No every time I've met up if it was just for coffee (which has been rare) then there is no funds involved.
And even then "fun" of some sort like DFK and more (sometimes FS) always seems to happen.
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And even then "fun" of some sort like DFK and more (sometimes FS) always seems to happen.
It's whatever you agree to. I think that most guys would not pay any allowance for a meet and greet.
You will never know if it is for you, if you never try.
Besides SA/SB , or dating apps are like a Casino sex fest .
1. All good looking people get DM
2. All good looking people which is only 20% (MEN) the rest of the men are less good looking. I would say the same ration for women.
3. Dating apps; SA/SB, dating websites and bars are pretty much a Brothel or Whole house or a Casino.
FYI - I have learn that Casinos are been used by old folks to meet up for a romp moment then leave.
Interesting I’ve had the complete opposite experience. At one point I created an account to just see how other guys do their profiles and would say that 90-95% of them are really bad. Terrible quality photos or just douchebag photos with wannabe fancy car pics and big guts with profiles talking about how “alpha” they are.
There's an earlier post that says Secret Benefits is a scam. That appears to be true. They recycle old profiles of women who are no longer on the site. Then they have bots or people send messages to men.
I have bought credits a couple of times on SB and I have never met even ONE PERSON from the site.
Compare with SA. I have not had any problems meeting women from SA in person. Yes, there are probably some bots and fake profiles, but there are plenty of real ones. You just have to take the time to sort through them.
I have bought credits a couple of times on SB and I have never met even ONE PERSON from the site.
Compare with SA. I have not had any problems meeting women from SA in person. Yes, there are probably some bots and fake profiles, but there are plenty of real ones. You just have to take the time to sort through them.
SB wasn't a very good site and I also tried one called Sugar Daddy Meet(SDM) and of course Seeking. SDM ended up being a really good way to cross-reference several profiles because I think it was the one where you have to do a verified video. And the video totally helps with seeing what a girl looks like in real life and several girls in my area had different photos on each site so you get a better idea of them. Some of their photos look great and then you watch their video and no thank you, they look nothing like their pics.
There could be the odd scam or bot from Seeking but I've hooked up with literally dozens of girls from that site.
not sure what you guys are talking about. When i search on seeking in the toronto area within 50km , i only see 2 pages most of them 30+ .age
and half of them have not logged in for months . this is the new reality of seeking
Yeah this is a bit odd. I'm noticing this myself. It used to be $110 USD/mo for men too, it seems to be cheaper now, closer to $25/mo.
I'm actually going back into my phone history hitting up previous girls because it's just so much easier than finding new ones on the "new SA".
This is the same reality that is hitting the toronto streets. its hard to find eye candies on the toronto streets or even subway . post covid is a changed world.
OK I just logged in and this isn’t true. Hundreds of girls in Toronto still but it’s now quoting monthly as $147/mo for premium per month and for the first time in CAD.
I agree. Maybe you have specific options checked, but when I search 18-35 year olds, height of 137-170cm, and body types not including few extra pounds or overweight, it pulls “about 9403 results’. 100’s are active.
And that's why it's so addictive there's just so many options. I don't put filters on age or height - in the past I'll basically see anyone and hooked up with lots of single moms, the odd woman who isn't that good looking but I appreciate them regardless, young and insanely hot super model material who are totally DTF (those are the ones where you hook up and think "wtf is she doing with me?! Banging it out for 2-300 when she should be dating a guy her age to maybe fall in love, etc.!"
For sure - so many of them actually aren't hooking up with multiple guys and if you click with them, they don't expect that much. I've been with so many that just want attention and affection, maybe go out for lunch and then smash for a couple of hours. Just literally want to be adored and wanted like anyone else but maybe in a bit more luxurious setting. And even then lots of them don't need the luxury they're just super horned up and lonely or tired of being treated like crap by a 25 year old guy.
Lot of SA sales reps in this thread. Unbelievable claims being shared is reaching another level.
Some of us like myself have just been really fortunate and it's not sales for SA at all.
Just sharing experiences no different than sharing SP and MP experiences I've had. When you're lucky enough to still hook up with super hot 19-30 year olds and have lots of fun with, it's nice to share those experiences as well.
Naw your unbelievable and audacious claims, coupled with how quick you are to respond and force your beliefs/falsified experiences onto everyone else despite being the only one with any semblance of success is incredibly suspicious. As well as simply the sheer amount of time you're spending in this thread - no one believes you & it's growing incredibly tiresome and nauseating.
LOL. Maybe we need a separate section. Like BDSM got. Then those people that actively participate in the sd/sb lifestyle can post and review etc. those of you who don’t believe it and find it nauseating can simply not read the section.
Not that I particularly care whether you believe me or not, every post I have made is 100% accurate.
I get messages from other people posting on here all the time - I'm a sex addict and have been sober for about 14 or 15 weeks now. I've found this board to be a great place to vent my experiences, which are 100% legit. I'm both lucky for the experience and cursed by the addiction.
Sorry if you find my posting "tiresome and nauseating" and you can be as suspicious as you want but I'm sure I'm not the only guy that has been this lucky with SBs, SPs and MPs. I have about 150 archived conversations on my whatsapp right now and multiple offers from SBs to hook up whenever I'm free and in May had an MP give me her number and real name.
It takes A LOT of willpower to not message girls to meet and hook up, especially when so many don't even want anything financial in return.
You can always ignore my posts and remain as suspicious as you want but I'm just sharing my life experience and certainly don't condone my own behaviour. It just kind of "is what it is". The crazy part is when you're really addicted, you basically don't care what girl you have sex with. Yes I've been lucky enough to be with girls that any guy would be envious of and I've also been with girls where a lot of guys would say wtf are you serious? I just find something about the person that turns me on to have sex with them, we have fun and then I never see them again.
I wish you all the best in your hobbying and hope it's happy and healthy.
