Should I Offer to Pay Her?

[Not getting younger]

But there's always a double standard for both genders.

I'll never the whole Elian Gonzalez controversy back in 2000.

Mom and him defect to Miami in a raft but drown and two fisherman find him in a tube and hand him off to the U.S Guard.

The farther in Cuba finds out and wants him back and it becomes a major international controversy. Had the tables been flipped where the father drown and the mom wanted the kid back in Cuba, nobody would have known who the fuck the kid was and she would have had him back in a heart beat.

there is some truth to that. I think we can all agree. But in the context of gender roles related to sex etc ( this thread, this forum). One SP I saw sometime ago showed me pics of what she looks like in her street clothes with no makeup. I asked her if she’d be willing to see me again without…….

how many guys spend and hour two making sure they look pretty….how many manscape before heading to appointments, and we know, or should know that “body image” issues are a real thing.

Jenesis is absolutely spot on.
“Go get dude, you da champ”
vs
“She’s a gold digging whore”

 

[squeezer]

Don't offer to pay. I wouldn't give her a birthday present either-taking her out for a nice dinner is enough.

She should pay for the room too since she suggested it- counter by offering to split it.

I know you're not going to take any of my advice but she'll be more attracted to you if you follow my advice instead if simping which is your plan.

I bet you do great with the ladies eh? LMAO

@RichardG2020 well played! Definitely go for it again as long as you keep your feelings in check, just bang enjoy n go brother.

 

[LC18]

You really didn’t need to insert screenshots @RichardG2020 like I said, if it’s true good for you if it’s not then too bad.

It would be pretty hypocritical for most of us to shame that woman because she’s cheating.

Most of my clients are married and I’m pretty sure a good portion of this website’s users are married. It’s just funny that decided to cheat with a former client.

You must have really been a good one then

 

[Jenesis]

You really didn’t need to insert screenshots @RichardG2020 like I said, if it’s true good for you if it’s not then too bad.

It would be pretty hypocritical for most of us to shame that woman because she’s cheating.

Most of my clients are married and I’m pretty sure a good portion of this website’s users are married. It’s just funny that decided to cheat with a former client.

You must have really been a good one then

I hope you didn’t think my post was about yours. I get what you are saying. It would take a certain type of client for a former SP to go cheat with. So that says a lot about the OP in my opinion.

But when I brought up double standards, I wasn’t referring to your post. You were not condemning her for her choice like others were.

 

[dirtyharry555]

She did tell me that when she does get married next year, then she’ll definitely stop seeing me.

You shouldn't have much concern about this. She's engaged and cheating on her main squeeze. She's not wife material... can't be trusted and is incapable of pair bonding due to excess intake of cock in her past... you know what they say about hookers and housewives.

She'll be single again in the future.

 

[dirtyharry555]

The double standards men and society have for/towards women are at times comical, usually just sad.

Nah. How many women do you know that willingly drop $800+ on a man for a date night?

There are benefits to being one sex versus the other, and there is no standard for both to meet equally.

For example, women don't like virgin men. It's a turn-off. They find men that have slept with women more desirable... he's past the litmus test of other women.

Men are the opposite. The more innocent and pure, the more desirable she is to most men.

That's just the way men and women are built.

Maybe it’s because I have two daughters, my “world” views are that of a father.

There's a time to play father and a time to be daddy.

 

[johnd5050]

Really, Penthouse Forum?

Okay, Boomer.

When are you posting the video on Porn Hub ?

 

[Greytop19]

I offered to get her an Apple Watch to help with her running, but she already had one, so I suggested Lululemon so she could look sexy when she’s running. It turned out that she loves Lulu.

We didn’t get around to dining out, so I saved around $200 there.

Next time offer a watch she will accept like a Patek Philippe Nautilus Ladies automatic.

 

[Not getting younger]

Not sure you understand what a double standard is Dirtyharry.

in essence.
Do as I say, not as I do.
Don’t ask others to do something you aren’t willing to do…..Say like kiss with juices dripping off Chins.

 

[dirtyharry555]

Not sure you understand what a double standard is Dirtyharry.

The dictionary defines it as:
"a rule or principle which is unfairly applied in different ways to different people or groups. "

No principle is being misapplied here. In fact, they're being applied appropriately based on the different desires, capabilities, and needs of men vs women.

Cock is readily available. Pussy much less so. This is why some men are willing to drop $800 on an evening for it. Market availability. That availability is regulated based on the different nature of men and women.

It's amusing to watch "learned" folks bend themselves into a pretzel trying to fit men and women into the same box. It's not possible. The intention is good, but it's grossly misguided. It's the same line of thinking that says a man can decide to become a woman. That's not possible either.. sex is not interchangeable.

 

[Not getting younger]

Fine.
Are you open ( uninhibited enough) to LFK? Or DFK when their mouths are full.

Do you like your women groomed? Shaved pits, legs, genitals. And if so, how would you react to a SP with hairy legs/pits. And do you manscape yourself?

 

[dirtyharry555]

Fine.
Are you open ( uninhibited enough) to LFK? Or DFK when their mouths are full.

I don't do LFK, DFK, nor DATY with SPs.

I eat with my mouth so I prefer not to have other men's juices in it.

Do you like your women groomed? Shaved pits, legs, genitals. And if so, how would you react to a SP with hairy legs/pits. And do you manscape yourself?

Yes, I like a woman groomed with good hygiene. I do the same for them. It's just being considerate.

 

[massman]

Dude, not sure if this whole story is true or not, but if it is, he just wanted to fuck her. He did. Nothing different from what any of us do here. The only difference is he didn't pay because she did not ask for it. Why be so judgemental and salty?

A lot of jealous guys on here

Yup, basically just a bit of fun between two consenting adults. Best not to be too moralistic given where we are.

 

[dirtyharry555]

Yikes. Do you think they don't clean up?

If brushing teeth and using mouthwash was so effective, we wouldn't need a visit to the dentist for thorough cleaning.

There's no way that you're not ingesting remnants of a half dozen (or more) other men's loads when you're DFKing an SP.

 

[Greytop19]

He is jealous and is just tryna ensure OP doesn't get laid so he can feel better about himself not having such opportunities

OK...whatever....

 

[Greytop19]

Dude, not sure if this whole story is true or not, but if it is, he just wanted to fuck her. He did. Nothing different from what any of us do here. The only difference is he didn't pay because she did not ask for it. Why be so judgemental and salty?

A lot of jealous guys on here

Thank you Judge

 

[dirtyharry555]

We go to the dentist for a thorough cleaning not because brushing and mouthwash aren't effective, but because lot of people don't floss daily. Your statement is wholly unscientific and silly. But you do you.

I floss and I still go to the dentist for a thorough cleaning. I didn't know that regular scheduled visits to the dentist were predicated on merely flossing daily.

But if that's the "science" that you use that determines whether you go to your dentist, you do you.

 

[dirtyharry555]

Most of us don't or can't floss properly and food particles get in deep sometimes

Do you know what else gets caught in and around those food particles deep inside? The juices of dozens of other men in the mouth of the SP that you DFK.

Different strokes for different folks. I'm not judging your decision to DFK. Not sure what your gripe is that I decide not to.

 

[Jenesis]

Only on TERB can a thread go from asking a question to a penthouse review to a debate about oral hygiene.

 

[massman]

Do you know what else gets caught in and around those food particles deep inside? The juices of dozens of other men in the mouth of the SP that you DFK.

Different strokes for different folks. I'm not judging your decision to DFK. Not sure what your gripe is that I decide not to.

What if she uses a Phillips Sonicare??