Taking sp on date

[Malika Fantasy]

Ive been paid several times to travel abroad.
I got paid to go to an exotic island, play with stingray , horse back riding etc.
A lot of people do pay for companionship , they pay for more than sticking a pole in a hole as some of you say

 

[behemoth_dick]

I must admit rates charged by escorts for dinner dates
are too pricey for me. But then I was never a SP guy so
it is more a matter of preference than affordability. That
said, the "time is money" idea is an axiom in our society.
If you don't accept that it is your problem.

of course time is money. but time doing what? riding my cock? ok that's $250 maybe even $400 if she's model quality. but putting food in her face and chit chat? fuck that lol

you mean a behemoth pussy for your behemoth dick? lol, talk about wish fulfillment.

i've been paid thousands of dollars just to sleep beside a man before. what's "worth it" is always a sliding scale based on what you can afford; don't kid yourself.

it's also what services deserve it or not. i could be a billionaire but never pay someone to watch a movie with me. because i respect myself and my money.

there are guys willing to pay for that. so the sps are correct to charge for it. it's a free market voluntary exchange and im a libertarian so both the social and fiscal aspects are fine by me. i'm just calling the dudes pitiful fools and the sps shameless audacious hoes, that's all lol

 

[wickman12]

i'm just calling the dudes pitiful fools and the sps shameless audacious hoes, that's all lol

So if u understand that different ppl want different things and are willing to pay for it, and u are straight up calling ppl idiots who are willing to pay for things u would not, what purpose are u trying to serve here? U are just making yourself sound like a close minded fool on here, and I can throw that shit back in your face and say that u are nothing but a hoe yourself who has no respect for women, only see women as objects for your own self pleasure , and live up to that stereotypical male pig image that many women despise

 

[legmann]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the paid date scenario. .

Not at all, if that's what some choose. The problem might exist in instances where a client loses sight of the arrangement being paid for, and/or blurs the line between a 'paid' encounter and an actual, romantic relationship.

 

[bluecolt]

Are you old enough to be on this site?

I'm glad that you asked that question. I have been of the opinion that there are a lot of teenagers on this site, based on their comments and world views, especially the liberals who expound bullshit that one would hear from teenagers in high school who have not been exposed to the real world and are merely aping what their teachers and peers have told them. My sense is that the name-calling, accusations and assorted other crap is generally the reaction of young kids to insults in the schoolyard, not of actual adults.

 

[ets2361]

OK how about this scenario. I lost my wife of 35 years last year. I am not looking to get into another permanent relationship and go on a month long vacation to the Carribean every winter. I dont want to go alone and really dont want to make it a guys only trip so I take an SP with me for the trip (well I have asked and she stated she was excited to come with me). One I can afford it and it makes my vacation so much better without having to try the local scene. Obviously the SP needs to be paid as this is their occupation, does anybody here go to work for free on a regular basis. Two as lomg as you and the SP are a compatible match I enjoy hanging out with someone who yes can be beautiful but not only in appearance but also in character. It brings the intimacy to another level by just talking perhaps a walk on the beach or whatever, perhaps get to know each other better or learn about things different from your normal acquaintances. Three when the trip is over then its over and I have had a great time much better than if I went alone. Does this make me a sad person, I dont think so. I enjoy company but dont really want any attached strings afterwards. I dont mistake this for Love but believe a friendship bond can be created and exist. As others have posted not all are simply looking for a slam bam and thank you mam experience me being one of them and that is why I prefer 3+ hr engagements seeing an SP when I do. I'm sure I will be mocked and labled for this post by some but that is OK I have a thick skin and can take it. In this hobby everybody has their own wants and needs and I believe that many SP's realize this to cater to those so as to maximize their living amd I also believe some but not all do enjoy tbe social encounters.

 

[Jasmina]

You know what you want and what your boundaries are, no one should be slamming you for that. I get the impression you are far more at peace with yourself and your needs than the "gentleman" that has the handle "behemoth dick" of whatever it is (over compensating much?). Have a great trip, sounds like so much fun!

