Social media was supposed to help connect us, but I swear it's done the opposite. Instead it's become a platform for perpetuating vanity and envy, for mob justice, and for obsession. Social media has given us little good and a whole lot of bad.
what do you know about my love life? absolutely nothing lol. given the OP's post, i would say my dating life is infinitely more successful. the fact that you automatically believe that sex work would have a detrimental effect on a relationship kind of proves how narrow-minded your view of relationships is.I wouldn't be so quick to judge like that...Many members here have significant others...
One can also argue: Who are you to pass judgement like given the impact of your line of work on your love life?
Overall, the equation is never that simple.
oh ok, so when you indicated TERB wasn't a good representative sample of well-balanced, non-toxic women, you were using me as your sole sample source? oh ok that makes so much sense lol. if you're going to steal my jokes, you're going to have to try a bit harder in the execution. and oh, you decided to PERSONALLY insult me when i wasn't talking to you? ok lol, quite the little attention seeker.I was not referring to sex workers, plural . My post was responding to you, personally.
Nor did I "hate on" you because you are a sex worker.
You argument trying to veil your attack on the OP as "pointing out an obvious fact" fails.
I just find your posts to be vituperative and toxic to just about every discussion you post in. Andit is always pretty contemptuous of men. I observed your frantic flailing and spewing in the SD thread and resisted posting as it is so clear that not one person agreed with you anyways. You had enough piling on.
Oh, I do more than "cruise". I use TERB for its intended purpose. I write reviews. I read the agency and independent ads and as a result I am a customer.
And one more thing... TERB is not a "Sex Worker's Forum" . Assuming you intended to use an apostrophe to denote possession of the forum.
So just a reminder.... TERB is a forum where customers review sex workers. Not a place I interfere with you as a "sex worker" you use to belittle and shit on your potential clients.
seriously lmaoI love how male members with way more posts/yr or on average than women who actually utilize this site for business as well as social purposes are saying how women misuse social media more than men. As usual the hypocrisy abounds with some on here.
yes, that's my third point lolHere's a thought for you. Perhaps change your "type" of woman you are looking for and you may have a better success in the long run! I have a buddy who would constantly end up with the crazies until I pointed it out to him, they all share similar personalities, similar taste, similar temperaments and I said to him, why not change that up a little bit? Lo and be hold, he did! Now he is with a great woman for the last 4 years and he is the happiest I have ever seen from him in the last 15+ or so years.
People tend to get caught in the same cycle and unable to break that trap/cycle.
we're not really talking about me here, but the way you deflect from the topic at hand, which happens to be YOUR relationship issues, by assuming things about me, which you know nothing about, seems to suggest the root of your problem here.I think you may have a pretty good idea about women being addicted to social media. Lol.
Would you be able to not spend the amount of hours a week you waste on social media for a guy.......any guy?
To address your point OP. If a woman I’m dating starts texting nonsense or checking social media during our date. 2 things happen:My last two girlfreinds have been a nightmare. Reason why social media and them being constantly on it (addicted) specfically instagram. They where spending way to much time on it and i was never sure what they where doing or talking to. I have no problem with them being on it once i awhile keeping in touch with freinds and family but spending hours on it everyday and then who knows how much time on the weekends was a real problem for me.
Its a real relationship killer and the best i can figure why women are on it so much is attention. I cant see myself in a real relationship these days with the cell phone so powerful in peoples lives. Im not going to compete with it for my girls attention.
Anyone else having issues with your SO being on her phone and social media way to much.
I never meant to pass a judgement on OP but I don't think we are talking about escort here, but serious relationship. If the young hot 20 yrs old pussies are all addicted to social media maybe go for a still very young hot late 20's pussy and see what happen. The only point that I am trying to make here is that you cannot make the same mistake over and over and keep wondering why. No offence to the Op.You cannot obviously change a generation.Dawn lee and the other SP please sit down
OP is talking about hot young pussy in college/early 20s that is obviously addicted to Instagram and attention. It’s a societal problem, young men are addicted too but for young women it’s much more prevalent
This doesn’t apply to you because you’re a decade older and don’t face the same social pressure. Instead of denying it and trying to fault the OP just discuss the issue at hand.
how do you know that's what he's talking about lol? he didn't mention how old his girlfriends were. i'm still in my 20s, although i can see how hard you're trying to make this about me lmao.Dawn lee and the other SP please sit down
OP is talking about hot young pussy in college/early 20s that is obviously addicted to Instagram and attention. It’s a societal problem, young men are addicted too but for young women it’s much more prevalent
This doesn’t apply to you because you’re a decade older and don’t face the same social pressure. Instead of denying it and trying to fault the OP just discuss the issue at hand.
Because any woman 30+ who still obsessed over Instagram is either;how do you know that's what he's talking about lol? he didn't mention how old his girlfriends were. i'm still in my 20s, although i can see how hard you're trying to make this about me lmao.
actually ALL women face the same pressures to look good, on social media and off social media. that's not really the issue at all. you can look good on social media while still feeling like you want to put down the phone and focus on your partner BECAUSE HE'S WORTH IT AND MORE INTERESTING than your instagram timeline. they're not mutually exclusive at all lol.
The first Smartphone, the Blackberry was a business oriented device with high security features.Women with their phones are to blame for the breakdown of the social contract between the sexes and yet it's a man who invented the cell.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martin_Cooper_(inventor)
Gone are the days where you can just sit and watch the world go by.A lot has certainly changed in how we interact.
Nowadays, if you go into a coffee shop like Starbucks to drink coffee, without a smartphone or laptop, you're a weirdo LOL
His view of sugar babies is way off base as are most of his viewsNor would any guy post incessantly on an escort review site without ever posting a single review. What's your point Mr. Eunuch?
I have so much admiration for you to admit it! It is true that it is hard to stay away. In my case I am not big on social media but I pass the time reading the forum. It keeps me entertained. I wasn't like that before.Its not their fault. Its part of the culture...it imprisons people. Its hard...I struggle with this every day. Luckily I haven’t posted any personal shit online but I struggle not touching my phone, not checking on social media, not posting on terb, it gives me anxiety sometimes if I am missing the phone for more then a few minutes and the device is not on me to allow me to lead multiple lifestyles with my core identity with fake aliases. I am consciously now tying to break this and have made progress but I struggle with it on the daily like an addiction. I can only imagine how bad it is for these younger generations especially the teens and the people in their 20s...for reference I am in my late 30s...its not their fault, some of them don't even see or realize its a problem and can’t see whats happening until it becomes too late and starts affecting their life and depression sets in deep down. They think this is normal, they see it al around them, they think this is part of life. Its a viscous downward cycle. It will only get worse...this is just the tip of the iceberg, its affecting a lot of people. Some of you are so lucky you escaped this...a lot of people can’t even see.