Swallowing

[curiousm7]

Totally respect your thoughts on this, and never would question or push a woman’s boundaries, but wanted to give a guy’s experience.
As a guy who used to not really care much about bjs, then later didn’t care too much what she did with the results afterward I can offer at least one perspective. I only found CIM, and especially swallowing (and for that matter facials) a turn on when someone did it with me and really enjoyed it. Being with someone who is to turned on by you that she wants you, your cock, and your cum is a huge turn on. It’s not so much about dominance or her being your “bitch”. While it’s not talked about as much in guys as in women, psychological factors are huge in sexual enjoyment for us. You are right, it occurs after orgasm, but I’m sure all of us, men and women can think of things that occur immediately or shortly after we cum that either can make the experience and memory of it great, or alternatively make it worse or spoil it altogether.
Lastly, keep in mind, a lot of guys who participate in this world do so because they don’t get that feeling of being sexually attractive, being wanted etc in other spheres in life, and look for it here.

Exactly!!

I will never forget the first time, in my personal life, I was asked if I would cum on her face.

She was pleasuring me orally, looked up at me and asked me to do it. In that moment, I felt the sexiest and most desired in my life...i finished seconds later, in her requested way.

 

[William St]

Hobbying for about a couple years. Finally met a girl that I really like, and the vibes are pretty good. I've seen her a few times, and I'd like to make it a regular thing. The problem is she doesn't swallow. She said she didn't in the beginning, and I was cool with that while it was just a random thing. But I can't see myself getting into a regular thing with her spitting all the time. I've just had too many girls not swallow in my normal life, I don't want to repeat that here. I'm not sure what to do. Do I just say that I'd be a regular if you swallow? or do I just walk away? Dropping hints and hoping it happens doesn't seem like a good plan.

IF she made it clear at the beginning she doesn't swallow...Well, duh, she doesn't. So enjoy what she does offer or move on.

 

[Hawkeye22]

Idk if you eat a lot of semen but there is quite a variety in terms of taste & texture from strong & bitter to sweet & mild. Maybe more studies are needed because it’s quite pronounced from person to person.

I'm all for more studies... I can help provide samples if needed.

Hawk

 

[OntarioHappyJohn]

I’ve expressed how I feel about this act plenty of times, in similar terms as here, in person, with a provider I’ve been seeing for a long time, but, as I feel it’s improper to do so, I have never pressured or tried to lean on them to do something they don’t naturally want to do.

The discussion about it being demeaning or dominant is really making me question how I approach this hobby.

For me, rimming is 1000% about demeaning the woman and making her subservient, but I don’t presume that that is the intent of everyone who enjoys it, so I don’t talk down about the act or the men who enjoy it.

To learn that this is how my desires are being interpreted by providers I had trusted is a bit of a gut punch. I get no enjoyment out of being with a woman who isn’t enjoying herself, so if my desires are being interpreted so negatively then I need to change who I am seeing and how I am approaching this hobby.

 

[Wearyuser]

Wow, I really had no idea swallowing was so emotionally powerful for you guys! This is kind of blowing my mind. I thought you were just wanting us to.be cum dumpsters lol so I guess I had it all wrong! Very interesting thread where I find myself agreeing across the board.

I will probably still not want to advertise or commit to this as a service and do prefer to decide organically if I’m feeling it, but you’ve given a lot of really valid and kinda sweet reasons for loving being swallowed which has moved my thinking!

I also agree that providers who don’t offer shouldn’t be pushed and this probably includes not asking and not trying with extra $$, we are well aware we can offer upgrades. But there remains a grey area of course where you’ve established rapport. A more suave approach would be to talk about things you love and your fantasies when prompted, including being swallowed. She will get the message and decide how to proceed or not.

Guys who love this, can you do a deep dive into researching how to make it yummier? You will catch more love with honey than turpentine as the saying goes.

From what I understand it, the taste, is all about diet. Apparently fruits like pineapple/strawberries etc will help but regardless I can't imagine it being something you'd ever crave LOL

 

[PointyP]

Ha, I like how this thread started as a nothing burger, but it took a life of its own

Personally, swallow (SW, disambiguation) is not a requirement for me, but is it nice sometimes, yes. But it is personal, vibe based choice of the SP, I would never demand it. For ladies, including civies and SOs, it more of a i like you, you are mine, I want all of you. When it happens on occasion, even with SPs, I like a little boy say thank you, or you spoil me, and I truly mean it, because she appreciates me enough to do it, and I truly appreciate her, certainly not thinking it's some dom/demeaning act...

CIM is so much better, experience and sensation wise. But it all goes in the basket do you click, vibes, etc. I have many SP experiences, where even if she says no CIM, she does it for me, here and there, but i would certainly not demand, its more of if the mood strikes...

Since we are adding rimming and/or anal play, I love ladies who seem to have 4 hands and 24 digits, and it becomes a true oral cornucopia... and double, two way, 69 version. I love this more than CIM and SW, and when its along shaft, taint, BLS play, along HJ and finish, is absolutely better to me than requiring SW, or even intercourse, any day.

