Should I Offer to Pay Her?
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lol, ( the friendly kind). I wasnt actually expecting a reply. A rhetorical question designed to provoke thought.
but the same guys that want women to do that for us, would jump out of their skin ( vast majority of guys) that like/want uninhibited women. When it comes to themselves….not so much…
and the vast majority of men, don’t manscape. But we want and expect our women to. And as it relates to SPs. I have absolutely zero doubt what a review would read like if an SPs pits legs and pussy weren’t as smooth as a babies ass.
lmao another comment based on ignorance.
for the record post divorce had a 3 year relationship with a girl that loved bondage and being a sex slave. The kind of girl that would put a lot of PSEs to shame. And the kind of girl you pay hundreds of dollars for.
I point out that this is not a post about the simple exchange of services between a client and an escort. I suggest that this is a guy who has crossed the emotional line and mixed reality with fantasy - otherwise why would he put forward the suggestion that she does not expect to get compensated ? Look at the title of the thread - it's not how much but a desperate reassurance that this is possibly love and not a financial transaction. Maybe deep in the recesses of his mind he knows the answer and hence the lavish gifts.Dude, not sure if this whole story is true or not, but if it is, he just wanted to fuck her. He did. Nothing different from what any of us do here. The only difference is he didn't pay because she did not ask for it. Why be so judgemental and salty?
A lot of jealous guys on here
I did make comments on the escort/ lover based on what she told him being factual. It could be that she has no boyfriend, the boyfriend is simply a convenient method of milking a valuable asset without him trying to enter your personal space.
Is my reasoning flawed ? Possibly the his post is a cry for help. Everything is anonymous - what harm is there to offer an honest opinion rather than fuel the illusion ?
RichardG - my suggestion - if you think you have any emotional connection to this person, might I suggest an activity that doesn't end up with you fucking her ? A simple dinner ? If she sticks to the hotel, then you can safely assume that it is only financial and pay her accordingly. ( If she really is attracted only to your 12" tongue and dick - then payment isn't necessary.) If you land a dinner, talk about her and make it a point at the end of the dinner that your dick isn't doing all the decisions in your life.
As for the jealousy comment, I would be cautious assuming that your feelings reflect the board. I'm not jealous, I'm actually sad for this guy (if it's real).
BTW: I have no problems with escorts, I have had the privilege of meeting some wonderful service providers. Ditto SC dancers. I feel bad for those whose customers mistake entertainment/service for reality - it can be dangerous and quite scary. That is the primary focus of this post.
I love Terb - the posts, the comments - if I crossed the line let'er rip. If my feelings get hurt I have an 'OFF' button on my PC that cures everything.
What would you say the over/under is on how many posts in a Terb thread does it take for the whole topic to go totally off the rails? I'd say 5
Don’t know but if you want to talk tangents that are way off topic. I’m guessing the two of you are betting against yourselves
all it takes is for one or two comments, that become branches off the same tree trunk (topic).I’ve always felt, that’s kind of natural in any “discussion”. There’s a central tree trunk and…branches.
all it takes is for one or two comments, that become branches off the same tree trunk (topic).I’ve always felt, that’s kind of natural in any “discussion”. There’s a central tree trunk and…branches.
I point out that this is not a post about the simple exchange of services between a client and an escort. I suggest that this is a guy who has crossed the emotional line and mixed reality with fantasy - otherwise why would he put forward the suggestion that she does not expect to get compensated ? Look at the title of the thread - it's not how much but a desperate reassurance that this is possibly love and not a financial transaction. Maybe deep in the recesses of his mind he knows the answer and hence the lavish gifts.
I did make comments on the escort/ lover based on what she told him being factual. It could be that she has no boyfriend, the boyfriend is simply a convenient method of milking a valuable asset without him trying to enter your personal space.
Is my reasoning flawed ? Possibly the his post is a cry for help. Everything is anonymous - what harm is there to offer an honest opinion rather than fuel the illusion ?
RichardG - my suggestion - if you think you have any emotional connection to this person, might I suggest an activity that doesn't end up with you fucking her ? A simple dinner ? If she sticks to the hotel, then you can safely assume that it is only financial and pay her accordingly. ( If she really is attracted only to your 12" tongue and dick - then payment isn't necessary.) If you land a dinner, talk about her and make it a point at the end of the dinner that your dick isn't doing all the decisions in your life.
As for the jealousy comment, I would be cautious assuming that your feelings reflect the board. I'm not jealous, I'm actually sad for this guy (if it's real).
