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Noir@heart

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I have noticed that many members here seem to carry a righteous attitude when it pertains to today's society.....yet you hobby.

I am curious how many here have received and STD from a provider, and what did you do about it. Did you share it with your SO's before you realized what you had?

Most here do not know your terb handle so it may be ok to be truthful
 
I have noticed that many members here seem to carry a righteous attitude when it pertains to today's society.....yet you hobby.

i find this strange as well. its like republican politicians
 
i find this strange as well. its like politicians

I corrected your post red... All politicians are basically the same these days, well in North America anyway.
 
I have noticed that many members here seem to carry a righteous attitude when it pertains to today's society.....yet you hobby.

I am curious how many here have received and STD from a provider, and what did you do about it. Did you share it with your SO's before you realized what you had?

Most here do not know your terb handle so it may be ok to be truthful
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Excellent question but you won't get an answer.


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I'll answer.

Never got an STD from anyone professional or otherwise, so therefore never had a chance to pass it along either. :)

I think what toughb is getting at, is that no one is going to admit to getting one... Even if it was a "curable" kind, it would still limit their options when booking through this site.

Since I don't "hobby", this is not an issue for me, and therefore my answer, although truthful, is completely irrelevant.... (as are most of my posts here! LOL!)
 
I think what toughb is getting at, is that no one is going to admit to getting one... Even if it was a "curable" kind, it would still limit their options when booking through this site.

How many people have HPV?

Genital HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection (STI) in the United States. About 20 million Americans ages 15 to 49 currently have HPV. And at least half of all sexually active men and women get genital HPV at some time in their lives.


So i wonder how is it that all members and sp's do not have anything to share with us.
 
I have only developed minor skin irritation - redness etc. from receiving too much unlubricated friction and hard sucking/f**king. I inspect my dick on a daily basis. If I did get an STD I would admit it because I would not be ashamed of such a thing.
 
How many people have HPV?

Genital HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection (STI) in the United States. About 20 million Americans ages 15 to 49 currently have HPV. And at least half of all sexually active men and women get genital HPV at some time in their lives.


So i wonder how is it that all members and sp's do not have anything to share with us.

Seriously? You're surprised? If anyone, hobbyist or SP, had an STI, why would they admit it? Hobbyists for fear of being black-listed, SP's for fear of losing business. I'm not sure why you think anyone who has had one or currently has one would come on here and admit to it.

For the record, I have never had one. I did have an allergic reaction to a condom once, and I get itchy any time the subject comes up, but that's it!
 
I have noticed that many members here seem to carry a righteous attitude when it pertains to today's society.....yet you hobby.

I am curious how many here have received and STD from a provider, and what did you do about it. Did you share it with your SO's before you realized what you had?

Most here do not know your terb handle so it may be ok to be truthful

Are you calling us hypocites ? :)

I have been hobbying for 8 years, it has been 10 since I last had sex with my wife (due to surgery she had 10 years ago).

I have never had an std and I get tested twice a year, once as part of a company physical with extras and once later on with the family Doc. As far as I know there is no blood test for HPV but I don't have any genital warts, however most people who have HPV show absolutely no symptoms. So the answer is I don't know if I have HPV and there appears to be no way for me to find out.
 
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Are you calling us hypocites ? :)

I have been hobbying for 8 years, it has been 10 since I last had sex with my wife (do to surgery she had 10 years ago).

I have never had an std and I get tested twice a year, once as part of a company physical with extras and once later on with the family Doc. As far as I know there is no blood test for HPV but I don't have any genital warts, however most people who have HPV show absolutely no symptoms. So the answer is I don't know if I have HPV and there appears to be no way for me to find out.

Believe me i am no angel, i just find it troubling that certain attitudes here give an air of superiority...considering where we are
 
I've never caught an STD while hobbying (or anywhere else). I get tested twice a year.

When I sigh sometimes about how much better BBFS feels to the safe sex I seek in the hobby, I cheer myself with the fact that I have been hobbying for many, many years and have never caught any STDs.

While safe sex is not a guarantee of not catching anything, it vastly reduces the risks. It has worked for me, touch wood. One doesn't have to be paranoid, just careful.

I was at a costume rental place last week and a girl in her early 20's asks how clean the dancing girl costume she wants to rent is. The woman running the shop says it hasn't been rented out in 2 weeks and it was drycleaned when it came back, and that she'll have it drycleaned again if the girl wants. Girl says "Hmmm...can they boil it in water for 30 mins? I don't want to risk catching an STD from the previous renter". LOL. It is a fabric dress outfit that has sat on a rack for 2 weeks after being dry cleaned - you are not going to catch an STD from wearing it LOL. Boil it for 30 mins LOL. Safe is one thing, paranoid is another.
 
Believe me i am no angel, i just find it troubling that certain attitudes here give an air of superiority...considering where we are

Everyone needs to feels superior about something I guess.

I understand where you are coming from, however, I'm not sure that being a hobbiest, with all the baggage that entails, precludes one from taking a moral stance on another issue such as crime, religion, race etc etc. That was how I read your original question, perhaps I misunderstood you.( Happens to me a lot)

People also tend to sound "preachy" on boards when they don't mean to and others take stances on cyber-podiums that they would never have the opportunity to in real life.
 
I understand where you are coming from, however, I'm not sure that being a hobbiest, with all the baggage that entails, precludes one from taking a moral stance on another issue such as crime, religion, race etc etc. That was how I read your original question, perhaps I misunderstood you.( Happens to me a lot).


I truly enjoy the quality of information shared and debated here and appreciate the views of many. I suppose it is the select few that always have something to say about any issue and as you follow a thread you notice they change their stance just to stir debate.

Thanks for the honesty here gents.
 
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I am curious how many here have received and STD from a provider, and what did you do about it. Did you share it with your SO's before you realized what you had?

Most here do not know your terb handle so it may be ok to be truthful...

I will upfront state i'm clean nor haven't had an STD. I also would not choose to be an SP that has one, so I would hope they would tell me.

Regardless, it would seem your going have some problems getting those that have something to admit it in fear of blacklisting. Confidential handles are really easy to crack when many intuitive ladies get together to compare notes.

Sorry, looks like your hookers union project contribution won't be too successful.
 
I have noticed that many members here seem to carry a righteous attitude when it pertains to today's society.....yet you hobby.

I am curious how many here have received and STD from a provider, and what did you do about it. Did you share it with your SO's before you realized what you had?

Most here do not know your terb handle so it may be ok to be truthful
This post hints at righteousness, I'm filing your name for future reference. ;)
 
Seriously? You're surprised? If anyone, hobbyist or SP, had an STI, why would they admit it? Hobbyists for fear of being black-listed, SP's for fear of losing business. I'm not sure why you think anyone who has had one or currently has one would come on here and admit to it.

For the record, I have never had one. I did have an allergic reaction to a condom once, and I get itchy any time the subject comes up, but that's it!

omg me too, I was at a swingers club a while back and used the flavoured condoms that were provided,,,,,had an awful allergic reaction to them, scared the living hell out of me till I realized what was causing it. Soon as I started bringing my own condoms I never had another problem.