OK how about this scenario. I lost my wife of 35 years last year. I am not looking to get into another permanent relationship and go on a month long vacation to the Carribean every winter. I dont want to go alone and really dont want to make it a guys only trip so I take an SP with me for the trip (well I have asked and she stated she was excited to come with me). One I can afford it and it makes my vacation so much better without having to try the local scene. Obviously the SP needs to be paid as this is their occupation, does anybody here go to work for free on a regular basis. Two as lomg as you and the SP are a compatible match I enjoy hanging out with someone who yes can be beautiful but not only in appearance but also in character. It brings the intimacy to another level by just talking perhaps a walk on the beach or whatever, perhaps get to know each other better or learn about things different from your normal acquaintances. Three when the trip is over then its over and I have had a great time much better than if I went alone. Does this make me a sad person, I dont think so. I enjoy company but dont really want any attached strings afterwards. I dont mistake this for Love but believe a friendship bond can be created and exist. As others have posted not all are simply looking for a slam bam and thank you mam experience me being one of them and that is why I prefer 3+ hr engagements seeing an SP when I do. I'm sure I will be mocked and labled for this post by some but that is OK I have a thick skin and can take it. In this hobby everybody has their own wants and needs and I believe that many SP's realize this to cater to those so as to maximize their living amd I also believe some but not all do enjoy tbe social encounters.

 

[TFZL1]

I took an SP out on a paid concert date last night. I had a good time. Great sex before and after. Scorpions put on a great show! Lots of guys were watching her at the concert. She's also a stripper, so I was impressed with her dancing and people around us were really impressed. Only one obviously jealous lady kept rolling her eyes and muttering to herself.
I like being in public with a younger classy lady. I really don't care what other people think. She treats me really really well.
We did a dinner and movie date a couple weeks ago. Classy in the streets and a freak in the sheets, she's a kinky girl.
A couple weeks before that, I took a couple Very classy SP's out for a Ruth's Chris dinner and then an hour duo. That was a good night.
There's a lot more to most of these Lady's than some people can imagine. I respect my Lady's and respect thier time.
I can't afford to do that all the time, I'm well off but far from rich. To me it's money well spent for the connection and the memories.

 

[TFZL1]

OK how about this scenario. I lost my wife of 35 years last year. I am not looking to get into another permanent relationship and go on a month long vacation to the Carribean every winter. I dont want to go alone and really dont want to make it a guys only trip so I take an SP with me for the trip (well I have asked and she stated she was excited to come with me). One I can afford it and it makes my vacation so much better without having to try the local scene. Obviously the SP needs to be paid as this is their occupation, does anybody here go to work for free on a regular basis. Two as lomg as you and the SP are a compatible match I enjoy hanging out with someone who yes can be beautiful but not only in appearance but also in character. It brings the intimacy to another level by just talking perhaps a walk on the beach or whatever, perhaps get to know each other better or learn about things different from your normal acquaintances. Three when the trip is over then its over and I have had a great time much better than if I went alone. Does this make me a sad person, I dont think so. I enjoy company but dont really want any attached strings afterwards. I dont mistake this for Love but believe a friendship bond can be created and exist. As others have posted not all are simply looking for a slam bam and thank you mam experience me being one of them and that is why I prefer 3+ hr engagements seeing an SP when I do. I'm sure I will be mocked and labled for this post by some but that is OK I have a thick skin and can take it. In this hobby everybody has their own wants and needs and I believe that many SP's realize this to cater to those so as to maximize their living amd I also believe some but not all do enjoy tbe social encounters.

I think that sounds like a great arrangement. I also don't think you or I need to justify our preferences to any trolls who come here to mock others.
Ive had some vacations with SP's and quite enjoyed myself. One I spit between 2 SP's so I was quite worn out by the end of it. I just booked a winter vacation, so I might need a snow bunny. Heading north for some winter sports.

 

[JunoxGrey]

I can afford it; it's just degrading and beneath my dignity. Perhaps you have no concept of that

Even seeing someone on PAID time with your attitude/mentality would be beneath my dignity, but to each their own right? *eats popcorn*

 

[Tempted Monk]

Even seeing someone on PAID time with your attitude/mentality would be beneath my dignity, but to each their own right? *eats popcorn*

Very well said Juno! That "behemoth" guy just is unable to get it. And that bothers him, actually, according to his post.

 

[rhuarc29]

I can afford it; it's just degrading and beneath my dignity. Perhaps you have no concept of that

We understand the concept. Hell, I partially agree with you in that I'm not one to pay for dinner dates.
However, so what if someone is? This makes them a loser because they have different tastes than you and I?
I find it ironic that you lament us for not understanding where you're coming from when your own perspective is so narrow-minded.

 

[Malika Fantasy]

Why is itbelow your dignity ? I paid for services myself and sometime for 4 hours including dinner . It was a pro-domme (sometime a girl need her bdsm)
I never felt cheapen by it because i paid for lunch of another sex worker. definitely didnt get a pole down my hole as some said.

 

[mclarkez1980]

I can understand paying for sex.

But pay a girl BY THE HOUR to eat dinner with you?

To watch a movie? Or a concert? Or a game?

That's just fucking sad, dudes! Why would you do that?? Absolutely miserable and shameful!

