Seeing ladies without their consent

[Josephine]

I know this is nothing fun to talk about but...

This is a reminder that no means no.

If the ladies that you try to book doesn't want to see you, she has therefore removed her consent. Any further attempt wether by changing your infos or booking a duo with her partner and her is considered rape by deception.

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Your money does not negate our consent. You are not entitled to see escort who doesnt want to see you just because you pay.

I witnessed recently many situations like that with myself and others.

As an example, someone I have seen and blocked many years ago decided to go through my duo partner to book me. No email was sent to me to even try to apologize. He was about to just let me pick him up in the parking and probably take advantage of the fact that my partner was upstairs so I might not be able to say no. Thank God I found out prior. Same day, but she wasnt there yet.

Stop clowning around. This is our body. Same with guys we refused at first intro. There is a reason we did. Learn to move on. We are litteraly saving you time, money and a bad session.

 

[squeezer]

Trying to book someone who doesn't want to be with you is something I've never been able to figure out. Regardless of whether it's for pay or in the civvie world, it's just nuts.

 

[Josephine]

Trying to book someone who doesn't want to be with you is something I've never been able to figure out. Regardless of whether it's for pay or in the civvie world, it's just nuts.

I think facing rejection is hard and I get it. But it's not personal. Sometimes it just wont or has not been a good fit. Some younger gents needs to learn to put their ego aside.

 

[rhuarc29]

Eesh...yeah, that should go without saying. I've never been in this situation, but if I were I'd probably be too embarrassed to even try to pull such a shenanigan.

 

[Ahri]

I think facing rejection is hard and I get it. But it's not personal. Sometimes it just wont or has not been a good fit. Some younger gents needs to learn to put their ego aside.

Well said. Luckily most of my clients have all been pleasant but I do agree some of the younger gents needs to put their ego aside

 

[The Options Menu]

Eesh...yeah, that should go without saying. I've never been in this situation, but if I were I'd probably be too embarrassed to even try to pull such a shenanigan.

I can't imagine what a guy expects to happen if they were to succeed in seeing a provider using some "scheme". Every sense in a provider's (or any woman's) head would have to be screaming, "Danger! Danger!". Assuming you don't get thrown out, beat up, or the cops called on you how do you expect that session to go? Don't delude yourself into stalking, sexual harassment, sexual assault, or rape.

 

[Sonic Temple]

I think facing rejection is hard and I get it. But it's not personal. Sometimes it just wont or has not been a good fit. Some younger gents needs to learn to put their ego aside.

Putting their ego aside will come with time and maturity - heck it may not come at all but agree that for many - especially the young rejection my be hard - no excuses but agree.

Trying to book someone who doesn't want to be with you is something I've never been able to figure out. Regardless of whether it's for pay or in the civvie world, it's just nuts.

On board mate - never understood why you want to see someone that doesn't want you.

 

[opieshuffle]

It’s control and entitlement. You don’t get to tell me no and I’m gonna show you why basically

I would add there are guys who just can't believe they're not "the shit". They think they're the smartest / funniest / most handsome and if the SP would just meet them, they'd fall head over heels.

 

[squeezer]

It’s control and entitlement. You don’t get to tell me no and I’m gonna show you why basically

I can see that, but logically (although they are probably delusional), what do they believe the outcome will be at the door? Do they convince themselves that once the escort sees them again in person, she will not be able to resist them and their $$$$?

 

[Sa10]

restraining order. That will teach them.

 

[Josephine]

restraining order. That will teach them.

They get your adress with a restraining order me think.

 

[Josephine]

In another thread, escort got beat up in “random assault”, not surprised if escort did not reject someone in some classy manner. It’s not personal, sure. If it’s not personal, why single that person out LOL.

Ill let the members take care of you...if I start, we wont see the end of it.

 

[Josephine]

They don’t care about comfort at that point, they are hoping to cause discomfort as punishment for you not seeing them so at that point all cards are on the table

^^^ this. It's so disturbing

 

[Sa10]

They get your adress with a restraining order me think.

I didn’t actually know that. That sounds counterintuitive

 

[Josephine]

I didn’t actually know that. That sounds counterintuitive

I might be wrong tho....

 

[shakenbake]

I might be wrong tho....

The creep would have the lady’s address already. How else would he know where to try to see her? And, I think that the courts would protect that information from the perpetrator, anyway, for protection purposes.

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

In another thread, escort got beat up in “random assault”, not surprised if escort did not reject someone in some classy manner. It’s not personal, sure. If it’s not personal, why single that person out LOL.

Are you saying that if an escort was assaulted because she angrily refused service to someone, or wasn't "classy" about it, she deserves to be assaulted?
Surely, you are not that insane.

 

[Josephine]

The creep would have the lady’s address already. How else would he know where to try to see her? And, I think that the courts would protect that information from the perpetrator, anyway, for protection purposes.

Would they put the agency/incall adress or your own? Nevertheless I dont think a restraining order is so efficient. He would probably just become more angry.

 

[squeezer]

In another thread, escort got beat up in “random assault”, not surprised if escort did not reject someone in some classy manner. It’s not personal, sure. If it’s not personal, why single that person out LOL.

You're trolling, aren't you?

 

[The Options Menu]

In another thread, escort got beat up in “random assault”, not surprised if escort did not reject someone in some classy manner. It’s not personal, sure. If it’s not personal, why single that person out LOL.

The provider in the thread in question is the kind of provider that goes out of her way to try to establish a rapport, and connection, with her clients. I've only seen her the once, and I've communicated with her a bit, mostly while trying to re-book. She strikes me as a very nice person. It's unlikely that she rudely told someone to pound sand, at least without a great deal of provocation. Even if she did (and it:s not fair to wildly speculate) there is no world in which she deserved that.