Sugar Dating Experience

[Leimonis]

I tell them that's not the way the world works.

When they go to get their nails done, the salon doesn't ask how much they're willing to pay. They quote the price.

A lawyer doesn't ask the client how much he's willing to pay. He states his hourly rate.

Actually, a lot of girls accept that line of reasoning and then say how much they want.

While this totally makes sense I had girls stopping communicating with me for a lot less than that kind of lecture. This is way too logical for that site
I have been having difficulties simply moving convo off site because of how stubborn they are. If they talked to one idiot who is using terms like ppm on the site while risking being banned they would expect you to have full conversations on the site. Irritating like hell.

 

[shack]

While this totally makes sense I had girls stopping communicating with me for a lot less than that kind of lecture.

In that case, you are better off. Guaranteed they'll be difficult to deal with and not be worth the headaches they're bound to create.

This is why you have these discussion, to help you decide if you should pursue an arrangement with her. Do you want an arrangement with a person who cannot discuss things rationally?

 

[Leimonis]

Do you want an arrangement with a person who cannot discuss things rationally?

I am generally looking for good looking women who don’t mind to experiment sexually or are just itching to fuck. I must admit that ability to discuss things rationally, while desirable, is pretty low on my list.

 

[shack]

I am generally looking for good looking women who don’t mind to experiment sexually or are just itching to fuck. I must admit that ability to discuss things rationally, while desirable, is pretty low on my list.

Once a horndog, always a horndog. LOL. Happy hunting. Hope we get some reviews.

 

[IMBob]

Scam .
Via tinder . Snapchat . $100 per hr $300 overnight . I play along . Turns out it's going to be $70 upfront e transfer , balance in cash ....
Another via Secret Benefits. " a bit of flirting and photos first , but they will cost you "
I also hate when you give your contact info to a potential SB . No further communication until after your membership expires . Then it will cost $130 to read that message that she sent ....

 

[IMBob]

And the increasing number of transgender m to f on hetero dating and Sugar sites …. smh

 

[Traineeslavemark]

And the increasing number of transgender m to f on hetero dating and Sugar sites …. smh

I’ve not really noticed. I’ve only seen 2 tgirls on Seeking amongst 100’s of profiles.

 

[dvous11]

And the increasing number of transgender m to f on hetero dating and Sugar sites …. smh

I have seen M to F trans on regular dating sites like Bumble/Tinder/Hinge.
I always cringe, they look like dudes.
What hetero dude in his right mind would think they are attractive much less be willing to be seen in public with them.
The fact they think they will be accepted in these hetero spaces and people with consider them a "woman" is delusional and all part of the mental illness of gender dysphoria.

 

[Sugarsweet905]

I have seen M to F trans on regular dating sites like Bumble/Tinder/Hinge.
I always cringe, they look like dudes.
What hetero dude in his right mind would think they are attractive much less be willing to be seen in public with them.
The fact they think they will be accepted in these hetero spaces and people with consider them a "woman" is delusional and all part of the mental illness of gender dysphoria.

Any time I see a profile like that listed as a female I report it asap. It is a miscategorized profile that should be moved or removed.

 

[xix]

I was a 42-year-old sugar baby who asked for $500 per date. I sought sexual fulfillment after my divorce and I was happy to be spoiled, too.

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I was a 42-year-old sugar baby who asked for $500 per date. I sought sexual fulfillment after my divorce and I was happy to be spoiled, too.

Writer Emme Witt shares what it was like seeking connection, compensation, and intimacy with sugar daddies on "Seeking Arrangement" after her divorce at age 42.

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An ex-sugar baby reveals 4 things people always get wrong about the job

Most people think of gifts when they hear about sugar babies. But the sugar baby lifestyle can have some practical applications,

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I was a 42-year-old sugar baby who asked for $500 per date. I sought sexual fulfillment after my divorce and I was happy to be spoiled, too.

Writer Emme Witt shares what it was like seeking connection, compensation, and intimacy with sugar daddies on "Seeking Arrangement" after her divorce at age 42.

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[art van dele]

Is it me only or most of the profiles of the good looking girls on SA these days are from US. And I think it’s just a scam by SA and probably fake profiles.

 

[JOHNNIE]

I've had numerous meets for only 200 each time. Also met several that have been happy to come to a nice hotel, maybe grab a bit of room service and wine, we hook up and they don't expect any funds

Ok newb knob question. $300.00 to just meet for a cocktail or coffee and there is no HE per say?

 

[Caveboy0101]

Tried SA and SB for a bit. admittedly didn't put a ton of effort in. But it seems to me it's all scams. Nowhere close to being worth it give the time and money to find that possible "gem" in the bunch. The fantasy of it got me to at least take a shot.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Ok newb knob question. $300.00 to just meet for a cocktail or coffee and there is no HE per say?

No every time I've met up if it was just for coffee (which has been rare) then there is no funds involved.
And even then "fun" of some sort like DFK and more (sometimes FS) always seems to happen.

 

[shack]

Ok newb knob question. $300.00 to just meet for a cocktail or coffee and there is no HE per say?

It's whatever you agree to. I think that most guys would not pay any allowance for a meet and greet.

 

[xix]

Tried SA and SB for a bit. admittedly didn't put a ton of effort in. But it seems to me it's all scams. Nowhere close to being worth it give the time and money to find that possible "gem" in the bunch. The fantasy of it got me to at least take a shot.

You will never know if it is for you, if you never try.

Besides SA/SB , or dating apps are like a Casino sex fest .
1. All good looking people get DM
2. All good looking people which is only 20% (MEN) the rest of the men are less good looking. I would say the same ration for women.
3. Dating apps; SA/SB, dating websites and bars are pretty much a Brothel or Whole house or a Casino.
FYI - I have learn that Casinos are been used by old folks to meet up for a romp moment then leave.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Tried SA and SB for a bit. admittedly didn't put a ton of effort in. But it seems to me it's all scams. Nowhere close to being worth it give the time and money to find that possible "gem" in the bunch. The fantasy of it got me to at least take a shot.

Interesting I’ve had the complete opposite experience. At one point I created an account to just see how other guys do their profiles and would say that 90-95% of them are really bad. Terrible quality photos or just douchebag photos with wannabe fancy car pics and big guts with profiles talking about how “alpha” they are.

 

[jsanchez]

Tried SA and SB for a bit. admittedly didn't put a ton of effort in. But it seems to me it's all scams. Nowhere close to being worth it give the time and money to find that possible "gem" in the bunch. The fantasy of it got me to at least take a shot.

Scams and bots, save your time and money.

 

[Tony2000]

There's an earlier post that says Secret Benefits is a scam. That appears to be true. They recycle old profiles of women who are no longer on the site. Then they have bots or people send messages to men.
I have bought credits a couple of times on SB and I have never met even ONE PERSON from the site.

Compare with SA. I have not had any problems meeting women from SA in person. Yes, there are probably some bots and fake profiles, but there are plenty of real ones. You just have to take the time to sort through them.

 

[FunInToronto2023]

Scams and bots, save your time and money.

SB wasn't a very good site and I also tried one called Sugar Daddy Meet(SDM) and of course Seeking. SDM ended up being a really good way to cross-reference several profiles because I think it was the one where you have to do a verified video. And the video totally helps with seeing what a girl looks like in real life and several girls in my area had different photos on each site so you get a better idea of them. Some of their photos look great and then you watch their video and no thank you, they look nothing like their pics.

There could be the odd scam or bot from Seeking but I've hooked up with literally dozens of girls from that site.