S & C you're pretty deluded. There are times when it simply isn't possible to pickup and/or bang a particular woman. If you think that any sort of any sort of psycho-babble is going to produce natural miracles, you're reaching beyond your means. I've known guys that can pickup almost any woman in a bar, and they don't do it through any sort of machismo. Simply put, they're good looking, easy going, and charismatic. Women feel comfortable around them, they're confident, but at the same time easy to relax around.
You say that women are the architects of your scheme, don't you think that they'd be able to see through the little ploys then? I'm not saying all can, but many women will. Pick on the emotionally vulnerable and you will probably achieve the results you advertise. In the end, the results you offer are patently absurd. The common sense rules would make many men much more appealing to women than they currently are. Grooming yourself, being more attentive, more confident and laid back are well known rules to being more attractive, no one needs to buy a CD to tell them that.
People would also be surprised to learn how much more attractive they are than they think. It wasn't until well after high school that I found out many of the girls I had crushes on felt the same way about me. Has anything changed since then? No. But I date an enormous amount more than back then. If you want a challenge, send me a PM. I know a woman who's very attractive, in her late 20's, and who's father is worth more than ~$200M. She recently is divorced and one of the most selfish people I know. I used to be good friends with her and I know that there's no way in hell you'll even get past the "How youuuuuuu a doin'?" line. Given her personal wealth, I don't think you need a G note to have vested interest in this venture. Conquer her, and maybe you'll convince me otherwise that your schemes aren't just bravado.