Small but Intimate Get together....
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So, a gent invites a lady to attend, last minute something comes up & Lady doesn't show, now what?
Keep the party simple, dont try to make it something that can't be achieved
Keep the party simple, dont try to make it something that can't be achieved
Savannah: thanks for your input and it is appreciated. As for being paid, go and read Fabulous' post about how the ONLY reason sp's go to parties is because they are being paid. According to her, why else would they go? I am with you 100%, I think there are sp's who would enjoy a party of this type but don't go for various reasons. If we can provide some sort of incentive, then maybe more will show up.
Eli: You may view it as being screwed by not being able to come, I view it as a way to keep 10000 guys from showing up. Sorry, that's the way xtabi and other places do it and it works.
If you want to organize a party and have 10000 guys and 2 women, go ahead. Enjoy yourself because (while there are terbites that I know and like to hang with) I'd also like to dance, chat, flirt and otherwise enjoy the company of a female.
As for which club is the best, I only have ever been once and I was invited to go with a now retired sp. In reality it was great because there weren't 1000 guys to the 10 - 20 women who were there, and if you wanted to talk to one of them, you didn't have to form a line.....
Sorry, and this may seem harsh, but I WILL not attend another sausage party, IMHO it is just retarded to see 50 60 or more guys standing around with their thumbs up their asses trying to steal 2 seconds of a lady's time.
Eli: You may view it as being screwed by not being able to come, I view it as a way to keep 10000 guys from showing up. Sorry, that's the way xtabi and other places do it and it works.
If you want to organize a party and have 10000 guys and 2 women, go ahead. Enjoy yourself because (while there are terbites that I know and like to hang with) I'd also like to dance, chat, flirt and otherwise enjoy the company of a female.
As for which club is the best, I only have ever been once and I was invited to go with a now retired sp. In reality it was great because there weren't 1000 guys to the 10 - 20 women who were there, and if you wanted to talk to one of them, you didn't have to form a line.....
Sorry, and this may seem harsh, but I WILL not attend another sausage party, IMHO it is just retarded to see 50 60 or more guys standing around with their thumbs up their asses trying to steal 2 seconds of a lady's time.
GB: that's what happens 1,700,209 times every friday night....when you ask a woman out on a date and something comes up, what do YOU do? Same rule applies here.....Gentle Ben said:
So when 3 ladies end up going to the party with 3 gents, have a fun time at the partytboy said:
NFC on this thread
IMHO that will/would be a hell of a lot more fun than 60 gents and 3 ladies....as a matter of fact, I'd prefer that frankly.Gentle Ben said:
Dude, if you think 60 guys and 3 ladies is the makings of a good time, might I suggest you go to a strip club?
The best parties (in terms of general consensus afterwards) have been ones that were a good mix of male/female so the guys didnt feel like they were at a gay pride rally and the women didnt feel like they were worm on the end of a fish hook. I'll take 3-on-3 any day compared to the sausagefest alternative.Gentle Ben said:
And while it is true that some SPs will only go to a party if they are paid, some of the true courtesans of the industry are astute enough to see it as an opportunity to mingle and self-promote (even if its only through putting a face with the name).
The benefit of a private setting is that whatever happens at the party, stays at the party. By not being a venue open to the public, everyone can relax a bit more and not have to yell to be heard.
I am flattered but your obsession with me is getting a little out of hand, don't you think? In every second post of yours you mention my name.tboy said:
Clearly you need to be corrected on the facts related to a particular thread and the message I was trying to convey in regards to sp's being snuck in, to solicit prostitution on unsuspecting party goers.
I am an sp and I am telling you from my perspective I don't like that kind of situation, it doesn't make me feel good. I don't stand on a street corner and I don't go to private SQUARE parties to solicit business or INSULT REGULAR FOLKS.
Afterall besides doing the ho ho dance on occassion it does not define me.
I am also a regular person with family, friends and associates.
