Reviews... Just my 2¢

[Resetset]

Have at it partner. "Unofficially review me" whatever that means.
I came on here and composed something well written and tried to be unbiased on both sides and you want to be a smart-ass.

I can appreciate a bit of sarcasm. If it's adding some type of meaningful contribution to the discussion. Didn't your mom teach you if you don't have anything nice to say just don't say it at all? Were you not hugged enough as a child?

hope this made you feel funny and hopefully you can appreciate my sarcasm in return right? Fair is fair.

Anyways I wasn't trying to be rude but if you'd like to have a laugh at my expense I hope that made you feel special. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday

You seem like a straight up honest woman. If there's something in someones review you want to call out call it out. Business owners on Google reviews do.

 

[D'arcy]

Come on, maybe his humour(?) didn't strike you as funny, but even if it is a smart ass comment, it wasn't at your expense.

Read it again and imagine him just wanting to engage, not laugh at you. At least thats IMHO.

Did I misread that? Oh my God maybd I totally misread that. Working against me are the fact that I am blonde LOL & I'm really fucking stoned.

So if he was joking then let me slowly pull my foot out of my mouth and say that I'm totally fucking sorry. Like I said I smoke a lot of weed. Confusion happens my apologies!

 

[Kurt]

maybe a better system would be a rating system like Uber were the client can rate the SW and the SW can rate the client.
No details just 5 Stars for exceptional service.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

Did I misread that? Oh my God maybd I totally misread that. Working against me are the fact that I am blonde LOL & I'm really fucking stoned.

So if he was joking then let me slowly pull my foot out of my mouth and say that I'm totally fucking sorry. Like I said I smoke a lot of weed. Confusion happens my apologies!

I don’t think you misread it.

 

[blackjackshelac]

You be you Darcy, thats what makes you so spectacular and if they don't like it fuck them.! Well said gorgeous!

 

[black booty lover]

I loved reading reviews about myself and then I started to notice that the reviews were getting a little sketchy. I'm all about reviews that are an actual reflection of who I am and what I'm about

Unfortunately this comes with the territory when it comes to the internet.

Go read a review on almost any restaurant in Toronto. You'll read two reviews about how great it is, and the next one will talk about how it's the worst restaurant on the planet.

Read reviews on "All Inclusive" resorts, same thing. One person will make you think your headed to paradise, and the next review makes you think it might be some kind of Mexican prison.

All you can really do is hope that people can read between the lines, and in the end the majority of things written about you will shine a light on what kind of provider you are.

 

[y2kmark]

Foolproof, sure fire way to implement a no review policy - never advertise anywhere as a SW...

 

[D'arcy]

Foolproof, sure fire way to implement a no review policy - never advertise anywhere as a SW...

I DIDNT say I had an NRP. I've actually repeated that I don't have one... Several times in this thread

 

[Bagilson]

SPs commercialize sex, turn it into a service. You can’t do this and expect the same level of privacy you’d get from a boyfriend. Have you tried the sugar baby route?

 

[y2kmark]

I DIDNT say I had an NRP. I've actually repeated that I don't have one... Several times in this thread

OK, I skip around sometimes. Don't reviews tend to go with being in a market? Accounts of advertisers on Terb seem to get moderated pretty closely. Maybe provide us with a glossary of politically incorrect terminology. For example, how about surgically enhanced breasts. That's a real mouthful(pun intended), but bolt-ons and manmades are the only nomenclature I can think of. Maybe you just want all potential negatives left off of reviews entirely?...

 

[Jenesis]

I have a please ask first policy. Well maybe not policy but request and because I give great service and am as advertised - it is respected.

I have had a few do it without asking and that is fine too. I just prefer to be asked because of the admin work involved afterward.

For example - I just did my last tour to Barrie and Burlington for this touring season. I take the winter off from going to those places because - snow. LOL.

So if someone wrote a review about me from this last visit - I would get a bunch of inquires that I would then have to reply that I’m not going back until spring - blah blah blah. Which is fine as well but if I can avoid that extra work, I would like too.

Same with when I take time off which I do a lot. For a couple of months every year. Sometimes for just a break, sometimes because my mainstream business is getting to busy.

So timing of reviews is what I worry about the most and is why I ask to be asked first.

 

[Bushdoc]

There's also the severely dehumanizing aspect of a lot of reviews that go into far too much detail.

It would be better if reviews kind of eluded to what happened, instead of reading like a play-by-play of the entire session. Like let them know subtly why they should go see the girl. Go ahead and say she sucked a great dick but I mean it doesn't need to get sooooooo explicit

I totally get that perspective. But personally, I really enjoy reading some juicy details or even play-by-play reviews. If someone just writes "she sucked a great dick", or the dreaded "I don't like to go into details...but she was awesome" that leaves me wanting to know more. We all like different things, there are a lot of options out there, so I want to know what made it great.

Also, the very detailed ones can give you a bit of a window into the reviewer's perspective and sometimes help gauge if you should take some of their opinions with a grain of salt. When reading those play-by-play reviews, I keep in mind that YMMV, but reading those details can get me really excited and help me decide who to see. I don't hobby often so picking a new SP is probably bigger decision for me than it should be . So I like to go into some detail when writing my reviews too, for guys like me.

