Tried SA and SB for a bit. admittedly didn't put a ton of effort in. But it seems to me it's all scams. Nowhere close to being worth it give the time and money to find that possible "gem" in the bunch. The fantasy of it got me to at least take a shot.
You will never know if it is for you, if you never try.
Besides SA/SB , or dating apps are like a Casino sex fest .
1. All good looking people get DM
2. All good looking people which is only 20% (MEN) the rest of the men are less good looking. I would say the same ration for women.
3. Dating apps; SA/SB, dating websites and bars are pretty much a Brothel or Whole house or a Casino.
FYI - I have learn that Casinos are been used by old folks to meet up for a romp moment then leave.