Swallowing

[Theredmilf]

I don't really want to comment on what the guy should do. But I did want to comment on people minimizing the importance of swallowing. There are so many fetishes here, each one of them is pretty ridiculous to everyone else who isn't into them, and frankly each one has far more to do with intimacy and emotions than friction on the tip of the penis. Men ascribe importance to a huge array of things that have nothing to do with physical sensation.

For me, her swallowing shows an emotional connection between us. In my dating years I had lots of female friends. When we talked about whether they swallowed, nearly all of them said it depended on 'if I really like the guy'. For the girls that didn't normally swallow, they all admitted that there were some guys, or that one guy that really dialed them in, that they swallowed for without hesitation. Even the girls that found swallowing disgusting admitted to that one night, when they were really turned on with that special guy, when they just let it happen. Chat boards are filled with stories from cheating wives that end with 'it was so hot, I even swallowed and I haven't done that for years'. Even the girls who liked to swallow admit that when they stopped liking the guy and they knew the relationship was going to be over soon, they usually stopped swallowing.

For me, and I don't think I'm alone, her swallowing is her telling me that she really likes me, that I am special to her. And to be honest, I think most women are trying to communicate exactly that to the guy in those moments.

Wow, I really had no idea swallowing was so emotionally powerful for you guys! This is kind of blowing my mind. I thought you were just wanting us to.be cum dumpsters lol so I guess I had it all wrong! Very interesting thread where I find myself agreeing across the board.

I will probably still not want to advertise or commit to this as a service and do prefer to decide organically if I’m feeling it, but you’ve given a lot of really valid and kinda sweet reasons for loving being swallowed which has moved my thinking!

I also agree that providers who don’t offer shouldn’t be pushed and this probably includes not asking and not trying with extra $$, we are well aware we can offer upgrades. But there remains a grey area of course where you’ve established rapport. A more suave approach would be to talk about things you love and your fantasies when prompted, including being swallowed. She will get the message and decide how to proceed or not.

Guys who love this, can you do a deep dive into researching how to make it yummier? You will catch more love with honey than turpentine as the saying goes.

 

[Tango Urilla]

To make it yummier is simple. Smoke lots of cigs, eat spicy food with lots of garlic and onion!