BTW: I have no problems with escorts, I have had the privilege of meeting some wonderful service providers. Ditto SC dancers. I feel bad for those whose customers mistake entertainment/service for reality - it can be dangerous and quite scary. That is the primary focus of this post.
I love Terb - the posts, the comments - if I crossed the line let'er rip. If my feelings get hurt I have an 'OFF' button on my PC that cures everything.
"I'm not jealous, I'm actually sad for this guy (if it's real). "
Yes we got that. Thanks for your concern.
sort of comes across as
Holy patronizing douchebag batman. Pontificate much?
Where is your thread voicing a high five or any concern ? Or do you just stay in the background throwing eggs at anyone who voices an opinion ?
Fortunately you can put me on ignore and save yourself from opinions that may exceed your attention span. It would also keep, your feeling of superiority intact.
I didn't feel any concern or the need to high five. That's why I stayed out of it. There seems to be a very active morality police on Terb anxious to weigh in and judge and moralize on extra marital sex and prostitution. Which is allowed. Just kind of ironic. Rain away on his parade if it makes you feel better and keeps your feelings of superiority intact.
Guys meets escort.
Guy pays and fucks escort.
Escort leaves business
Escort reconnects and fucks guy for free
Guy is happy, wallet full and cock drained
I don’t get why @IM469 is getting concerned for the OP or thinks it is sad. Isn’t this what all guys want?????
And again, I seriously don’t get how it is ok for men on this board to fuck escorts while married but women can’t fuck while in a relationship. I don’t get how a board full of “cheaters” can condemn someone for cheating all because she is the one with the vagina
Freedom.
Most people more-so guys then women seem to forget it’s a double edged sword.
At a guess Jenesis, it raises slight feelings of insecurity and/or ages old double standards where adulteress’s were stoned to death.
Your GF leaves you? She is free to do what she wants. Everyone is allowed to be happy. Your wife leaves you for her boss (true story )? She’s allowed to be happy. You want to fuck SPs on the side? Your allowed to be happy.
A SP gets engaged and wants to see an old client for a fling. She’s free to do what she wants.
Most people more-so guys then women seem to forget it’s a double edged sword.
At a guess Jenesis, it raises slight feelings of insecurity and/or ages old double standards where adulteress’s were stoned to death.
Your GF leaves you? She is free to do what she wants. Everyone is allowed to be happy. Your wife leaves you for her boss (true story )? She’s allowed to be happy. You want to fuck SPs on the side? Your allowed to be happy.
A SP gets engaged and wants to see an old client for a fling. She’s free to do what she wants.
Agree 100% with your statement.
Why did the OP start this thread "Should I Offer to Pay Her" ?
Was it to get attention, get responses and then have others argue among themselves.
On certain occassions its best to keep private life private, reserve comments and questions.
Threads like this is why I could never trust a woman.
Her fiance is out here busting his ass and she's seeing clients on the side.
Cold World.
Her fiance is out here busting his ass and she's seeing clients on the side.
Cold World.
She's weak between the legs. She will see you while married.
Been there done that...won't do it again. Had a dancer turned escort that would hit me up every time a relationship ended. We'd always say let's just go for drinks but it never ended up with just drinks. She went back to finish school & just dancing on Saturday nights. Ended up meeting a biz executive at the club she worked at & they hit it off. She quit dancing a few months later & would send some pics here & there of places she went with him on his trips. A year or so later she sends me a pic of a gorgeous engagement ring when he proposed in Paris. I message her back I'm so happy you found the right guy. A few months later I get a wedding invitation & message her thank you. She says let do lunch one day, so one Friday afternoon we go for lunch & she's looking beautiful as ever. We catch up, she show's me a ton of pics of the house they bought & their travels & we have a few drinks then she says...you know the hotel across the street was where you first ravaged me? I'm like yeah fond memories of that & she says well I'm not a married woman yet giggly. We talked a bit more & she says what would it matter if we had one final romp? I was like hold on let me call my girlfriend & see what she says & you call your fiance & see what he says & if everybody agrees will tear the place up. She looks at me in disgust & says when did you grow a conscience. The conversation & lunch kind of soured after that & we haven't spoken since.
I guess I still have a few morals even with all the bad things I've done...
I guess I still have a few morals even with all the bad things I've done...
and women are suppose to trust men?
They are at working, cooking, cleaning, raising children, busting their ass all day and men are out here reviewing women they see.
What’s the difference? You judge men with that same brush?