To be in public among all the REAL couples who are together for no other reason than they love each other, while there you are with your hooker who would never give you time of day if not for hundreds (thousands?) of $$$. If there's a huge age gap even more ridiculous and laughable!

Any PAID time during which your dick is NOT inside one of her orifices is time and money wasted! I'd much rather fuck for an hour, unload my nuts, then gtfo and have a beer by myself. Peace and quiet!

And then cashes the empties to help scrape together enough for his next $40 blow-and-go

 

[explorerzip]

Yeah but depending on what services your getting the rates can change.

Of course rates will change depending on what you select, but it will never be free. Sorry, but smiles do not count.

 

[explorerzip]

I'm glad that you asked that question. I have been of the opinion that there are a lot of teenagers on this site, based on their comments and world views, especially the liberals who expound bullshit that one would hear from teenagers in high school who have not been exposed to the real world and are merely aping what their teachers and peers have told them. My sense is that the name-calling, accusations and assorted other crap is generally the reaction of young kids to insults in the schoolyard, not of actual adults.

Or "adult" men trying (and failing) to link this topic to the school system.

 

[explorerzip]

And then cashes the empties to help scrape together enough for his next $40 blow-and-go

He think he's a billionaire and respects his money too much. So cashing in empties is beneath him.

 

[harryass]

I can afford it; it's just degrading and beneath my dignity. Perhaps you have no concept of that

RALMAO! Dignity? You give yourself way too much self credit buttercup.

 

[managee]

I'm glad that you asked that question. I have been of the opinion that there are a lot of teenagers on this site, based on their comments and world views, especially the liberals who expound bullshit that one would hear from teenagers in high school who have not been exposed to the real world and are merely aping what their teachers and peers have told them. My sense is that the name-calling, accusations and assorted other crap is generally the reaction of young kids to insults in the schoolyard, not of actual adults.

It seems like mud gets flung from both sides of the political spectrum on this playground.

And if you're familiar with politics, you'll have noticed that age does not necessarily define wisdom.

If you really think people here are aping what they heard from some high school teacher, you are giving those teachers a lot more credit than I ever did.

Perhaps they are functional adults who spend more time reading Reuters and AP than they spend on Breitbart, Zerohedge, Fox, The Rebel and The Daly Stormer.

of course time is money. but time doing what? riding my cock? ok that's $250 maybe even $400 if she's model quality. but putting food in her face and chit chat? fuck that lol

it's also what services deserve it or not. i could be a billionaire but never pay someone to watch a movie with me. because i respect myself and my money.

there are guys willing to pay for that. so the sps are correct to charge for it. it's a free market voluntary exchange and im a libertarian so both the social and fiscal aspects are fine by me. i'm just calling the dudes pitiful fools and the sps shameless audacious hoes, that's all lol

I love that you think ("beneath my dignity") you're on some kind of high road for thinking this way.

Paying to put your dick in a girl is fine and dignified, but paying to spend time with her when your dick isn't in her makes a guy pitiful?

Maybe you should try dating. Then you could stop being one of the suckers who actually pays to put their dick into a woman's hole(s). Even someone as stupid as you are coming across can understand that just because paying for sex is normalized here doesn't somehow exempt you from the label of undignified and 'pitiful.'

You are a hypocrite.

 

[black booty lover]

OK how about this scenario. I lost my wife of 35 years last year. I am not looking to get into another permanent relationship and go on a month long vacation to the Carribean every winter. I dont want to go alone and really dont want to make it a guys only trip so I take an SP with me for the trip (well I have asked and she stated she was excited to come with me). One I can afford it and it makes my vacation so much better without having to try the local scene. Obviously the SP needs to be paid as this is their occupation, does anybody here go to work for free on a regular basis. Two as lomg as you and the SP are a compatible match I enjoy hanging out with someone who yes can be beautiful but not only in appearance but also in character. It brings the intimacy to another level by just talking perhaps a walk on the beach or whatever, perhaps get to know each other better or learn about things different from your normal acquaintances. Three when the trip is over then its over and I have had a great time much better than if I went alone. Does this make me a sad person, I dont think so. I enjoy company but dont really want any attached strings afterwards. I dont mistake this for Love but believe a friendship bond can be created and exist. As others have posted not all are simply looking for a slam bam and thank you mam experience me being one of them and that is why I prefer 3+ hr engagements seeing an SP when I do. I'm sure I will be mocked and labled for this post by some but that is OK I have a thick skin and can take it. In this hobby everybody has their own wants and needs and I believe that many SP's realize this to cater to those so as to maximize their living amd I also believe some but not all do enjoy tbe social encounters.

If you have the money, and this makes you happy and fills the void that you have, nothing wrong with this at all.