the "time is money" idea is an axiom in our society.
If you don't accept that it is your problem.

 

[spankingman]

I used to work in the Casino biz here in Ontario. We used to joke when we saw "Joe Average" come in with a real babe on his arm and say " yup he's paying for that tonight" you KNEW they were NOT a couple in real life.

 

[Jasmina]

If you learn nothing else from the responses in this thread, at least stop using "we". You are an individual not a collective.

Time and companionship should be free, only losers pay for that. We pay to put our dick in a hole!

 

[Tempted Monk]

I used to work in the Casino biz here in Ontario. We used to joke when we saw "Joe Average" come in with a real babe on his arm and say " yup he's paying for that tonight" you KNEW they were NOT a couple in real life.

Not completely true - it can be couple in real life. But conclusion is the same - he is paying for that. And this situation is much more expensive in real life.

 

[DoomFM]

Personally I agree with you: I don't understand why someone would pay for a companion's time during a dinner date. I've supped with a few SPs, but never on the clock (I did pick up the tabs, put I do that with civvies too).

That said, if that kind of thing works for other people, I don't judge. Their money, their desires, their choice.

Yeah, that's my view as well. I understand the side project more for the dinner date thing (at least for me). I mean, some work, some intrigue - a bit more fun and challenging and likely cheaper. And that's with the awareness that some SPs are incredibly amazing and interesting - but still, it's just as illusory as porn if your paying just for time to chat. Maybe if you don't have many friends (or female friends) I guess it would make a ton of sense.

Who knows though, never say never - and no reason to judge anyone. Not a big deal, do whatever you want with your life!!

I must admit I do find it weird when you see a provider tweeting about breaking their iPhone and "needing" a new one, or needing IKEA gift cards, or just generally always hinting/begging for gifts by showing off the stuff they get, and then the people running out to pick that stuff up for them. Uhhhhhhhhh, huh? They're tricking you!!!!! lol

 

[explorerzip]

Time and companionship should be free, only losers pay for that. We pay to put our dick in a hole!

What business have you visited where you get free time? A service based business charges you a set rate regardless of how long it takes to provide the service.

 

[explorerzip]

I can afford it; it's just degrading and beneath my dignity. Perhaps you have no concept of that

It must bother you so much to spend so much time with us peasants.

 

[canman1]

The time you spend to just go to a see an SP for even just an hour, is actually closer to 3 hours. Depending on how much time you need to get there (and be on time), then return. So why not extend the actual time spent, by making it a dinner date. Basically it become a complete evening event. You can tell the SP's who enjoy this type of activity, by the rates they charge for it. Normally social time is at a reduced rate. I have spent time with SP's, both on and off the clock. A dinner date can be just as much fun as with an non SP. But you do know that after dinner, with an SP, the desert menu will be happening, usually for a few hours afterward. I even had SP's offer further reductions, for a complete evening, because they enjoy the time spent that way. So each person has to decide whether a paid dinner is good for them at times, or not. If not, then just keep doing your own thing.

 

[wickman12]

I think all guys have at one point in their life tried to get a girl they liked into bed by going out on multiple dates, paying their way through it all, sitting through shitty movies, phone or text convos and get nada after all the time, money, and effort spent. Pretty sure that cost way more than a dinner date with an sp.

 

[black booty lover]

What business have you visited where you get free time? A service based business charges you a set rate regardless of how long it takes to provide the service.

Yeah but depending on what services your getting the rates can change.

 

[Mr Deeds]

I think being with a sp isnt just about the sex I have had many dates and for me its about the whole girl friend experience. An evening spent with a beautiful and interesting woman for me is about good company and companionship and anticipation of whats to come. You dont have to go to a fancy place for dinner some ladies arnt comfortable in places like that. I had one lady who likes to grab fish and chips and sit down by the lake and eat and go for a walk. I have commitment issues so this type of companionship is perfect for me

 

[bigshot]

Time and companionship should be free, only losers pay for that. We pay to put our dick in a hole!

Classy as always...