that makes zero sense. The grand father rate is the rate. All that happens is because you're a regular client so they're not charging their new higher rates. If you been them for years at a certain rate, your now going to feel uncomfortable not paying the rate you've already been paying for years?
Google the term "elasticity of demand". Understanding the concept should provide some insight...
I know i tried it. Until the girl canceled me twice. I then discovered that however great i am i will get second to any client going full rate.
Agree
That's exactly my thought process. If my regular who I see usually 1-2x a month raised her rates, I'd still see her but with decreased frequency. Certain months if I can tell her up-front that I want to see her 2x that month, she actually discounts $75 from her two hour rate for me. No, I didn't ask her for it, she was the one who proposed it and said she rather see me 2x a month at a slight discount than 1x a month at the 'full' rate. I'd say win-win for both of us.
You have to reward good business. I know few won't agree with me because it's intimacy and personal, but I let that at the door the day I decided to put a price on it.
I'll add that yes, the whole thing here is transactional and feelings have no place but you can't tell me with a 'regular' there isn't intimacy and trust that gets built over time. That sexual intimacy when you are repeating whether with a 'civie' or an 'SP' is what makes sex so good. With my regular (not always), I have sent her the full amount up-front many times and many times I have sent her the EMT and I have had to remind her a week after to accept it.
That’s also a matter of more accessible rates might attract too many people which I don’t want. I like that not as many people contact me. I have lighter days and don’t see too many people (for my liking)
Thats something I’ve always tried to do. I prefer longer bookings because in my opinion they feel more natural and we can both take our time. I’ve structured my rates so that it makes more sense to book longer dates than shorter ones.
In my experience, men saying things like this aren’t taken seriously.
You probably didn’t know but: The racial history of the grandfather clause
I'm not sure why that is, but you would know better then me. Maybe cause they hear it all the time.
It's called carrot dangling hun. Not 1 client that promises to be a regular will actually become one. It does the same effect to us as:
It is has Josephine said - it is a bullshit carrot dangling line. If you are going to be a regular, just be one. Why do we need to know in the first contact that you want to be one? All you are really trying to ensure is that you personally get the best service with this line. It has nothing to do with us. Half the clientele out there are looking for a regular. The other half want variety. There is really only the two options. A good provide knows how to give her best all the time so that those looking for a regular will just become one and those looking for variety will always have a spot for you in their spank bank. At least that is how I operate.
It's a true nightmare! The traffic start at my exit and I can see all the car in a line at Lakeshore
Oh no lol once again me not expressing myself properly. Offering discount is frowned upon because they say that since it's human to human you shouldn't do that. But I am a bit tired of this pocket watching like someone said. I entirely agree with you.