Not to be forgotten gents, and I'm on the side of SPs here, 1000%, absolute hygiene. To requote theredmilf, we should be using the word IMMACULATE not clean, prim and proper, etc. Like get in there, rub and scrub, rinse and repeat. I have walked away from SPs and civies less than perfect, and demand nothing less from myself.

Lastly, I think there is a 3rd aspect of SW, and it's the king, take a back seat, treatment. I more associate this with Asian girls, you get the full treatment along with a proper massage afterwards, so SW is kinda part of that, as in clean me up, and take care of me. Sometimes I just need that. And no, it's not a dom thing at all.

 

[PointyP]

Taste... best left to the pros with real experience , of course, but...

I've been told mine tastes like nothing, as in water, tried it myself once or twice out of curiosity, and yeah, just that.

D'Arcy talks about it at length in the other post that MaverickPunter linked....

 

[McKenna King]

One important thing, as an escort you should ask all your clients not to brush their teeth for 24 hours before a meet. A toothbrush can create small lesions which will transmit virus so easily. If you are a girl use an electronic toothbrush, they are softer, do not create lesions and will clean your teeth perfectly. If you are a men Just rinse your throat, or like me i buy Vitamine water, its like a gatorade. It gives me a pleasant mouth breath even if i didnt brush my teeth.

No disrespect, but vitamin water is not going to mask your poor breath or halitosis.
There’s this stuff called mouthwash. PLEASE USE IT

you are probably correct here and i may be wrong. Yet my theory is it all depends if you want to swallow the guy or not. If you really want it won't taste bad.

It doesn’t matter if you like someone, are super attracted to them or have great chemistry or not.
If their cum tastes bad, it’s still gonna taste bad no matter how you feel about the person.

You could be attracted to Megan Fox or Sydney Sweeney, but that doesn’t mean their shit will smell like roses.

Lastly, sure Terb can be informative. But everyone should be mindful not to take “medical advice” or stats on STIs as fact when you’re reading about it online.

Best thing you CAN and SHOULD do is take responsibility for your own sexual health. Don’t leave it up to your sexual partners to be the only ones getting screened regularly. That doesn’t guarantee you won’t contract something.

There is always an inherent risk involved when you’re with multiple sexual partners.
Open dialogue about STIs should be encouraged and not stigmatized. But seeking proper medical care is crucial for staying on top of your own sexual health and helping the rest of this community stay healthy as well.
Yes, SWs carry less risk of transmitting STIs. But outbreaks still happen, even within the porn community where testing is mandatory (in most cases) and done more frequently.

I don’t know if swallowing is more or less risky. But that doesn’t really matter. Any sexual activity can be a risk. If that specific risk or activity doesn’t sit right with someone, that’s their choice.

Throwing more money at someone to try and push a boundary is still not something I think anyone here should be encouraging others to do. I’m grateful for the clients here that are chiming in about respecting SWs boundaries and encouraging the OP to move along or manage his expectations more respectfully.

 

[jalimon]

No disrespect, but vitamin water is not going to mask your poor breath or halitosis.
There’s this stuff called mouthwash. PLEASE USE IT




It doesn’t matter if you like someone, are super attracted to them or have great chemistry or not.
If their cum tastes bad, it’s still gonna taste bad no matter how you feel about the person.

You could be attracted to Megan Fox or Sydney Sweeney, but that doesn’t mean their shit will smell like roses.

Lastly, sure Terb can be informative. But everyone should be mindful not to take “medical advice” or stats on STIs as fact when you’re reading about it online.

Best thing you CAN and SHOULD do is take responsibility for your own sexual health. Don’t leave it up to your sexual partners to be the only ones getting screened regularly. That doesn’t guarantee you won’t contract something.

There is always an inherent risk involved when you’re with multiple sexual partners.
Open dialogue about STIs should be encouraged and not stigmatized. But seeking proper medical care is crucial for staying on top of your own sexual health and helping the rest of this community stay healthy as well.
Yes, SWs carry less risk of transmitting STIs. But outbreaks still happen, even within the porn community where testing is mandatory (in most cases) and done more frequently.

I don’t know if swallowing is more or less risky. But that doesn’t really matter. Any sexual activity can be a risk. If that specific risk or activity doesn’t sit right with someone, that’s their choice.

Throwing more money at someone to try and push a boundary is still not something I think anyone here should be encouraging others to do. I’m grateful for the clients here that are chiming in about respecting SWs boundaries and encouraging the OP to move along or manage his expectations more respectfully.

i am not sure why my post triggered you so much.

