red said:
we may use the laws of physics to do these things, but how is that difference from using the technology we currently have to allow a lesbian couple to have a child. it is not against the laws of nature- it is just against your personal beliefs to which I say- too bad- it is none of your business.
Of course it's everyone's business who should be allowed to raise children! That's why there are laws protecting children, Children's Aid Societies, and laws governing adoption. Society has regulated who can raise children long before same sex marriage, same-sex adoption, and same-sex surrogate procreation were issues. Therefore, while the
effectiveness of existing laws in serving the best interests of children is questionable, we're well past debating whether society in general should have any say at all.
Many people question the wisdom of permitting same-sex couples to intentionally conceive (through some means) and parent children. Yes, some hetero parents are poor parents. We already have laws to deal with that. Yes, some same-sex parents may do a better job at parenting than some hetero parents, but who cares? Does anyone seriously take the position that children are equally well off without the influence of either a father (man) or mother (woman) to guide them in the ways of the world? I couldn't take someone seriously who so fundamentally misunderstands the different and important influences that a father and mother each have on a child.
Rather, much of this crusade, and the push for so-called "equality" for gays has more to do with gays seeking affirmation for their sexual orientation by seeking to appear more like hetero couples. However, that day is never coming. People will never see gay couples as "the same" as hetero couples. That doesn't mean there's anything "wrong" with being gay. Neither a rock nor an apple are evil, but they certainly aren't the same thing!
Gay rights activists have achieved many things. Being gay is socially acceptable. It is no bar to employment (in fact gays have higher average incomes than society generally). Gay sexuality is highly visible in all media. It's practically a crime in this country to say anything derogatory about gay sexuality or the gay community. Why isn't this enough? The answer may be that nothing is ever enough for people who need constant external confirmation about whether they are "normal".
Lets have a parade! Lets have a gay mayor! Lets have a gay prime minister! Let's make half the movies and television shows about the gay community. But lets not experiment with children.