But too much detail is a concern. Partly because it seems a little crass to share EVERYTHING, and if an SP has made an effort to give a good time, I don't want to make her uncomfortable or cause her problems with what I post publicly. So what I do is ask at the end of the session if she wants a detailed review right now. If she says yes, I'll let her know she can check it out before I post it, if she wants. (That's just to give her a chance to say if there's anything uncomfortably detailed or a service she provided that she doesn't want every guy requesting.)

Another thing I think is good advice for people about to post a detailed review: start it off with a brief one or two sentence review at the top, for those who aren't in the mood to read through all the nitty gritty details.
Here's one I wrote that I think is an OK balance between not needing to go into a play-by-play of the entire session, but still includes some juicy details of the highlights for those who want to know.

 

[Jenesis]

I don’t like pics in reviews. I think that is wrong and only because when a lady retires, she usually wants all her pics and ads to just go away. I know I do. When I am done escorting, I want all my stuff gone. I manage all my stuff purposely this way. I make sure my ads are not stolen to other sites, have gotten sites shut down that steal my ads and photos.

She posted face pics / the girl you reviewed. What if she gets married in 10 years and regrets having those pics up because she is starting to have kids. Now someone has taken her pics and posted them somewhere where she has no control over them or their removal. Where she would be able to just delete her ad and they would be gone.

Now I know once something is on the net - blah blah blah. I get that but maybe thinking about the escort in this case is the better route then to fulfil some need to have a “great” reviews

 

[Bushdoc]

I don’t like pics in reviews. I think that is wrong and only because when a lady retires, she usually wants all her pics and ads to just go away.

That's a good point. Like I said, I checked with the SP beforehand. She actually sent me the pics to use for that review.

I could be wrong, but I think if you just "insert image by URL", as opposed to downloading them and uploading them, the links here get broken and the images disappear if they get removed from the original site.

 

[Jenesis]

That's a good point. Like I said, I checked with the SP beforehand. She actually sent me the pics to use for that review.

I could be wrong, but I think if you just "insert image by URL", as opposed to downloading them and uploading them, the links here get broken and the images disappear if they get removed from the original site. I've seen that happen to pics I've posted in the various photo threads.

This is true. If you link the URL of the original photo, when she removes the ad/website the pics will be gone as well. It is when you use an image hosting site that she no longer has control. So if putting a pic, link the URL to her controlled ad/website so when she removes, it is all removed. That is a good happy compromise

And I’m sorry. I should have been more clear.

 

[Mandalorian]

Just be aware there are guys here who makes it a side hobby to collect and save all sorts of images on private Google drives. If you think you can simply delete all your pics when you retire, you!re extremely naive. Best thing is just post what you’re comfortable showing with identifying features blacked out.

 

[Mandalorian]

Personally I like reviews that are just clear, concise and short, like coles notes. Anything with gratuitous details, long opinions or hurtful comments have no place here.

 

[Jenesis]

Just be aware there are guys here who makes it a side hobby to collect and save all sorts of images on private Google drives. If you think you can simply delete all your pics when you retire, you!re extremely naive. Best thing is just post what you’re comfortable showing with identifying features blacked out.

That is still private. Not public. There is a difference.but I get it. Already said what is posted is posted.

I’m just saying - think about the escort you enjoyed and are reviewing and maybe be nice about posting pics of them.

 

[I'm still beautiful]

That is still private. Not public. There is a difference.but I get it. Already said what is posted is posted.

I’m just saying - think about the escort you enjoyed and are reviewing and maybe be nice about posting pics of them.

Re: pics.

When a lady posts face pics, it's out there forever. No matter what she does. Someone will have a copy of her pics. If someone posts it during her time as an SP, then it's fair game IMHO. When she retires, not so much but as above, someone will have a copy.

A recent incident by a well known member here, got him in hot water when he posted a likeness of an SP but it was a well known SPs face he used (when she did post face pics)....come to think of it, I believe it was one of her personal social media profile pics he used (yes I know her well). She caught it and got it taken down but now he's banned from ever seeing her.

I say this to my faves. Don't ever show your face. Don't give away personal info (real name, town you live in, car you drive, personal social media) unless you 100% trust the person. Even giving that info out to other SPs can lead to nefarious behavior. Girls can be absolute bitches to each other.

Unless you 100% are going to be invested in your lifelong career as an escort and come out to everyone around you and can take the criticism, just don't give away anything personal.

 

[Lv Wmn]

I have a please ask first policy. Well maybe not policy but request and because I give great service and am as advertised - it is respected.

I have had a few do it without asking and that is fine too. I just prefer to be asked because of the admin work involved afterward.

For example - I just did my last tour to Barrie and Burlington for this touring season. I take the winter off from going to those places because - snow. LOL.

So if someone wrote a review about me from this last visit - I would get a bunch of inquires that I would then have to reply that I’m not going back until spring - blah blah blah. Which is fine as well but if I can avoid that extra work, I would like too.

Same with when I take time off which I do a lot. For a couple of months every year. Sometimes for just a break, sometimes because my mainstream business is getting to busy.

So timing of reviews is what I worry about the most and is why I ask to be asked first.

This is pretty reasonable IMO. I may after seeing someone contact them and ask if they would like me to post a review, give them my name here and tell them it would be similar to anything I have previously posted and let them decide.