Taking an Escort to a Wedding

[JustSex]

Have to side with the guys who say this is a bad idea. Too risky and if your cover is blown you will be talked about forever as the guy who could only get a hooker to take to a wedding.

Your cover can be blown visiting an MP, SC or SP. I'd have more respect for a guy that has a life, then those lonely guys with no balls to do anything. You have a girl from Vancouver and follow PurpleMonkey's suggestion of a friend not a girlfriend - you should be fine. If I was at the same party and something happened - I'd drag you both to my table. Your friends will cover for you and only the pussy whipped would whisper to their SO's.

Your decision of course but you can either live life on your terms or spend your life cowering in the shadows of other peoples expectations.

 

[GPIDEAL]

What will actually happen is this: Some guy there will recognize her because he's used her services. He will then look up her site on his smartphone and show it to someone else, claiming that someone else showed it to him. Before you know it everybody at the wedding has seen it, and nobody knows who started it.

The guy who brought the escort will be the last one to hear about it, and may never hear about it.

This assumes that 'some guy' is not there with his wife and that all of the guys there are single or have come stag. If it's just the guys, who gives a shit? It's the wrath of married women that I'd be worried about. I took a dancer to an event, and although she covered herself up, she told me some of the wives in attendance gave her a jealous or dirty look.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Your friends will cover for you and only the pussy whipped would whisper to their SO's.

Absolutely.

I've seen that 1st hand but in regards to discussing or showing pics of one's travels to Cuba.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Have to side with the guys who say this is a bad idea. Too risky and if your cover is blown you will be talked about forever as the guy who could only get a hooker to take to a wedding.

I think he said he had no family there, so the risk of being outed to those that matter is low. Therefore, WTF applies.

 

[GPIDEAL]

A guy who has always gone alone suddening showing up with the hottest woman in the room just to show off his arm candy and impress everybody, especially the other women, just seems ridiculous to me, and potentially obvious to them.
This could crash your stock.

This is probably the best argument against taking an SP, but I believe he said that he has no family there or friends except for the bride and groom.

I've said that it's important that you look like a plausible couple, even if she is the better half in looks. In any case, some guys might think he has a big dick if she outshines all other girls.

 

[poorboy]

1. Make sure the SP you are taking is not a nutcase, you don't want her to talk about some things that will create an awkward situation for you.

I've seen this particular escort about 10 times and we have a great rapport with each other. How crazy is she? About as crazy as any other woman. She's not really a drinker and not a smoker. She has a professional job beyond her side business.

2. Tell anyone that asks that she is your friend, not girlfriend. Or else they will ask about her in the future and you may be stuck for an answer.

We've got a background story figured out that seems plausible and she's going to actually drop by my workplace about a month before the wedding for a short visit as a lead up. I won't be introducing her as my girlfriend, and the bride and groom already know she's not my steady.

3. Make sure you clarify her rate beforehand and not after, we don't want to see a post about how she ripped you off that night, lol.

Already done

4. Make sure you ask her or plan a name with her before you guys go to the wedding. You don't want to be calling her Betty, while she introduces herself as Wilma.

Got her name already established. Wedding is on June 24.

5. Most importantly, have fun and enjoy the night.

Based on the number of guys and gals who have actually DONE it, it should be a fun date.

GOOD LUCK CHUCK!

I'm still going to try the craigslist posting, but I'm not sure if I'll get a response.

 

[Thousand]

Well, remember to bring extra money. Your "girlfriend" will definitely take full advantage of this opportunity to milk every cents you got. You will need a lot of dough to keep her quiet during the wedding.

 

[fuji]

This assumes that 'some guy' is not there with his wife and that all of the guys there are single or have come stag.

Why does it assume that?? Everyone just claims to be passing along what they heard from someone else. The first guy who starts passing the information lies about that, and it's true for the rest. And yes you're right once the word is spreading, it'll spread through the women too.

 

[KylieTO]

Well, remember to bring extra money. Your "girlfriend" will definitely take full advantage of this opportunity to milk every cents you got. You will need a lot of dough to keep her quiet during the wedding.