I know the difference when it's appropriate to be faced with an adult situation such as sex for money and when it's not. It's always best to err on the side of caution with this subject unless you are in a SAFE crowd.
It wasn't about sp's only coming out when money is involved.
Others got it, you missed the whole point. I'd appreciate it if you didn't try to twist my words. And dam it, any chance you could find someone else to stalk for a while?
"This is work for us. Your hobby, your pleasure and fun but IT'S OUR profession. It's how we earn our money, by providing companionship. An sp maybe going to an event with you but as far as she is concerned she is going to WORK. Something most people would like to get paid for. But because some of you think it's a party and it's fun it should be free. In that case FM should post this in a 'civilian' forum not a business forum.
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Are those not your words? And I'm not stalking you, I was quoting you in this thread, what do you do? Search for your name and respond whenever it comes up?
Sorry, if you don't like people quoting you, don't post anything.
In a nutshell you were responding to an invite to a private function by a terb member....your response was if an sp attends, she expects to be paid. END OF STORY now stop trying to hijack this thread and let's get back to the topic at hand...
At least one thing we can be sure of: (nutso) fabulous WON'T be coming to our soiree can you say halleluyah? AMEN brothers......
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Are those not your words? And I'm not stalking you, I was quoting you in this thread, what do you do? Search for your name and respond whenever it comes up?
Sorry, if you don't like people quoting you, don't post anything.
In a nutshell you were responding to an invite to a private function by a terb member....your response was if an sp attends, she expects to be paid. END OF STORY now stop trying to hijack this thread and let's get back to the topic at hand...
At least one thing we can be sure of: (nutso) fabulous WON'T be coming to our soiree can you say halleluyah? AMEN brothers......
you hi jacked this thread by bringing in something I posted in another thread, wasn't even posting in this threadtboy said:
you attacking me like this, constantly calling me names, etc, does not look good on you and I doubt it inspires too many sp's to venture where you are at. Attitude like your is what keeps sp's away from events such as this.
if it makes you feel better: I wouldn't come if you were coming, so there, fucking baby!
Years ago I read the results of a sociological study. It showed that highly alpha or macho males tended to dominate conversations towards the things they were interested in, like sports or vehicles that burn lots of gas. Even if everyone else in their circle was a woman, they would talk over top of the other people, frequently interrupting them, regardless of whatever else was being said in order to drag the conversation back to being all about them.
The researchers found that if this annoying habit was pointed out to the high testosterone male, in the MIDDLE of his time in a social circle, it made no difference at all to his behavior. However, if basically the first paragraph of this post was the FIRST comment at a social circle, then the boorish male would settle down and play by the same rules of decorum that all the other polite people were playing by.
So that's why I feel it is important to voice the rules of polite meeting and greeting at the outset, half way through it has no effect.
Also, it is known from studies of kindergarten children that the most difficult social move they face is trying to be included in an already established social circle. The ones who were most successful at this did it by just standing towards the outside of the circle quietly for a time without being nervous. Then when an opportunity to make a comment came up, they would speak for the first time and so become part of the group.
That's why I say: if someone comes over to try and join in your conversation, the speaker should finish their current comment, then acknowledge the newcomer and introduce them. This should also be communicated to everyone at the outset.
There is also a whole lot of body language stuff about which way your feet and body are directed towards other people that has to do with their hormones being either estrogen dominant or testosterone dominant. I call that Visual Endocrinology.
The researchers found that if this annoying habit was pointed out to the high testosterone male, in the MIDDLE of his time in a social circle, it made no difference at all to his behavior. However, if basically the first paragraph of this post was the FIRST comment at a social circle, then the boorish male would settle down and play by the same rules of decorum that all the other polite people were playing by.
So that's why I feel it is important to voice the rules of polite meeting and greeting at the outset, half way through it has no effect.
Also, it is known from studies of kindergarten children that the most difficult social move they face is trying to be included in an already established social circle. The ones who were most successful at this did it by just standing towards the outside of the circle quietly for a time without being nervous. Then when an opportunity to make a comment came up, they would speak for the first time and so become part of the group.
