Really. Great. Post.
Should be given to all SOs of SPs as required reading. Would save a lot of grief.
Whatever you're drinking, next one's on me.
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Should be given to all SOs of SPs as required reading. Would save a lot of grief.
Whatever you're drinking, next one's on me.
I dated an SP for a couple of years. That's how I met her. She always practised safe sex. I never had an issue with it. It's just sex.
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Yeah, but did you tell your mom what she did for a living?
While I commend you for having the right attitude, the fact of the matter is that 95% of the people out there would think differently.
I think that's kinda the point. It shouldn't matter what other people think. It's just between the SP and her SO. Everything else is just static.
She has said it's just about the money, the sex means nothing. Now if we can just keep the honesty and truth between us going and I don't piss her off, lol, just maybe.
The advice and comments, even the naysayers have helped.
The advice and comments, even the naysayers have helped.
What is this pile of drivel? I told you what my definition of a normal man is. Read my post, it comes right after "definition". You see, in dreamblade's world, normal men are pathologized. Thankfully, in the real world, you and all the freaks who support what you say are the outcasts and will always remain so.
Easy to say and true for the most part. But we're only human. Naked people sharing intimate acts...emotions are not always easily left out. But hey, honesty and communication definitely goes a long way.
Rare, yes, but some of the most respectful and polite young men I've met were raised by single mothers. I guess they know how men should NOT act.
+3. You're all right I suppose.
It blows my mind nearly every day. Are we really talking about and insulting people about what makes "real men"? Versus what, imaginary men? Insulting someone on the basis of their masculinity because of who they choose to put their dick into is confusing gender identity with sexual identity... and both are unrelated to whether or not someone is comfortable with dating an escort.
OP: It can work. Of course there are difficulties to get through, just like with anything else, but you'd be surprised what two (or more) people with open minds can come up with.
I guess that's me... and Madison... and Scarlett... and Amber-Jade... and RAWD... and DB. If that's your categorization I'll take it happily: decent company, no knuckles on the ground, and a personal decision on monogamy/promiscuity/sex industry acceptance don't make someone more or less of a 'man'.
PS. We're resorting to name calling? I love the internet.
how can anybody in the SP world possibly have a ''normal'' life at the same time. ? LMFAO
we even go out to dinner, the movies, shop, walks to see the falls and parks for a picnic
We have birthday and christams dinners with family , have bank accounts , investments , straight friends ( yes they all now the truth) our life as an open book.
we go to canada's wonderland and actually hold hands (like ''normal'' couple)
we go to concerts and ballets too.
we have brothers , sisters , fathers,mothers.
true we have more open minds than most people (once jealousy is gone from your life, it's amazing what a open-minded,totally honest couple) can achieve
A tad defensive, aren't we?
Drivel? I speak from experience, whereas you seem to be speaking for the rear-quarter of your anatomy. Do you expect your next SO to be untouched? Do you allow her to interact with men at all? Ever date a waitress? A barmaid? Anyone in the service industry?
I'm challenging your assumption of what a "normal man" is. Does he think for himself, or does he just follow what he's been told up till now? You seem to follow the former. I find that sad and mysogynistic.
Brand me a freak if you will, that's your right. I'd rather be a freak than a sheep.
Ive been an earthling as well as an SP MP even a dominatrix...and honestly...I prefer the people who embrace their inner pervert and infidile? There are very few creatures on this earth that mate for life and my question is...
A bologna sandwich for 25 years every day for every meal...do you relish it or resent it?
A bologna sandwich for 25 years every day for every meal...do you relish it or resent it?
Nothing against bolgona but people have the capacity to not to be the same all the time. They can grow together, learn new things, share experiences, all that stuff.
You have to be on the same page. If you or your partner happen to be a bologna and the other person isn't then you're not going to be happy. Choose your sandwich components right and everything will be kosher.
For more discussion about kosher sandwich components, see Ceiling Cat's recent thread.
The discussion about dating and/or marrying an SP comes up over and over again... and aside from judging SPs or the men who happen to like and not judge them, I'd say that dating an SP would present particular sorts of difficulties but nothing that couldn't be dealt with.
Relationships are hard. If you start from a place of mutual respect -- which some people clearly do not have for SPs or the men who do or would date them -- then the difficulties can be managed. At least both the woman and man would know pretty quickly if they're sexually compatible.
The discussion about dating and/or marrying an SP comes up over and over again... and aside from judging SPs or the men who happen to like and not judge them, I'd say that dating an SP would present particular sorts of difficulties but nothing that couldn't be dealt with.
Relationships are hard. If you start from a place of mutual respect -- which some people clearly do not have for SPs or the men who do or would date them -- then the difficulties can be managed. At least both the woman and man would know pretty quickly if they're sexually compatible.
At least both the woman and man would know pretty quickly if they're sexually compatible.[/QUOTE]
That would be the easy part, lol
That would be the easy part, lol
I was close to a SP and she recently told me that no guy wants a SP as a girlfriend and that is the reason why she is single. I have to agree with her, most guys would not keep a girlfriend that did escorting as a full time job.
That's not exactly true, she's just not found the guy that wants to make it work. It's difficult in SO many ways but
like any relationship difficulties have to be handled as best as possible and then you move on. Being with the lady has to be the BEST thing going to want you to make it work. It helps if she feels the same way too, LMAO!
True, but it goes both ways.
Most woman wouldn't date a guy who sees escorts.
Even if an escort found a wonderful understanding guy who supported her career choice it could one day backfire. Relationships sometimes end badly, people might lash out in the way that hurts most and that could mean outing her to her family.