Dont get me wrong i use an electric toothbrush. I dare any dentist to prove me wrong. and yes i always also bring vitamine water, or gatorade , to my meet and never had a girl who didn't like it.

i will ask you to read back my post. I am not disrespectful to anyone. Just purely honest. And i did wrote to get tested my medical professional and to get your hpv vaccine.

one thing your are wrong tho... i do not know who sydney sweeny is but i would eat the ass of megan fox any day but yet i would still prefer ariana grande... i would drink her bath water. Does that make me a pervert. Maybe to you and that's ok but i know 80% of men would be like me

i appreciate that you responded to me as i like people that challenge me. I write what i think based on my medical background, even if stated i was i a medical database dude, not a doctor. But yet nothing that i wrote was wrong.

 

[McKenna King]

i am not sure why my post triggered you so much.

Dont get me wrong i use an electric toothbrush. I dare any dentist to prove me wrong. and yes i always also bring vitamine water, or gatorade , to my meet and never had a girl who didn't like it.

i will ask you to read back my post. I am not disrespectful to anyone. Just purely honest. And i did wrote to get tested my medical professional and to get your hpv vaccine.

one thing your are wrong tho... i do not know who sydney sweeny is but i would eat the ass of megan fox any day but yet i would still prefer ariana grande... i would drink her bath water. Does that make me a pervert. Maybe to you and that's ok but i know 80% of men would be like me

i appreciate that you responded to me as i like people that challenge me. I write what i think based on my medical background, even if stated i was i a medical database dude, not a doctor. But yet nothing that i wrote was wrong.

Sorry if you felt called out.

This is a more generalized statement to everyone here:

Please use mouthwash. Before you get intimate with your provider, or even during your booking if needed.
But especially after eating anyone’s ass.

Masking your breath with Gatorade, vitamin water, or any other flavoured drink. Or even gum for that matter actually does nothing to kill the germs in your mouth. Or freshen your breath.

Just my personal opinion, but the sickeningly sweet smell & taste of these artificially flavoured drinks actually make your breath worse and tastes awful for the other person.

As someone who loves DFK and passionate foreplay before getting into the bedroom, I will definitely lead you to the washroom and show you where the mouthwash is located if I feel your oral hygiene is not up to par. And I’ll politely ask you to use it after you eat my ass as well. Because H. pylori is no joke and anyone who eats ass should be using mouthwash afterwards as a precaution.

 

[Peter485]

You’re almost convincing me to swallow with impunity haha.Thanks for sharing this information!

Jalimon ... I don't use the term hero lightly ......

 

[jalimon]

Sorry if you felt called out.

This is a more generalized statement to everyone here:

Please use mouthwash. Before you get intimate with your provider, or even during your booking if needed.
But especially after eating anyone’s ass.

Masking your breath with Gatorade, vitamin water, or any other flavoured drink. Or even gum for that matter actually does nothing to kill the germs in your mouth. Or freshen your breath.

Just my personal opinion, but the sickeningly sweet smell & taste of these artificially flavoured drinks actually make your breath worse and tastes awful for the other person.

As someone who loves DFK and passionate foreplay before getting into the bedroom, I will definitely lead you to the washroom and show you where the mouthwash is located if I feel your oral hygiene is not up to par. And I’ll politely ask you to use it after you eat my ass as well. Because H. pylori is no joke and anyone who eats ass should be using mouthwash afterwards as a precaution.

dont be sorry we are discussing. And all your points are correct.

i just think you are overthinking. My oral hygiene is perfect. But this is not about me. I am not an escort i see like 5-6 girl per year now. Not 5-6 per day but i still get tested for std twice per year. Thankfully we live in Canada and those test are free.

the last time i completely eat an ass was 4-5 years ago. A girl named lilyb. She went into my backyard jacuzzi and i lost it. I didn't care about penetration or getting a blowjob (even tho it did happened) i just want to eat her alive i lick her pussy and ass for like 15 minutes until she told me my neighbour was watching us

I had the same feeling with dina doll in toronto. I would have eaten all parts of her curvy body. Yet it did not happen because i followed her directions and eventually exploded all over her face, mouth, and the wall behind

 

[johnnyonthespot]

Wow, I really had no idea swallowing was so emotionally powerful for you guys! This is kind of blowing my mind. I thought you were just wanting us to.be cum dumpsters lol so I guess I had it all wrong! Very interesting thread where I find myself agreeing across the board.

I will probably still not want to advertise or commit to this as a service and do prefer to decide organically if I’m feeling it, but you’ve given a lot of really valid and kinda sweet reasons for loving being swallowed which has moved my thinking!

I also agree that providers who don’t offer shouldn’t be pushed and this probably includes not asking and not trying with extra $$, we are well aware we can offer upgrades. But there remains a grey area of course where you’ve established rapport. A more suave approach would be to talk about things you love and your fantasies when prompted, including being swallowed. She will get the message and decide how to proceed or not.

Guys who love this, can you do a deep dive into researching how to make it yummier? You will catch more love with honey than turpentine as the saying goes.

If it tastes like turpentine, I think there are probably bigger problems.

 

[William St]

Just leave the swallowing to professionals who enjoy swallowing . Some of us specialize in it, like me, hence why Penny always Swallows

I can verify that!