Sugar Dating Experience

[brian4hartley]

I've sent 10 lovely messages to 10 ladies on Sugar daddy dot ca. They messaged me first. The site is garbage but I have credits to use. I'll let you know if i get any hits

When I was using SA I was sending out 7-10 messages to women every few days. And then there was all the ones that wrote in. I had a well done profile with what I wanted, and didn't want, etc. Ironically of the three I see now, 2 of them wrote in to me first. And it took a while to get them from "first message" to "coffee time"

 

[Hipjdog]

When I was using SA I was sending out 7-10 messages to women every few days. And then there was all the ones that wrote in. I had a well done profile with what I wanted, and didn't want, etc. Ironically of the three I see now, 2 of them wrote in to me first. And it took a while to get them from "first message" to "coffee time"

Yeah, it's nice as a man to get unsolicited messages. That's so rare in any other context. I find on SA you get a lot of messages from women in South America
for some reason. Some are really hot but have no way of getting up here.

 

[shack]

I find on SA you get a lot of messages from women in South America
for some reason. Some are really hot but have no way of getting up here.

You're the wealthy sugar daddy. Isn't it incumbent on you to fly them up? LOL.

I'd get messages from all over the States and Europe. I'd tell them, "Let me know when you're in town and we can get together.".

 

[Hipjdog]

You're the wealthy sugar daddy. Isn't it incumbent on you to fly them up? LOL.

I'd get messages from all over the States and Europe. I'd tell them, "Let me know when you're in town and we can get together.".

Just curious: did any of them ever come to town?

 

[brian4hartley]

I thought they were all scams.

 

[shack]

Just curious: did any of them ever come to town?

The furthest anybody came was from Hamilton and Bowmanville. They'd take a GO bus.

TBH, I didn't want anybody coming from far away strictly on my account. It would have to be for several days if they were coming from far.

I wouldn't want someone I've never met staying at my place so who's paying for the hotel? And what if we didn't hit it off? She came all this way just to see me and we are incompatible. What happens then?

I'd also tell them that there are 6 or 7 million people in the GTA so there are thousands of SBs who are a short drive or uber away from me. So spending thousands of dollars to meet made no sense. I'd tell them to scope guys from small towns or rural areas where those potential SDs have very few options.

 

[xix]

The furthest anybody came was from Hamilton and Bowmanville. They'd take a GO bus.

TBH, I didn't want anybody coming from far away strictly on my account. It would have to be for several days if they were coming from far.

I'd also tell them that there are 6 or 7 million people in the GTA so there are thousands of SBs who are a short drive or uber away from me. So spending thousands of dollars to meet made no sense. I'd tell them to scope guys from small towns or rural areas where those potential SDs have very few options.

You must be in the 20% great looking if they are willing to do that.
The second paragraph did they read you state about looking for local? did they take up on your offer?

 

[Tony2000]

You must be in the 20% great looking if they are willing to do that.
The second paragraph did they read you state about looking for local? did they take up on your offer?

I just delete SA messages from the US, South America and Europe. Just a giant waste of time.
I assume they are all scammers .... but if not the chances of them coming to Toronto on their own dime are just about zero.

 

[shack]

The second paragraph did they read you state about looking for local? did they take up on your offer?

TBH, I tried to not say anything that would encourage anybody to come from afar.

 

[shack]

I just delete SA messages from the US, South America and Europe. Just a giant waste of time.
I assume they are all scammers .... but if not the chances of them coming to Toronto on their own dime are just about zero.

They were basically just fishing.

 

[superman12]

So, I’ve read this thread twice and was hoping for clarity on a couple things. I did joined SD . Ca without a photo and spent about $500 on credits for mainly ’Hey!’ Messages And no replies except from Sp asking for $400 - $800. I have seen many great SP’s for much less and wanted more..thrill of the chase.. as has been mentione.

1. I have a SO and getting caught would be catastrophic. How can you join seeking somewhat anonymously ?

2. Do you have a 2nd phone for messaging/Snapchat ?

3. How much time do the successful guys spend getting to their first meet and great ?

4. What type of photos stand out ? I’m 50 btw

1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.

 

[Fornication]

1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.

I was thinking, good original photos(not searchable), alias name and phone number hoping to remain anonymous as possible from my SO. That's plan prol has flaws !! LOL

 

[Uuoomkin12]

When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.

 

[Hipjdog]

When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.

My plan for that has always been to say that my friends created a profile for me as a practical joke.

 

[xix]

My plan for that has always been to say that my friends created a profile for me as a practical joke.

And that is how you met TBBT - Amy Farrah Fowler ?

 

[downtowncore]

My plan for that has always been to say that my friends created a profile for me as a practical joke.

Smart plan. Use pictures that others have.

 

[reviewmon]

1.So on these sugar sites it is a bit difficult to stay anonymous if you want any sort of luck hooking up with a legit sp. SB's are not going to reply to a guy who has no pics up or doesn't have a complete profile. At least the ones who are legit and not just on the site as sp's. So if you want success you do have to compromise anonymity a bit.
2. I usually use a burner phone when contacting sb's or sp's since I have an SO. Easier to cover your tracks with a separate phone.
3. When I first started on sugar sites it took me almost a month to find a legit sb who I was interested and wanted to meet. Just beware there are a lot of scammers and sp's on these sites so there is abit of a weeding out process which is annoying.
4.Pics that show you are adventurous and social and also pics that will provide a truthful indication if what you look like.

Just be extremely careful. A lot of fraud out there.

 

[Fornication]

When I had my account active I would keep all my photos private. I would send out messages and many girls would request to see my photos before responding to my initial message. It puts the control in your hands as you can choose who to share photos with. You can also unshare photos if you get a bad vibe.

Theoretically someone could screen shot your pictures after you share so it's not a perfect system, but can help abit with those worrying about being outed.

To keep images from being searchable on google: 1. Add a watermark 2. Turn the photo horizontal 3. reduce resolution 4. use a filter 5. mentioned here only use the photo for the app that was never online.

 

[megatronman]

To keep images from being searchable on google: 1. Add a watermark 2. Turn the photo horizontal 3. reduce resolution 4. use a filter 5. mentioned here only use the photo for the app that was never online.

How do you do the use phot for app that was nebee online.
what do you mean use a filter.

 

[Fornication]

How do you do the use phot for app that was nebee online.
what do you mean use a filter.

You can filter via IG before posting, adding a water mark is in the edit function of the iphone, horizontal is available on most photos. Not a techie, just did a google search on untraceable photos.