How and why if they've agreed on a rate already?

 

[fuji]

How and why if they've agreed on a rate already?

He's pointing out the rather low risk that she will extort him for money not to out him at the wedding.

 

[KylieTO]

He's pointing out the rather low risk that she will extort him for money not to out him at the wedding.

This is getting to be outrageously worse-case scenario. He's seen this professional 10 times he said. I'd go on a limb and say the chances of her extorting him are microscopic. If we're talking about some craigslist girl, well, that's just a huge crapshoot to begin with.

 

[fuji]

I agree the odds are low. You might as well worry about escorts outing you to your neighbours and the like. The much more plausible risk is that someone recognizes her and word gets around.

 

[Samurai Joey]

Why does it assume that?? Everyone just claims to be passing along what they heard from someone else. The first guy who starts passing the information lies about that, and it's true for the rest. And yes you're right once the word is spreading, it'll spread through the women too.

Fuji, I personally think that the likelihood that such an event will actually occur is quite small. While Cassini did point to the disastrous example of his co-worker, most people who have used the services of the said SP will be unlikely to pass that info to others, lest he himself will be outed. Even if someone claims that they are just passing along info, ultimately the only way this person would know is if someone in the group has seen her, and who wants to risk that?

IMHO, if the SP in question does not have any photos of her face on a website identifying her actual profession, I really don't see any problems for the OP to bring her along to a wedding.

 

[WoodPeckr]

While I think it is a bad idea and wouldn't do it, poorboy has been a hobbyist on TERB a long time and has faith in his selected SP. So maybe he can pull it off without anything dire transpiring. Hope you let us know how it went.

 

[mark_fender05]

I personally would take an escort who I know well. I have some friends who actually happens to be working as escorts. I didn't know that they were escorts until they told me about it. Is it a shameful thing to be friends with an escort? Do your friends really have the right to control who you hang out with other than with them?

My suggestion is to take her to the wedding and introduce her as your friend. You just gotta make up a story about how you meet her. Also ask her if she has a side job/activity beside escorting so that she can tell people what she does. If she's comfortable with telling your friends that she's an escort(probably unlikely), then just go with that story... If not, then make up some sort of simple/boring occupation that people probably wouldn't ask much about like secretary/receptionist/cashier/sales. Think of her as a regular friend, not an escort. Also don't overthink it and have fun.

 

[fuji]

Fuji, I personally think that the likelihood that such an event will actually occur is quite small.

I agree the odds are low, but it amounts to a lifestyle choice. If that's how you deal with similar situations every time sooner or later it will blow up in your face.

Also it's like the nuclear disaster in Japan -- low odds of happening, but if it happens it's a catastrophe. Not worth the risk.

 

[Art Mann]

Simple solution to this never-ending debate:

Poorboy should take the lovely, intelligent lady in question to the wedding and have fun.

Fuji should not risk that course of action.

He should skip this wedding altogether and just go to hell in a handmaiden.

 

[GPIDEAL]

Why does it assume that?? Everyone just claims to be passing along what they heard from someone else. The first guy who starts passing the information lies about that, and it's true for the rest. And yes you're right once the word is spreading, it'll spread through the women too.

Locker room talk doesn't count. Guys who hobby keep it to themselves. Wouldn't you? But I suppose, what you describe is possible. If the wedding is boring, someone may want to add a little drama with a little gossip. That would be an inmature thing to do. Surprisingly, maybe people won't give a shit, especially if they don't know him. You gotta remember that it's someone's wedding, and guests wouldn't want to spoil that special day with unnecessary drama for a couple they respect or care about.

 

[fun-guy]

Poorboy should take the lovely, intelligent lady in question to the wedding and have fun.

Fuji should not risk that course of action.

He should skip this wedding altogether and just go to hell in a handmaiden.

lmao, +1

 

[Samurai Joey]

It's been a week since the OP had started the thread about attending a wedding with an escort. I'm curious as to when the wedding is taking place and if he's finally decided on whether to take her, or if he actually attended the wedding.