That's why I say: if someone comes over to try and join in your conversation, the speaker should finish their current comment, then acknowledge the newcomer and introduce them. This should also be communicated to everyone at the outset.
There is also a whole lot of body language stuff about which way your feet and body are directed towards other people that has to do with their hormones being either estrogen dominant or testosterone dominant. I call that Visual Endocrinology.
Omg tboy you really need to let it go ...fabulous did not say going to a terb get together needed payment .wow it really bugs you that some get paid to attend parties...its more common then you think ...so deal with it !That other party scenerio that you keep bringing UP .. had nothing to do with this industry .it is a whole different ball game .Geesse I think you need to get laid fast !tboy said:
I must disagree, Wicked is not a Swinger's club at all! It is a poser club where seriously deluded newbies THINK they are swinging and are so cool because of it. Wicked is where stuck-up beauties go to stand and model while forking over their cash to the stuck-up owner.SexySavannha said:
I know this is off-topic but I felt compelled to set the record straight. The hype and misinformation surrounding upstart wicked is a total joke among REAL lifestylers.
Alexis, it doesn't bug me at all that people get paid to go to parties, in fact, that was the original idea behind escorts and which I wholeheartedly support. Did you miss my post(s) about how a bunch of us should hire the ladies for the party and then bring them? Guess you did or chose to (conveniently) ignore them.....Guess if you did in fact read that post, and acknowledged it, it wouldn't give you or fab anything to argue about....
Anyhow, back to the topic at hand......
Anyhow, back to the topic at hand......
Okay, okay, okay everyone take a deep breath. Wow what happened here? I went to bed (late lastnight) and the thread was doing wonderfully, and i wake up (realllllll late) and i find that people are waaaaay off topic here. Please don't hijack my thread guys, it was going so well :_(
Anyways so just a reminder the gathering will be in January, now depending on where we'll have it (penthouse of a hotel, private rooms etc) and the availability of those rooms will determine the exact date in January.
There are at least 3 ladies confirmed they're coming. Not bad for one days advertising eh?
Anyways so just a reminder the gathering will be in January, now depending on where we'll have it (penthouse of a hotel, private rooms etc) and the availability of those rooms will determine the exact date in January.
There are at least 3 ladies confirmed they're coming. Not bad for one days advertising eh?
Well we're up to 6 ladies who have confirmed so far. I think i have more women than men replying to me. LOL isn't that ironic???????
Ariel Sanchez said:Hi Everyone, so i've been attending different industry parties hoping to mingle, laugh and chat with both the gentlemen and the ladies; i'm not sure why but it hasn't been able to work out that way. (no offence to any of the past party organizers) I think it's just a matter of what that certain person has in mind when they read or hear the word "party". I don't even want to call this thing a party because it really isn't one. It's a get together. 50 people TOPS. It's going to be at a PRIVATE residence's party room. I don't want naked girls making out or drunk guys running up and down the hallways, LOL......What i had in mind is an upscale, grown and sexy meet and greet. There will be music in the background, alcohol, snacks, chairs to sit and get comfortable on while getting to know one another better. Now i have THREE potential dates in december to have this night.
A) Thursday, December 21st
B) Friday, December 22nd
C) Wednesday, December 27th.
Please remember that i'm apparently doing this alone so please don't lead me to believe that you're coming if you're not 100% sure that you are. I really don't want to meet and greet myself, i already know who i am, i think
Any feed back, questions, a helping hand and suggestions are welcome. We really don't need a whole lot of time to plan this thing, like i said, it'll be like coming over to a friends place and having a few drinks.
LET'S MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!
xoxoArielxoxo
AWESOME * As i had said b4 more private things are really needed so ppl to get to know each other * Im really happy your doing this ... see my fav is the privatly rented venues that i do kinda like KRAMERS * but this i would really enjoy * 2 THUMBS UP SEXY*
