Wow you guys are thinking way to much into this, Poorboy just go and have fun who cares about her job. If you have to start thinking what others think then you have a problem. This is a great chance to have her blow you in the restroom or even bang her there and let the other guys look up to you ! only reason we go to weddings is to get the woman dressed up to the nine's so that we can fuck her yahoooooooo!
Taking an Escort to a Wedding
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That's why it probably will work. You can never eliminate the risk of being outed since others use classy escorts too, but since she won't be just in garters and heels, and if she doesn't advertise her face, nobody will know unless they're hobbyists too, but they'll keep their mouth shut if they're not stupid.
Enjoy yourself... it will be fine. No need to worry about tattoos, everyone has one these days. If she is a classy dresser and can talk about a real job, you're set. In the end, no one will remember anyway. Just keep your story straight. They might ask you in the future what about what's her name, are you still dating her, or was that just a one time thing? It's your life, don't worry about the others. If you are okay with it, I say go for it.
You will both be a bit nervous but feed off that energy, a little playful touching under the table perhaps. A misplaced hand on the dance floor within tastful reason of course... it all leads to a great finish at the end of the night!
Good Luck!!
You will both be a bit nervous but feed off that energy, a little playful touching under the table perhaps. A misplaced hand on the dance floor within tastful reason of course... it all leads to a great finish at the end of the night!
Good Luck!!
Wait a minute...
January Jones:
...some nerdy guy is paying my wife to go to a wedding with him?!
Sounds like something Roger Sterling would do. That man has no scruples whatsoever!
January Jones:
...some nerdy guy is paying my wife to go to a wedding with him?!
Sounds like something Roger Sterling would do. That man has no scruples whatsoever!
I'm going to say fuck it and take her. She's a classy gal, not a street walker and I'm sick and tired of going to weddings by myself. I'm not ugly, and will only know about 25% of the people there.
No hanky panky at the wedding though, I'm looking for her to be just like Betty Draper when she is out to dinner with Don Draper's bosses or clients. She's upbeat, funny and will definately be the prettiest girl at the table, if not the room, and there may be some eyebrows raised, but I figure that it can only raise my stock because the word will spread that a good looking lady is willing to go to a wedding with me, so I must be someone women like.
Women are interested in things that other women have. The place I work at has so many rumours floating around anyways that are outlandish that no one can qualify, and I figure it doesn't matter. One of the guys is taking another gal from work who was only separated from her husband for a few weeks before they started dating. Another guy who was married with kids got caught with a scuzzy street walker in the parking lot because she stole his wallet, etc.
Will people think she's an escort? I actually have my doubts that they will as it's a pretty conservative group and I've never even joked about money for sex or hookers.
No hanky panky at the wedding though, I'm looking for her to be just like Betty Draper when she is out to dinner with Don Draper's bosses or clients. She's upbeat, funny and will definately be the prettiest girl at the table, if not the room, and there may be some eyebrows raised, but I figure that it can only raise my stock because the word will spread that a good looking lady is willing to go to a wedding with me, so I must be someone women like.
Women are interested in things that other women have. The place I work at has so many rumours floating around anyways that are outlandish that no one can qualify, and I figure it doesn't matter. One of the guys is taking another gal from work who was only separated from her husband for a few weeks before they started dating. Another guy who was married with kids got caught with a scuzzy street walker in the parking lot because she stole his wallet, etc.
Will people think she's an escort? I actually have my doubts that they will as it's a pretty conservative group and I've never even joked about money for sex or hookers.
It's not that anyone will think she's an escort from her looks or behavior, it'll be because they have used her services. You're taking a small risk with big consequences. If you're really not ugly why do you have so much trouble finding a date for the wedding?
Ummmm why not treat her like a 'real' human being? Believe it or not escorts are real people too.
This is the way I see it and please remember, it's only my point of view:
If an escort has become a friend of mine and we exchange e-mails, go to dinner/movies and attend major events like concerts/ballet/opera, obviously there is a good relationship there and she would be happy to accept an invitation from a friend to go to a wedding. No different than an invitation to any other female friend of mine. I have done the above with select escorts who became friends and that's what it was: an invitation from a friend.
If you're going to have to 'book' a lady's time to attend a wedding with you, that is your choice. That is something that for me personally, seems like a tremendous waste of time and resources with a possible compromising ramification. I don't know your personal circumstances but I know for a fact that there are plenty of civilian women, all over, that would happily accept an invitation to a wedding just for the pleasant evening it would be.
If an escort has become a friend of mine and we exchange e-mails, go to dinner/movies and attend major events like concerts/ballet/opera, obviously there is a good relationship there and she would be happy to accept an invitation from a friend to go to a wedding. No different than an invitation to any other female friend of mine. I have done the above with select escorts who became friends and that's what it was: an invitation from a friend.
If you're going to have to 'book' a lady's time to attend a wedding with you, that is your choice. That is something that for me personally, seems like a tremendous waste of time and resources with a possible compromising ramification. I don't know your personal circumstances but I know for a fact that there are plenty of civilian women, all over, that would happily accept an invitation to a wedding just for the pleasant evening it would be.
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I hope she is one of those body builder escorts who can bench press you with only one arm. Heh.
No. But perhaps only ugly people need to use escorts to find a date for a wedding. We're not talking about having sex here--lots of women like to attend weddings. In fact, it would make a good first date if there's someone you're interested in.
It's even an easy one to ask for, "I really want to go to this wedding, but I don't have anyone to come with me, think you could tag along?"
Pretty awesome opportunity to ask someone out if you have your eye on someone.
Wow. Really? The client I went with was very successful, good looking and charming. And while sex was involved later in the night, we spent several hours at this wedding beforehand in a strictly social setting. Some guys are interested in the dynamics of spending time with a beautiful charismatic woman- regardless of the social setting- and knowing it is what it is, what the boundaries are, knowing he will get lucky later and that he isn't going to have to worry about the pending "Why haven't you called me?" texts, because he is dealing with a professional. I find looks are completely beside the point.
Sure that's why people call escorts, including me. However, if your goal is to have a date for a wedding, there are generally lots of civvy women available and they're certainly capable of generating the same--if not better--dynamics. Whether it ever turns into something more--who knows. The OP sounds like he might like it if it did.
If the civvy woman gets you all hot and then doesn't put out--assuming you were even looking for that in the context of a wedding--well you can always call an escort after you've dropped her off.
I'm just saying that "come to a wedding with me" is usually a win in terms of getting a date.
I think the presumption is that the OP will have sex after the wedding, just like having a dinner date with an escort.
He simply doesn't want to go to a wedding alone, and is combining the benefit of seeing an SP one night as his guest beforehand.
A wedding, which is a big do, doesn't make a good first date unless you already know the person, even if you don't expect sex.
